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title: 'VTuber Deme "Apologized" to Me'
source: 'https://youtube.com/watch?v=k2pGwWknmEQ'
video_id: 'k2pGwWknmEQ'
date: 2026-06-18
duration_sec: 1079
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# VTuber Deme "Apologized" to Me

> Source: [VTuber Deme "Apologized" to Me](https://youtube.com/watch?v=k2pGwWknmEQ)

## Summary

The video details a controversy involving VTuber Demi, who publicly apologized to the narrator after a week of escalating drama. The conflict began when Demi was accused of hypocrisy for banning NSFW content of her model while retweeting it, leading to personal attacks and a massive backlash. The narrator ultimately rejects the apology, citing its insincerity and continued false accusations.

### Key Points

- **Initial Hypocrisy** [0:20] — Demi posted that she didn't want NSFW content of her model, then retweeted NSFW content of it within hours.
- **Personal Attack** [1:01] — When called a 'virtue signaler,' Demi attacked the narrator personally, referencing his fiance cheating on him.
- **Massive Backlash** [1:40] — 95-98% of comments on Demi's post were negative, showing overwhelming public support for the narrator.
- **Contradictory Statements** [2:18] — Demi claimed to care about men's mental health but said she didn't care about the narrator's mental health.
- **Non-Apology Apology** [4:53] — Demi's public apology included backhanded remarks and failed to address false accusations of pedophilia and rape.
- **Insincere Intentions** [10:36] — In Discord, Demi said the apology was not for the narrator or his supporters, but for her own community.
- **Apology Rejected** [15:08] — The narrator rejects the apology due to insincerity, continued attacks, and lack of accountability for false accusations.

## Transcript

The VTuber Demi has officially
apologized to me earlier this morning.
And this was the response that I
received that was basically addressed to
me for the entire world to be able to
see. And um I will cover this and read
this all in just a second if I accept or
do not accept this apology, but I would
like to remind everybody on how we got
here to begin with. It all starts with
this initial post from Demi where she
basically says that she does not want
NSFW content of her Vtubing model
created. At first glance, that's fine.
That's a fine ask. However, within two
to three hours after she made this, she
retweets NSFW of her character model.
Obviously, me and so many others started
calling her out about how this is just
basically performative. It's
hypocritical. And I basically said
virtue signaling. And instead of Demi
responding this to clarify, you know,
basically the stance that, you know,
why, you know, she did this or, you
know, like why, you know, it's not
hypocritical, she instantly responds
with a personal attack against me,
saying, "Wait, oh my god, aren't you the
guy whose fiance literally cheated on
you and your whole friend group sided
with her, LMFAO?" And instead of
basically answering or anything or
trying to explain herself about being a
hypocrite and me basically saying a
virtue signaler, she responds with a
personal attack that comes at me. Now,
I'm not going to get into the
nitty-gritty story of it. I feel like
everybody is already aware of it at this
point of what happened to me. The point
of the matter is is that instead of
basically just trying to, you know,
explain what's going on, she used a
massive personal attack against me,
which um she obviously miscalculated. I
didn't expect as well, but she started
getting called out massively to the
point to where pretty much all 1,600
comments are negative against her. And
um it's honestly insane just how many
people legitimately are just straight up
upset with her coming at me like this. I
I personally did not expect a lot of
support. About 95 to 98% of the time uh
individuals like this they get away with
it. So I was I'm not going to lie. It it
it's actually pretty shocking just to
see the overwhelming amount of people
that were on my side. But regardless,
ever since this there was spiral after
spiral after spiral. For instance, you
had her block me after this and all
that. And then after this entire
section, she basically clarified that um
you know, she doesn't care about me or
my mental health, but she cares about
men's mental health. Basically, people,
you know, digging into different things
about her. Pretty much saying that
you're kind of a hypocrite. So,
basically, you don't care about men's
mental health if it's someone you
dislike. There's a lot of things.
Basically, people just started digging
up a lot of stuff, kind of pointing out
just how hypocritical she is on top of
her personally attacking me. And
eventually it spiraled to the point to
where people started finding live
streams of her for Outer Wilds, I
believe, to where she was getting,
you know, stuff like that, like
allegations that that was potentially
happening within a live stream over an
hour. And a diabolical individual, by
the way, decided to do timestamps for
the entire thing of different comments
on when stuff happens. And it's it's
crazy. And so basically for the last few
days to almost a week, a lot of people
have pretty much been um more or less
uncovering the hypocrisy that Demi has
been doing. For instance, it all started
with me calling her a virtue signaler
and her basically trying to retweet NSFW
of her model despite saying she doesn't
want it. But even prior to this, she
literally has these uh these streams to
where she's making very suggestive and
adultlike sounds. And you know, let
let's just go on a limb here and humor
the fact of what some people are saying
that um Demi, you know, wasn't getting,
you know, stuff like that in the uh the
live stream. Okay, the sounds, the way
it is presented is very suggestive. Now,
I'm going to say I don't care if a
VTuber, anyone wants to do that. What I
am saying is is that she had the
audacity to do stuff like that within a
stream even if nothing was happening and
then goes on to do stuff like this. It's
just like you know what you're doing.
Yeah. It feels very performative. It
feels very hypocritical and virtue
signaling which is what I said. So
anyways, none of this stuff would have
happened if she would have responded to
me in a civilized manner and either
honestly just calling me stupid. If she
would have just called me stupid, it
would have probably ended there. I might
have said, "Oh, you're stupid, too." or
blocked or whatever and that would have
been the end of it. But obviously
because of the double down, the triple
down, the quadruple down, we got
eventually to the point to where she had
to make an apology to me because overall
all over social media, everybody on
YouTube, on Twitch, on Tik Tok, on
Instagram, on Twitter, Reddit as well,
everybody was pretty much against her.
And like I said, shocking.
Very shocking. I I I did not expect that
much support on my side, but okay.
Anyways, at long last, we get to today
and she issues this statement. And let's
let's read it. I was ready to genuinely
take this to the ground because of the
idea that why should I ever feel bad
being rude to someone who's a piece of
[ __ ] After some reflection, the thought
occurred to me, do I really want to go
as low as him, though? And the answer
was no. I said what I said because I
personally think there is no scenario
that a friend group chooses the side of
a fiance that cheats. I can't even
fathom friends siding with a cheater.
However, would I have brought it up if I
knew he was suicidal because of it? No.
I admitted it in the previous tweet. So
why didn't I apologize? Because he's
this and that and blah. But I thought
about it and that kind of ideology is
quite harmful. I knew it was wrong and I
admitted that twice, but I didn't
apologize. So after reflection, I am
sorry. I'm sorry for bringing up a
memory that made someone suicidal. It
was a lowblow. Even if it didn't if I
didn't know, regardless of whether he
was intentionally being a piece of [ __ ]
I don't want to stoop to his level. I
rather be better and learn from my
mistakes. So before I give my answer,
there's a few things I'm just going to
put and explain on screen here. First
off, we got to talk about her previous
post and uh what she's even talking
about her previous tweet when she
basically said she didn't want to
apologize to me. So this is the tweet
she was talking about basically where
she was um basically labeling me a
pedom. She was labeling me a rapist and
all sorts of other accusations, false
accusations. That is Kiwi Farms speech.
basically the same type of
cyberstalking, stalking, harassing group
that likes to ruin people's lives and
even swatch them. She was using their
exact same wording and rhetoric in this
post and basically saying that she would
not apologize to me because I'm quote
unquote weird. And um I would like to
remind everybody up to this very point
right now, the only thing I said to her
was that she was a virtue signal. Her
response was to laugh at my misfortune
being cheated on. my friend group
abandoning me. Then on top of that,
basically calling me a pedo. Well, she
did. I mean, she posted a fake tweet
here. She called me a pedto. She called
me a rapist. And then she basically did
not take any back any statements of
these back. She didn't even apologize
for this. Even in her apology tweet, she
didn't even mention this and say how
wrong this was, these false allegations
against me that have literally no proof
whatsoever, which is outright insane.
But, um, it doesn't just stop there.
this tweet that she made, she edited it,
which you probably have seen Rev already
cover this and I covered it in a
previous video, but she edited it to
remove the fake tweet, but kept
everything the same. And her apology, so
to speak, people like to say, is that I
had to update the tweet since I didn't
want to spread misinformation. My bad on
that, but she's still spreading
misinformation. She's still technically
calling me a a pedto. She's still
calling me a rapist in this entire
section, which is outright insane. like
it it it it it's actually ridiculous.
But anyways, after this post, she went
to her Discord and this is what she said
in her public Discord after that post I
just showed you. I think people
misunderstand my post or want to change
it to something they want to believe in.
I want to know y'all's thoughts. People
are telling me I'm a hypocrite for
advocating men's health but not caring
for this content creator's chibies. I
feel like both can coexist. LF LMFAO.
Just because you advocate something
doesn't mean it's on a case- oncase
basis. I do not care of Chibi. Doesn't
mean I don't care of people's mental
health. Okay. After the combo with the
Discord, what I did was unnecessary. And
honestly, I didn't even do it for Clout.
I literally just got baited from seeing
his name.
Really? Yeah. You You didn't do this for
clout.
Here's the image. She posted this as
well on her official Twitter linking
that she was going to address the drama.
And you've seen probably Rev and other
content creators already comment comment
on this, but uh that link she posted to
a Twitch stream that supposedly was to
address the drama was um basically her
24/7 VOD stream that is just reruns of
her content. And the interesting part,
prior to this, she literally condemned
farming and basically trying to content
farm an engagement farm, but she turns
around and does that hours later, which
basically implies that she um she's once
again another hypocrite. So, we we have
multiple different showcasings of being
a hypocrite, not not just with like the
whole NSFW thing, but just different
things. men's mental health to basically
engagement farming and then also
basically the stuff with NSFW. We have
now multiple examples and that's not
even getting into the with the the the
Twitch stream. So, this is what she
said. She basically said she doesn't
care about my mental health. She doesn't
care about me or anything like that. And
she heard about the situation, but she
doesn't care. That that's what she said
in these Discord messages. And then we
had this which was the followup to the
apology.
So after the apology came out obviously
many not myself but many said that her
apology was uh not an apology. It was a
non-apology apology. I even saw people
saying that it is how how do you make an
apology worse than Logan Paul? That is
insane. And so she took to Discord to
start commenting on the situation after
the non-apology apology that she made.
And this is what she more or less had to
say. I'm seeing a lot of messages here
in the Discord, please. It was never for
them. They would have never been any of
my viewers. Look at any of their
profiles and realize I angered the group
of people that would have banned in my
chat anyway. Literally,
I did this apology not only for me, but
for my community to be able to move on.
I personally think I could genuinely
think someone else is a piece of [ __ ]
while realizing I'm in the wrong for
doing something, too.
Then this is her private DM to me. Now I
want you to know the time frame here on
when this DM private DM she sent to me.
By the way, at this point in time, I was
blocked. I've been blocked for days. I
covered that already, showcased that.
And she unblocked me. I I believe I'm
still unblocked at the time. She
probably blocked me after I upload this
video. But basically, she unblocked me
and she sent me this private DM. Now, I
wasn't going to show this or anything
like that because it's a private DM and
you know, this is not really a let's be
honest, this is not really an apology
here, but it's better than the big
public statement she made. And I was
just going to be like, you know what,
screw it, I don't care anymore. But when
I saw these Discord messages and her
basically saying that uh she did not
make the apology for them quote unquote
me and everybody else on the internet
and basically said everybody on the
internet that's calling her a hypocrite
was never her fans to begin with even
though her own fans are calling her out
as well. I think really just goes to
show that everything she said in the
private DM to me was not actually an
apology and she's trying to play both
sides. She's trying to apologize but
also keep her fan base happy to where
she it doesn't look like she's quote
unquote bending the knee. And um look,
let's finally get into the whole do I
accept this as an apology. So
I'm a very forgiving person. I am like I
I do believe in second chances. I
believe that um if someone apologized to
me, I would accept it. I've done it
before. There's quite a few people that
have outright hated me and have
slandered me. They apologized to me and
I let bygones be bygones. It's happened.
And that was it. We never brought it up
again. Simple.
However, this situation is very
troublesome for me. And the reason for
that is because I was going to just be
like, "I know you're not sincere, but
let it go because of the private DM
afterwards." But when I found out in the
middle of this when this private DM was
made prior to this or after this, she
made those Discord messages basically
saying that it wasn't for me, the
apology or anything. It more or less is
a statement that this is just all fake.
Now, obviously it is, but yeah, come on.
She only apologized because of just the
overwhelming backlash that she has
gotten in the last week. And so
obviously the reason why it was made was
because of the pressure. But she
couldn't even say I'm sorry. She said my
bad. She didn't apologize for the ped
accusations, me being basically a rapist
or anything like that, any of the
slander. She just said my bad and all
that. That's basically it. And in her
public post that was multiple paragraphs
by the way, she decided to throw shots
at me, say I'm a piece of [ __ ] and
everything else in between. So, uh, it's
very clear there was no intent of
apology. It's better than nothing. I I I
like, okay, it's better than zero. She
tried. Failed badly obviously, but she
tried. And I I give
some gratitude to some effort that was
made on that. The problem though is that
when you make this type of statement,
you make that public statement and then
you make the Discord statement, there is
just multiple different masks on. It's
not the same type of message you're
conveying. And it leans more towards
very disingenuous and insincere than
anything else. And so I would have kept
it as this, but thanks to her statements
and quote unquote her own words as well,
public discord,
that's Yeah. So everybody should have
seen that it wasn't a private
conversation between a few people. It
was a public discord that she was
posting those thoughts. I don't know why
she would do something like that so
publicly when she's trying to
potentially make peace with someone.
That is not a very smart move. I'm going
to be honest with you. So anyways, do I
accept it?
Look at the thumbnail.
Um, no. I don't I don't accept the
apology. If she would have said
something like this,
even I know that this isn't sincere,
maybe I would have left it that.
But everything else, no. Nah.
Just say I'm sorry. It's it's it's that
simple. It it's it's just it's two
words. I'm sorry. I know it's so
so hard to say because pride and ego is
such a big thing especially for content
creators. I know that. I know how the
internet works. When you apologize,
you get eaten alive. It's the truth. It
It is. It is. It is the truth. Okay. I
understand that. There's a reason why
you just don't bend the knee. But there
is also times where you have to be
humble. And I have apologized for things
I have done. I have. There is
circumstances. Obviously, if she
apologized to me, would that stop
everything? No, it would. I'm not I'm
not naive. I don't live in a fantasy
land to say that she would still be
getting attacked by people online. This
this drama truthfully will follow her
for the rest of her career. It's the
truth. Just as how that everything with
me with my personal stuff will follow me
for the rest of my time online. what
happened here, we'll follow her. That's
just that's content creation. The
internet will not let you forget. So
even if she was to apologize to me,
people that wouldn't be enough for them.
Even if it was enough for me, it
wouldn't be enough for them. But I will
say if she genuinely does want to
apologize, I will accept an actual
apology instead of these backhanded back
and forth things going on trying to
label me a piece of a piece of [ __ ] just
for being weird. It's just
all this started from me calling you a
virtue signaler. I would like to remind
that. So anyways, I will leave it at
that. I I don't feel like there's any
more I could really comment on for the
time being. I just uh
dude,
how do I have like this power to just
get people to just selfdestruct, man?
Like like I I I it feels like I have
like an aura of aggro. Like I aggro
people like like you are in a game like
an MMO or something. Like I just I aggro
people so effectively. Like I I'm I'm
just a dude that post and I aggro people
to such an a violent and extreme manner
to where they just they slip like their
their mask and everything just flies on
off. And uh yeah, I just it's it's
shocking, man. I I don't know how I do
it. But uh I will leave it at that. This
has been funny for the last few days.
I'm not gonna lie. It's been pretty
entertaining.
But be safe. Stay stay healthy. I love
you guys. She's