You need to live life for you, not to impress others. Only you know you. Even as well as people know us, Ed, there's so much no one else. And I just need people to understand [music] that if you lean into self-awareness, you know what a lot of people do out of insecurity and lack of self-awareness? They peacock in front when they're not that guy [music] or girl. And the issue with that is that winners, and I feel like I'm one of them, and when I say winner, [music] I mean emotionally intelligent people that can sniff you out, they know you're pretending, and then you've already lost before you started. >> You imagine getting to the end of your life, bro, and you pretended [music] the whole way there. >> Almost everyone does it.