[00:10] TikTok. What I saw there made me want to vomit multiple times. Oh, come on . I saw a couple of clips of me there. And what? Is this really a reason to sit and puke? Well, there are worse streamers out there, let's be honest. There [00:22] are actually videos where girls with serious faces explain how to cheat on your boyfriend the right way. How to cheat without getting caught. Okay, that's what I didn't expect. Often, TikTok girls don't even talk about how [00:36] TikTok girls don't even talk about how cheating is bad or how to If suddenly, dear friends, someone saw Stepan Rai's biscuit, house 72, right eye covered. Well, there's a problem with the eye. Look what a good one has disappeared. And [00:51] or something like that. If you suddenly found such a cat, please tell me, worried. [snorts] There it is, even 5,000 rubles. ready to give. Now, if suddenly there is an izbisk here or I saw it or, I don’t know, they are very worried there. [01:06] They literally explain step by step how to come up with an excuse, how to quietly leave for another man. And then they support each other and explain that this is normal. And in general, the man himself is to blame. I watched this cringe for you and selected the most [01:23] frostbitten girls for you. Now I suggest you watch this video. And in return, at the end, I will share it with you. Here is a link to a photo of my pet. Help now. Ha-ha-ha. Very funny, very hilarious. The man really has problems with his [01:38] laughing like this? As an unobvious conclusion, don't forget about channel subscriptions. Well, let's begin. I order everyone to cheat on their Well, as I understand it, she's already prepared. Cause? There is no reason. Prevention. [01:54] [music] What the [ __ ] prevention? Lay. Well, honestly, how can I comment on this? Well, besides the fact that it's [02:07] obvious that it's a pt. Understand the definitions. What irritates me is that most often, when it comes to talking about betrayal by their partner, people use specific examples as a definition. Forget it, [02:20] well, like, if there was penetration, then it counts, but if not, it doesn’t. About something like this the definition is that it is universal. So let's do this right away. Cheating is a violation of agreements. It is important that this is an [02:36] act that you did not agree on as a norm. Let me explain. When you enter into a relationship, you most often don't say, "You shouldn't [ __ ] other people." This is taken for granted , because I would also add moral [02:51] betrayal here, if anything. You have not agreed otherwise. Before you say that it's normal for you if your partner sleeps with others, there will be sex on the side all seriousness say that if there is no physical infidelity, then it doesn't count. Which is [03:06] like, well, complete [ __ ] betrayal. That is, first have sex and then ask if it’s okay or not, it doesn’t work. It is impossible to notify about such things work. It is impossible to notify about such things after the fact. So, once again, cheating is something that [03:20] you have not agreed upon as the norm. This is why the question. Von Tokh said that it’s normal if a girl doesn’t want to be with this guy [03:33] , but what should she do? Let him break up and [ __ ]. It's obvious here that if you, [ __ ] hell, are in a relationship with her, you're breaking those very agreements, as the smart guy says. And in general, this is disrespect for oneself. [03:47] Get out of the relationship and spend it with whoever you want, even in the same second, really. But during a relationship it is not possible. This will be considered treason. And there is no Dot. Information that Alice cheated on [04:00] life situation. Indeed, you had an affair. I got really into work. I didn't pay any attention to Alice at all. And, your family, at some point something can happen. She fell in love with another [04:13] inside her skipped a beat. Hormone. He said it in a joke. Well, in short, a . I apparently felt the energy of this successful man, a self-fulfilling person, who has a lot of energy, a lot of money. And [04:26] And if you break up a second before E, and then sit down, this is considered cheating, well, purely theoretically. [ __ ], well, actually, probably not. But the funny thing is, how can you get back together right after that? So the guy is like, "Okay, come on, let's [04:41] super-puppeteering act. No, and apparently person who would agree to this . It was like I was missing something and that’s why I was drawn there. For me, cheating is when you... well, yes [04:55] count. Although I just can't understand who would agree to come back immediately after relationship where cheating just happened right in front of your face is not relationship, immediately went to [ __ ], and came back and [ __ ] everyone. Well, like what? Go [ __ ] yourself. That's it [05:08] Andrey knew. I told him right away when I arrived, I told him that I went that's theoretical. So. No, well, even if we take, I don’t know, a day, for example, chat? And what time did we spend with him there? [05:24] This is a clear example of substitution of concepts and female manipulation. In general, this is a fairly classic example of the evolutionary mechanism that protects our psyche. For each of us, if, of course, everything is in order with our heads [05:37] , betrayal is something bad. So, to protect yourself in your own this label on yourself, not just breaking up in order to legally [ __ ] someone else, well, that's nonsense. This is total nonsense. This is [05:51] some kind of, this is some kind of abus of the rules. Regulations. Where are the regulations? Judges, regulations. We just change the definition so as not to [06:03] feel guilty. I also find it really funny how she dodges questions when she realizes she won't like the answer. Did you end up sleeping together or not? No, I just don't relate to it. No or yes? [06:17] No. Well, we actually, damn, there really is , again, for each betrayal it’s different, what we did, what we were doing. person’s boundary. Well, he asked me not to tell some things there. [06:29] In short, look, regarding the situation we discussed. If you leave a relationship to get back sex, that's considered cheating because [06:42] you're in. You're just trying to find a window to change. So, technically, it's still considered cheating, because you're still relationship. All. [06:57] to me, please. Okay, I talked to the judge's Yesterday he actually caught me texting someone else. It doesn't matter what the cheating on him. Write what I should do, because he gave me 3 days to [07:11] case. I am against assault. Hitting people is boo. But have you ever seen a person with a real bruise on their eye like in cartoons? Can anyone really [07:27] no, no, he looks a little different? This has appeared, but that's not the point. Notice that the other girl is doing the same thing , shifting the focus. Her constant emphasis on no matter what the nature of it only confirms that she [07:42] herself realizes that she did wrong. But there are those who, on the contrary, brag about it for show. I cheated on my first boyfriend and I don't consider myself solely responsible for it. [07:55] Guys, two people are to blame for cheating, because I cheated, because he didn’t because I cheated, because he didn’t love me. Awesome. I've heard this somewhere before. [08:09] presenting themselves, that is, as not the only one to blame, in order to deflect responsibility from themselves. It's all quite simple, because it's hard to admit that you're skinny, you know? Well, it's a bit difficult. [08:22] I really hate . [snorts] You know, it's much easier. Here [the music] just dropped and forgot. Well, I see, I see. Well, judging by your lips, [08:36] Well, I see, I see. Well, judging by your lips, you could make a lot of noise. Well, the lips work in both places. What? No. I just reset it and forgot about it. Take the phone, grandpa. I know you want to [sing] call. [music] [09:01] Well, to be honest, forgiving him in order to cheat, uh, man, there are idiots. Spending a total of 4 years of human [09:14] lives for the sake of places is a very wise decision. In fact, he cheated on me , but I will forgive him in order to cheat on him. I'm such a drama queen, then very often there are situations when How does it even work in their heads? You're [09:29] just wasting your time being someone you don't intend to hurt them. For hurting you. [ __ ], guys, it’s like it’s much more rational to just get out of this relationship and build a new normal [09:41] relationship without shares. Now, by the way, and by the way, if you new relationship and then this guy is told that you cheated in your last relationship. [ __ ], the guy doesn't give a damn about the context at all. He's [09:54] like, "Did you cheat last time you left?" No, no, it's because he didn't cheat. That's why I changed. Go away, like when people start to take it out on their partner and cheat after they cheat. Moreover, they can do this while already being in a [10:07] relationship with another person. In my life I have noticed that there are some people who are truly just evil, whose main goal is to make you evil. If start Sometimes hoo, when you realize that you were the one who was [10:21] cheated on, and you freak out about it. That is, they literally cheated on you and essentially cheated on you. [ __ ], by the way, I remembered. In short, there was a situation at a cheat on anyone. Like, they didn't cheat on me either. Well, in short, what was the situation? I was sitting [10:35] in the camp, watching Naruto on my phone, and a girl lay down next to me and watched Naruto with me you watch Naruto? I'm lying like this, she lay like this for a bit, then got up. I'm lying down and watching Naruto. After 20 minutes they tell me: “Guys, let’s go to the vacant lot.” I'm [10:50] like, "What happened?" I'm walking along, some guys are standing there, a boy is standing there, and I say: "Yeah, great, great." He says: "Why the [ __ ] did you sleep with my woman? I'm going to beat your face right now." I'm like, "Stop, stop, stop, explain the situation. I do [11:02] n't understand a [ __ ] thing. I watched Naruto." He's like, "Guys, did you see how my like, "Guys, did you see how my girlfriend lay down next to you?" I'm like, "[ __ ], [ __ ] Naruto." I start to explain the situation to him, saying: "Bro, I [11:17] watched Naruto, I don't give a [ __ ] about your lady. Really." He, of course, is a little reluctant . I already understood that they were going to smash my face in, because, in short, I actually just didn’t pay attention to it and was, well, I didn’t give a [11:30] in fact, I should have said, "[ __ ] you." So, in fact . I was, well, technically wrong, if that matters. Well, that's how I say: "Okay, bro, I'm wrong, seriously, I did a [ __ ] thing. Sorry, let me [11:45] help you with your relationship." He , in short, he started whining to me a second later about how [ __ ] wasn’t working out for him in relationships. She lies down with everyone and watches Naruto. [laughter] Well, well, in that vein, yes. And I'm like, "Bro, I'll [11:59] tell you what to do." I said: "Do this, do this, do this, do this, do this." There he suggested, uh, to the guy there, you know, to do some kind of romance. Everything is then he beat another guy, and they threw him out of the camp. Apparently, she also [12:12] lay down next to him to look at Naruto. From now on, I don't allow women to lie with me and watch Naruto. No more dobozhki in bed with me, guys, Do the same. This man achieved his goal and spread evil. [12:28] Ah, Nelya? Well, Nelya is possible, Neli is possible, but in fact, Neli, Naruto and I have never watched it together, so basically, it is customary for boorish and stupid men to justify it by nature. But some girls do this too. I [12:42] hate this argument because nature only indirectly explains, but in no way justifies, the act. For example, swans, which are animals. No, you looked at your hand, which means you're not serious enough to say such scary [12:55] vvani: "Why not me?" They change their partner. If they have chosen a companion for themselves, they will go with him to the end. But people, whose intelligence has developed over millions of years of evolution to give them the ability to think and choose [13:11] whether to act according to feelings or not, suddenly cannot do this, because, you see, instincts. No, I don’t argue, and I might even get pecked for this, but I believe that people do have some instincts. But this [13:25] certainly has nothing to do with cheating. After all, a violation of fidelity is always Why do we even measure betrayal by animals ? I don't remember the choice between them. My husband found out that I cheated on him, but we still continue to be together. In [13:38] lover is very strange, because first I met his mother, and then everything started to spin. He started stalking me everywhere, trying to show that he was such an alpha male who would get me no matter what. And I began to [13:51] My own husband started to irritate me. I started to see flaws in him. What do you think about her? Stop. That is, the guy wanted to beat his Naruto up because his watch Naruto. I think the boy needs a chair or some balls. Well, it depends on what you [14:06] want. Uh, go ahead, but I honestly feel like I'm really wrong in the sense bed." In my understanding, in my understanding, I should have Naruto. That's all. Watch [14:20] the video and write in the comments. Now that you're back, I'll reveal it to you. So she, [ __ ] woman. Only men can get into my bed . That's all. [14:32] A little secret. I cut this video so that you think that fact. She's a scumbag. I wanted to show that it's easy to control what people see online. I, like Jan in Popis, a science writer, [14:46] believe everything you see on your monitor. But you can believe in some truths, for example, that you can’t cheat on your partner. So, by the way, what's the big deal with this video? It was a [14:59] short retelling of the novel Anna Karenina. And here we can talk about how modern culture has distorted us. This particularly affected women. but you didn't know that she was a Chada girl. [15:13] No, I was told that some kind of shady dealings were going on there . I'm talking about Well, that's why I wrong. That's all. Specifically, in terms of cheating, they brainwashed thank God, the guy there realized that I was just watching Naruto and didn't give a [ __ ]. [15:29] I'm saying that it would be better if we were simply washed by others. So, if you representatives, well, plus how I could recoup my little expense these romantic elements that he can do with his girlfriend. [15:45] So here it is. So I think I handled the situation well. Nitsi estrogen subspecies TV series films. How much was it then? [ __ ], 15, probably. Very often you will see stories about women cheating. What's most [15:58] disgusting is how much it's romanticized, because it seems like no, no way. Everything with sauce. He made me retell the episode about No, I would have easily retell that moment [16:10] . You need to listen to your heart. But it’s one thing when the institution of the family is destroyed by pictures specially created for this purpose, and another when it’s done by psychologists. I'm married, but I really want to change, just [16:23] throw myself under the belt and give in to the feeling 100%. It's too dangerous, especially for a This is extremely dangerous. I'm not saying that you should [ __ ]. If you want to [ __ ], go [ __ ]. Just don't bother anyone. [16:38] You have enough strength to cheat . If you've been getting ready for a long time, with the spirit of the pubis, cut yourself eight times , cheated and fell over with a feeling of husband? Be quiet, don't tell me anything. [16:52] Let me make this clear right away. I believe that any betrayal, female or male, should not be forgiven. Cheating is the worst thing one person can do to someone. How can you do this by accident? I just have a question. to another. Given this [17:07] information, please tell me how one can accidentally cheat on their partner? Like you're walking and walking, you slip and fall on your forehead. Well, yes, yes, yes. What, what doesn’t happen to everyone? Ah, well, I remembered, yes, Yantop [17:20] just 10 bottles of beer and the skis went Well, it happens, guys, what can you do. Although, considering how often men fall on their maybe this really is a common practice. Well, okay. With [17:34] the fact that cheating is a disgrace. We figured it out. The question is different. Let's imagine not me who's approaching you, in short, I'm saying that I'm more than sure that all these people who make TikToks and allow others to fight are simply doing this [17:49] deflection of responsibility, because the most obvious people who cheat, they feel bad, because they understand that they betrayed themselves, betrayed their partner and simply acted in the most immoral way. And for this reason, [18:02] such videos, such clips, are in demand precisely by these people, themselves of so-called responsibility. Everything is quite simple and clear, but it only that if you show this to an adequate person, uh, he will say that you are [18:19] Your best friend walks up to you and asks, "Is there any good news?" "There's a bad one. Which one should I start with?" "Bad. Did your girlfriend cheat on you?" Is it good? But a good one would n't change. What? Well, in theory, you can't ask to change the betrayal, but is it possible to [18:33] break up on a softer note, so that it would n't be as hard before the betrayal, like, well, obviously, a divorce after betrayal is much worse than before the betrayal. It seems obvious. Cheating is like that very thing , well, it’s [18:47] literally betrayal, guys. Well, betrayal in a relationship is always considered the biggest betrayal seems to automatically imply a break in the relationship. Moreover , we have to do it because here the culture gives us a [19:00] being friends, one betrayed the other? It's the same here . It's just that someone remains in this relationship after the betrayal. A hard footrest. I believe that most of us watched television as children , where the majority of films and [19:12] series were CIS productions. If a friend pretends to be a friend, well, that's . Imagine a situation where a guy's girlfriend comes up to him and confesses that she's she started to have feelings for him, but immediately cut off contact with him and confessed her [19:24] opinion to you. Consumption. Well, the expense. Why the [ __ ] do we need this relationship? Well, that is, you already feelings for another person. This only means that, at least in terms of her feelings towards you, your feelings are [19:36] move on to someone else. All. What the [ __ ] do you need? Well, that's unpleasant. Well, what can you do? Thanks for the warning, actually. Thanks for the warning. Let's go our separate ways . And there they usually show two models of behavior. Moreover, [19:50] both are mega-garbage. Either you throw a tantrum and drink the dishes, or you are a strong man who forgives everything. In the first case, you act like a little girl, in the second, you hide behind the fact that you are a calm warrior. Even though you just don't care [20:05] about your partner. Although, maybe some people really enjoy it. Is sleep with a friend in the same bed? Yes. No. I know him. Well, what if my friend and I sleep in the same [20:21] warn me, in principle, yes. Unchanged? your friend? Holy [ __ ] , dude. The dude is very cold. [20:33] friendly peck. What if it's a hickey? Well, that's also just a hickey. It’s like there’s no connection between you, so it does n’t mean anything. Scum, I cheated on you, I refused your [20:47] proposal three times. Why are you still with me? You have crazy energy. The guy looks like Ved, by the way. I like [music] to always feel it. And you jumped on me like a monkey near the wall of Victorazzo. [20:59] I started to remember somehow. Okay, okay, I'll do the melting myself. I changed you. This could be Sasha's child. Doesn't matter . It doesn't matter that I cheated on you. [21:13] You are my woman. Oh, my dear friends, [laughter] he looks like he has a really clean face, man. But I would be a dumbass if the guys' father wasn't the one who put them in, but the one [21:30] n't find an example for you of how you should actually react and not succumb to manipulation. I won't make a scene. Let's do everything peacefully. I found out what you did 2 [21:43] You cheated on me when I was with my parents. No need to cry. We'll just get divorced. I'm not evil. Everything will be fine. We can't be Why? What do you mean why? [21:58] It was 2 years ago. What difference does it make when it was? But she changed. I was stupid then. To I was stupid then. To sum it up, leave without hysterics and without [22:10] revenge. Just get up and leave. Here. Moreover, the girl also apparently does not understand the obvious. I was stupid then. It was 2 years ago. I am different now. Completely different. This, by the way, in theory, okay, this is theoretically possible. [22:24] Well, [ __ ], I really don’t know what theory, but let’s say, let’s say, let’s say there is a world where this is possible. Let's say the question is different. And how does the boy feel after this? He literally knows the fact that you cheated. This means that [22:36] moment. Like he feels shitty about it. Why the hell would he need this relationship then, if he was sure of it? Well, not at all. That's it, go . Not because you're weak, but because you respect yourself enough not to be the person who doesn't [22:49] respect you. In general, it is quite easy to draw conclusions from all the videos above. Cheating is bad. A person chooses to lie because, unlike honesty, it does not require courage. TikTok is a dump. What surprises me more is that he knew for these [23:03] 2 years. No, he only found out now. I'm saying that there are situations when a person, for example, simply can't admit the fact that it's cheating, or doesn't know about ." Well, I think there can be no question at all for such people . [23:17] Like, you could say that you're a stupid person, but nothing more, nothing less. But we understand this perfectly well. People's reasoning usually doesn't go any further, so I tried to look deeper and come to some non-obvious conclusion. The [23:31] real problem is not that someone has the nerve. I'm more surprised by say: "Look, you've been cheated on." And you're like, "[ __ ], let's continue our relationship." And lack of self-respect to [23:44] cheat. It has always been like this. This is nothing new. No one is to blame for this, not the Rilses and not even the Zoomers. All of the above are not fufilshmertsy, villains and inventors. [23:56] Social media simply gave lousy people a microphone and the algorithm did the rest . The more disgusting and provocative the video , the better it goes. This kind of content is dangerous not because your girlfriend will see one video tomorrow and [24:10] run to another. Statistically, the majority will not do anything like that anyway . But these videos are dangerous because they push the Overton window of social norms. This happens over thousands of views. A person, no matter what his views [24:24] , with enough time and constant exposure will go through all the phases of acceptance: denial, anger, bargaining, depression and acceptance itself. And so at first you laughed at such videos, and then you began to doubt your [24:38] happens with particularly impressionable people. I want to talk about something else. If this video makes you want to hate women, you've misunderstood the video . The main loser after such videos is the one who begins [24:53] to hate the opposite sex. Yes, 100%. 100%. that I said about videos like these. It’s just some kind of reassurance, normalization, well, for you personally of this act. This is literally the same thing [25:07] You start expecting betrayal and dirty tricks from every person; you are already living according to the manipulator’s scenario. This means that those people you hate have achieved their main goal. so that you stop building normal relationships. [25:22] Social media algorithms. You really wanted Sly [music] You really wanted Sly [music] with here's a night club wai. I thought I had found my paradise. But why then are you so lonely? You wanted a big Citylay. [25:38] lonely? You wanted a big Citylay. No.