--- title: 'To Settle This Issue Once and For All' source: 'https://youtube.com/watch?v=wxFZoAlTGEg' video_id: 'wxFZoAlTGEg' date: 2026-08-04 duration_sec: 86 --- # To Settle This Issue Once and For All > Source: [To Settle This Issue Once and For All](https://youtube.com/watch?v=wxFZoAlTGEg) ## Summary The speaker addresses a controversial public incident, urging viewers not to rush to judgment. He emphasizes personal religious duties—lowering one's gaze—and the importance of not judging others without witnessing the full situation. The core message is to focus on self-improvement and leave judgment to God. ### Key Points - **Personal Religious Duty** [00:02] — As a young Muslim man, the speaker is commanded to lower his gaze regardless of the other person's attire. God will ask him about his own actions, not about the other person's clothing. - **No Right to Advise Strangers** [00:14] — It is not permissible to tell a non-family girl what to wear because she is an adult responsible for her own choices. Advice should be directed to one's own family. - **Advice Within Family** [00:28] — By advising family members, the issue can be resolved collectively. Each person advising their own family leads to a broader positive change. - **Lack of Full Witness** [00:42] — Most people sharing posts or videos did not witness the entire situation firsthand. Therefore, they cannot testify or pass judgment on what occurred. - **Avoid Judgment, Pray for Justice** [00:55] — Instead of judging, one should pray: 'O God, reveal the truth and grant justice to the oppressed.' Speaking ill of someone who may be innocent carries severe accountability. - **Two Options for Viewers** [01:09] — Viewers can either mind their own business and apply religious commands to themselves and their families, or refrain from judging others due to incomplete knowledge. ### Conclusion The speaker concludes that the matter should be left to God, with a prayer for truth and justice, and encourages sharing the message. ## Transcript in this way and everyone is giving their opinion, but I feel that we have blown the matter out of proportion. What am I, as a young Muslim man, commanded to do? I am commanded to lower my gaze even if the girl in front of me is, excuse my language, not wearing any clothes at all. Why? Because this is the thing that God commanded me to do. When God comes to question me, He will ask me about myself. He will ask me why I didn't lower my gaze in this situation. He will not ask me why she was dressed like that in this situation. The second thing is, is it permissible for me to tell a girl who is not from my family what to wear and what not to wear? Why not? Because the girl who is dressed like that is a grown-up girl who knows what is right and wrong, especially since we are both on public transport, so she has no right to her. Who else should I say this to? I tell it to my family because when I tell my family, and someone else tells their family, and so on, then this whole issue will cease to exist. The third and most important point is: did you, I, and anyone else who writes a post, shares a video, or uploads a video about this issue actually witness the entire situation firsthand? Can we testify before God that we saw the whole thing and can we pass judgment based on what we saw? I think not. Therefore, we shouldn't judge the matter at all. All we can do is pray, "O God, reveal the truth and grant justice to the oppressed." That's all we can do. If we speak ill of someone, and that person is indeed the one who was wronged, and we don't know, we will be held severely accountable, and we are not up to that. As viewers, we only have two options: either each of us should mind our own business, understand what our religion commands, and apply it to ourselves and our families; or we shouldn't judge anyone because, no matter what we saw, we... We didn't see the whole situation, so we'll just say one sentence: Oh God, reveal the truth and bring justice to the oppressed. The matter is over, and as usual, don't forget to share. Yeah.