--- title: 'How to Handle Sales Objections in 3 Steps' source: 'https://youtube.com/watch?v=wL3vRBigVxE' video_id: 'wL3vRBigVxE' date: 2026-07-14 duration_sec: 0 --- # How to Handle Sales Objections in 3 Steps > Source: [How to Handle Sales Objections in 3 Steps](https://youtube.com/watch?v=wL3vRBigVxE) ## Summary This video presents a three-step sales technique called 'Mirror, Probe, Push' for handling prospect objections. The method focuses on understanding the prospect's underlying concerns rather than debating, and it includes practical guardrails for effective implementation. ### Key Points - **The Mistake of Answering with a Number** [00:00] — When a prospect asks how many clients you're working with, answering directly loses the deal because it hands control to the prospect. - **Mirror Step** [00:15] — Rephrase the objection in your own words to lower tension. Example: 'So, the concern is whether we'd have enough capacity to handle the scope on your timeline. Is that it?' - **Probe Step** [00:45] — Ask a deeper question to uncover the real issue. Example: 'What's the specific deliverable you're worried might not get done on time?' This surfaces fears and makes them smaller. - **Push Step** [01:30] — Close using the specific information gathered. Example: 'If I put the milestone date in writing and we build the contract around it, is there anything else between you and saying yes today?' - **Common Failure: Trailing Off** [02:15] — Many reps listen and ask a decent question but then trail off without making a clear ask. The job isn't done until you move the prospect toward a decision. - **Why Simple Rebuttals Don't Work** [02:45] — Treating objection handling like a debate leads to buyer's remorse. Mirror Probe Push keeps rapport strong because you're curious, not argumentative. - **Application in Cold Email** [03:30] — When a prospect says they already have a solution, probe in writing: 'Does your current solution cover the pipeline issue you brought up, or are you working around it?' - **Five Guardrails** [04:15] — 1) Only probe to understand, not to trap. 2) Use one mirror per objection. 3) Match your push to what they told you. 4) Know when to stop (3 passes). 5) Don't fake the mirror. - **Practice Drill** [05:00] — Practice with a partner who throws weird objections. Record yourself to check if you mirror before probing and if you push at the end instead of trailing off. ### Conclusion The Mirror Probe Push technique transforms objection handling from a debate into a collaborative discovery process. By mirroring, probing, and pushing with specific answers, reps can close more deals while maintaining rapport. ## Transcript A prospect asks you, "How many clients are you working with right now?" And you answer with a number. Doesn't matter what number you said. You just lost the deal and you handed them the gavvel to do it. There is a fix and it comes down to three steps. Three steps. That's it. That's the whole thing. I call it mirror probe push. Same order every time. Step one, mirror. When a prospect throws an objection at you, don't fire back. Instead, rephrase what they said in your own words. They say, "Your team seems pretty small for a project this size, and you say, "So, the concern is whether we'd have enough capacity to handle the scope on your timeline. Is that it?" One sentence. You tracked what they said and that lowers the temperature immediately. Step two, probe. You go one level deeper with a question that gets underneath the surface objection. The question about team size is usually covering for a bad past experience, a delivery timeline, or a budget concern. So, you ask something like, "What's the specific deliverable you're worried might not get done on time?" Now, they're talking about their internal deadline, their stakeholder pressure, the specific thing that's bugging them. And half the time, saying a fear out loud makes it sound smaller than it felt in their head. You can also rotate through probes like what would need to be true for that concern to go away completely or has this been an issue with vendors you've worked with before. This is where 90% of people fail. Step three, push. You close again using the specific information you just gathered. If the probe showed the worry as a delivery date, you push on that. If I put the milestone date in writing and we build the contract around it, is there anything else between you and saying yes today? That speaks to the fear, offers a concrete fix, and asks them to surface any other blockers so you don't clear one objection and walk into another blind. They do a decent job of listening and they ask a decent question, but then they trail off without making a clear ask. They think the job is done once the prospect seems to feel better, but it isn't. You still need to move them toward a decision. The best closers across industries and deal sizes spend more time asking than telling because the second you flip into answer mode, you become the passenger. So, mirror first, then probe, then use what they told you to push with a specific answer. Don't trail off. Simple rebuttals don't work. I see this every week. Reps treating objection handling like a debate. The prospect raises a point, the rep counters it, the prospect raises another point, and it goes back and forth until by the end, the prospect feels like they were argued into the deal. That's one of the worst feelings a buyer can have because buyer's remorse kicks in the second they hang up the phone. Mirror probe push doesn't feel like an argument because you aren't arguing. You're curious. You're working with them, treating the objection as useful information instead of an attack. That keeps rapport strong through every round, which means you can come back to the close more than once without the prospect getting annoyed. The reps who close the most deals are the ones willing to swing the bat twice. and persistence and careful listening keep the door open. This works in cold email, too. When someone replies with, "We already have a solution for this. Don't push back with your value prop. Instead, probe in writing." Totally understand. Does your current solution cover the pipeline issue you brought up, or are you working around it? That one sentence gets them talking again instead of shutting you down. But the probe in email has to be sharper than on a call because you don't have your voice to soften it. So, make it specific to whatever painoint your original email was built around. And if you're not sure what painoints to build around, that starts with having the right list. At Scraper City, we pull B2B lead data with company signals and role level targeting so you're probing the right people about the right problems instead of guessing. And here is where the probe, the list, and the follow-up all lock into a single sequence. Okay, this is the important part right here. Five guardrails to keep this honest. Only probe to understand, not to trap. If the probe shows they don't need what you offer, disqualify them. Use one mirror per objection because if you keep reflecting without answering, they feel talked down to. and match your push to what they told you. Because if the probe services onboarding worry, but your push is about pricing, you just created a new objection. Know when to stop. Three passes through the loop and the answer is still no. Respect it and don't fake the mirror. Prospects can tell when you're performing instead of listening. So, if you're on autopilot, they'll feel it. Practice this with a partner who throws weird objections at you. Your website looks outdated. I heard you lost a client recently. My cousin does what you do for free. Once you get reps on the strange stuff, the standard objections feel easy. Record yourself and listen for two things. Are you mirroring before you probe or jumping straight to the probe? And at the end, are you really pushing or trailing off? 14,000 agencies have come through Gallatin Gold and reps do 80% of the work, but then go soft at the close. So try this drill this week and come back and tell me how it went. Let me know in the comments if this worked. If you need leads, check out Scraper City. For cold email coaching, check out Galladon Gold. And if you want to see my favorite tools to grow your business, go to alex berman.com/tools. The next video is coming up