[00:02] put my own interests first because anyone who does is selfish and mean. What I want to tell you is that it's completely wrong to put your interests first. It's not selfish to prioritize your well-being above everything else in the world, whether materially or emotionally. However, sometimes you can [00:16] or emotionally. However, sometimes you can compromise on that out of love for someone, but only if you're truly content with it. Compromising because you're worried about upsetting someone is completely wrong. It's not a weakness at all to prioritize your own interests in life. Relationships are about give and take. [00:29] prioritize your own interests in life. Relationships are about give and take. Please don't accept any relationship, whatever its nature, that falls short of your rights. Give what you can, receive what you receive. Don't let the idea of ​​" kind of drain on your life, and over time you'll feel dissatisfied with yourself and [00:44] find that your life... Your time wasted, and you'll regret it later. Helping someone once, twice, three times isn't wrong, but I expect something in return. If I do something for someone and they don't reciprocate, that's an do something for someone and they don't reciprocate, that's an