[00:08] By the way, that's it for her, her channel is gone. Oh, damn, the channel cuts are killing me . [ __ ], how much did she have, when, wait, 2 days later, 2 days later, 2 days later we watched this video, there were 400 views, then my types took off, [00:21] new video has appeared. Well, as they say, cuts kill, dear friends. Cuts kill. Remember how good it was? It's winter, Mom, you'll be going to school, but it's still dark outside. You barely pull up your pants [00:35] and rub your sleepy eyes. You don't like this school so much, but you have to go there. Little, not yet having experienced the world, you walk along the school corridor. you look, it turns out to be this school corridor. Maybe I've [00:49] watched too many BCrooms and other similar videos, but I'm so creeped out by this one, where you don't have to choose which door to enter. Anyway, I remember when I was a kid in Severodvinsk, we were looking for, uh, an entrance to the dentist, not the ENT specialist, [01:03] we were the ENT specialist. And in general there was not a single person in this hospital. And the walls were made of red brick. Just an empty hospital. We walk back and forth along the corridors, there is no one there. It was so creepy. And then, I don't know how we [01:15] accidentally find Lor's door. And now I'm thinking: "What if I was in the backroom? Oh, you already know your class, everything is familiar there. And even though you've already come to hate [01:27] this daily journey, [music] you still know that after studying for 6 hours, you'll go back home. And there's Hi, guys. I think I was in the backroom. [laughter] [ __ ], [ __ ], I'm sure some idiots like that [01:41] , well, paste in the comments, write, like, hi everyone. I don't know what one was there. I think I was in the backroom. There will be borscht in the fridge. You studied for a quarter, then the next one. And [01:54] it seems that it will always be like this. And this adult future is still far away. And even look at this future with positive hope. But what happened in the last couple of years? That now you're looking for money for a therapist so that he can help you Prescribed [02:09] more antidepressants? After all, the previous ones don't help you feel the damn borscht in the fridge gave you. Well, in this case, I have an answer to what happened over a couple of years, or even over four years, or even over five [02:22] . And now there's no borscht, just unrest, a lack of understanding of what's going on. Welcome. You're 20 years old. In this video, we'll explore the phenomenon of , which has turned into a crisis in our time. What is love? Being [02:35] 20 is a crisis. Why does a person experience loss of self? [music] Should you drop out of university? Who's to blame for a person not knowing ? Is it even worth exposing your stability to risks [02:49] that may not pay off? And why do we end up in our rooms after 8 hours of watching TikTok? Society has adopted an ideal scenario, frightens me the most. Roughly speaking, the scenario goes like this: [music] kindergarten, [03:02] the scenario goes like this: [music] kindergarten, school, university, starting a family and this plan works for her until she's 20. choice at 16-18 years old, which... What, is the second half of university [03:15] what? Why do you have to determine your entire . We live, we heal. It's clear that questioned. And why specifically do people [03:28] path? Well, to make it easier. Well, [snorts] this is generally the case with many people, because we like statistics, in general, we like a system, when everything is clear and when it is clear where to go next. A system is [03:42] needed in order to, well, even create this feeling of calm, what will happen tomorrow, life is simply easier for you. It's all quite simple. by imposing certain Labels and typifying every phenomenon. And really, without a [03:58] what are you going to do when you grow up? They ask a little idiot. The little idiot says, "When I grow up, I'll find myself a wife, we'll have lots of kids, I'll find a cool job, become a businessman, and die." That's it, a [04:14] clear [ __ ] plan. No joke. That's the most basic plan of any person world. It's hard to exist alongside this chaos. But teenagers haven't even been able to properly touch this chaos and understand what's going on. Their [04:27] moms still don't let them go out until ten, and they're asked to decide what they're going to often see their parents as unhappy. This, by the way, is a pretty tough story, because I was always surprised, [04:40] even when I was 16, when I was in school, how people actually understand what they're going to do with their lives for 16 years. Meanwhile, before you, teachers and parents directly demand this answer. I I'm sitting here, I didn't understand, I mean, I'm sitting here like this, like you're [04:54] choosing the closest option, which, well, okay, it seems like mine is good, I'll go to that one . I really don't know what it is, but I'll just pushed towards the closest option. You don't even have time to think. And this is [05:08] quite, well, in general, it seems to me, a big problem, because the school, teachers and parents, including, in addition to creating this horizon, uh, in order to person overall, they should, uh, show you options of what you might like in theory [05:22] . And in theory, you can go there or this, you know, stupid [ __ ], which is: "Mom, I want to be an artist." Mom is like: "Artists don't She's like: "Mom, I want to be an artist." No, our whole family [05:36] beer or will you be an economist? Two options, Choose. I'm like, "I want to be I'm curious. I understand that parents want the best for their child, but don't they understand that, in principle, it's better not to [05:51] go against the wishes and predispositions of the if you want to create a plan B for your child, but in fact, when they send someone to university, uh, when they pursue their hobby along the way, it's objectively a plan B. [06:04] education that you more or less like, and at the same time, you some artistic skills develop and all that. True, this, most likely, in terms of time and effort, is a big burden, but that's another, third, [06:17] tenth task. Well, there you go. But there are people who are like: "No, you will not draw your fureponuha. You'll be an IT specialist, [ __ ] . Well, this is total [ __ ]. This is total [ __ ]. If a child hasn't matured enough yet and [06:30] can't choose just one thing, well, damn it, try to balance it out. Like try a little bit of both. If somewhere, well, you like it less, go the other way and enjoy yourself. Well, it seems like that’s how it’s thought, because, well, [06:42] otherwise what? Then the person will grow up, get a job, he wo n’t like it at all, he’ll get depressed, and hang himself. Well, I don't know, no. Although, on the other hand, never bring in money, and then the person will also hang. [06:55] they are returning from work, which they most likely hate. They say that they would like to do something completely different , they would like to live their lives with recalled their path a million times before going to bed and tried to imagine what they would have [07:09] . And all these attempts to rethink everything created the ideal route family table and tell their child that he must live in such and such a way, so that later he does not find himself on an alcoholic binge. No, I don't want to be a lawyer. I want to [07:24] happy. There you go, yes, yes, yes, yes. That's what I'm saying. [ __ ], they say. I'm an adult, I know. And At the same time, I’m trying to pursue a hobby of drawing and trying to somehow [07:38] because you need to spend it. Yes, yes, that's what I'm talking about. Three years of education. But it's better than just throwing a stone into one well. In any case, I wanted to go to the tenth media class this year, but my mother [07:50] make money.” In the end, I became an then, 20 years later, you say: "Mom, why did you choose this future for me? decide." At the same time, I say: sending a child, [08:05] for example, now to become an IT specialist, when he, well, doesn’t really want to be an IT specialist, is such stupid [ __ ]. This is at the level that used to be like: "You will be a lawyer." Then he was like: "Okay, you'll be an economist. Okay, you'll be, uh, an [08:19] IT specialist." And, well, I will never believe that parents are so stupid and don’t understand that while you are studying, the need for this profession can decrease simply because of its oversaturation. Or parents really [08:33] are sitting there like: "We are the smartest, the coolest. 100% while you spend 4 years, say, on education, or five." Here you go. Uh, you're the only immediately give you 1,000 in money. Look, all the most popular [08:47] professions, at some point they found themselves in a situation of oversaturation, because absolutely, [ __ ], all people think from the position of, uh, Uncle Gena is a lawyer, and he makes a lot of money. Uncle Borya is a lawyer and also [09:01] earns a lot of money. Even Aunt Lena is a lawyer and earns a lot of money. Conclusion: you will also be a lawyer. Time passes, now economists are on topcharts. A little time passes, IT specialists. No, seriously, seriously . But the real thing where you [09:15] will earn money 100% is some kind of MFIs, uh, and the like. That is, electromechanics, like technori. Because in this case, they’ll simply take you somewhere to the edge of Russia , and you’ll [09:28] know, there they’ll tell you: here’s 5 million a year for you, and you work somewhere in the middle of nowhere, just in Siberia, way, way, way, way, you penguin standing next to you, like: “Holy [ __ ], how the hell did you end up here?” [09:40] This is how I swam. Well, bye bye. Here. But you will find a job 100%. I’m not even I used to study at the Faculty of Economics and Management, then I came to the Faculty of Economics and Management and I was, well, in a conference with the Faculty of Economics and Management students. Well, that is, at the moment when all the training [09:55] was finished, they started sending proposals to the conference. Just a bunch of offers started flying in, damn, did you see in the VKontakte forum, offers started flying in that if anything happens, you can go there, there and there with money, such cool, cool [10:08] Okay, this is actually one of the worst-case scenarios for us. [music] We'll room to maneuver and you could try to decide for yourself where to apply, what would you end up facing? Relays. Well, my grandparents [10:21] worked at the TPP, for example, and they were also sent, it turns out, Ivanov's import was sent to Serednsk. That's it, awesome salary, awesome apartment. So that's it , guys, 100%. If the issue is specifically about money, please. [10:34] you will most likely be sent somewhere where you most likely do not want to live. There is another You only know about the profession. That is, to go to work for, I don’t know, for this or that That is, to go to work for, I don’t know, for this or that MF, well, [10:47] in short, you get the idea, right? Well, it will be very local if you work in your own city with a dry salary, it will be very local. Often, there is a of Russia. Approximate earnings in the [11:00] you like surgery [music], you won’t go into programming, although the money there is good. But here comes the most important thing. A person at this age has To understand whether you experience satisfaction from a particular [11:13] activity, you must at least try it. Be, you have to be involved in this activity for at least six months to form an impression of it. But we don’t forget that we are at school, and then after school there is training or [11:25] felting club. You don't even have time to find out what professions there are. You want a new one. Here's where I should go if I want to work in media but have no money. They won't give me any money there, but I'm going to study economics, where there's supposedly money . But do I want to be him? Okay, [11:38] wait. What do you want in the media? Do you just want to work in the media? just be a talking head or do you want to work somewhere behind the scenes, like work somewhere behind the scenes, like write scripts, be a manager, I don’t [11:50] know, a cameraman, a director of some kind . What exactly do you want? It's just not clear, to be honest. If you want to sell your face, well, start doing it now, like, making videos or something like that, [12:03] And in general, if you really want to work in media, , well, that won’t be bad. True, an economist, it’s probably difficult for a doctor to either the editing or the cameraman should write it himself. Well then why don't you [12:15] go for probation, what is that crap called? Well, no, not a film university, but I forgot what it was called. Where they teach all this joke stuff and how editing should work, and how to position the camera, [12:27] basic stuff. Well then you need to go there. Or just give up and try to learn from online guides, try to work as someone else self-taught. Well, in this case you have two options. If you're already studying, well, [12:41] go take courses on YouTube and try to find a job at the same time. All. I don't know what else to say. Sneakers. And mom says: "No money." God, we need money here too. So why pay attention to your desires and spiritual [12:53] I wanted to write a script, but connections are needed everywhere. You don't need any connections to write your own scripts and post videos on YouTube. very important point, [ __ ] hell. You can write a script right now [13:05] , record it yourself, upload a YouTube video and that's it. It might even bring you popularity, maybe even right away, but it might not. I don't know. But if you just sit here, I want, from this position, you, well, will never succeed, [13:19] It's literally like, imagine you and your friend are stuck in the woods, and he's like, "Okay, I'm going to look for a way out." And you stand there like: dumbass, he's going at random. But you stand, stand, stand, stand. The friend is nowhere to be seen [13:31] , he is somewhere far away. And as a result, it’s like you’re the idiot, moving somewhere, climbing through the forest, you haven’t moved anywhere. Yes, you are moved anywhere. Yes, you are safe, but you may have gone out, [13:44] you don’t know it, for example, Talius. Ah, well, like, so what? Are you going to stand here like this for the rest of your life? Well, this is some kind of [ __ ] . It's better to go into the forest and try to find a way out than to do nothing. My opinion. I don’t want to [13:56] sell my face and write; I worked there for 4 years and got no results. So, [ __ ], education, you can just write, for example, say on VKontakte: “Guys, hello, I’m a screenwriter, I have an education, I write scripts, here are some [14:09] However, I think that working directly with all sorts of money than working directly with some blogger, because they will 100% try to screw you over. And in general, there are a shitload of types [14:22] that could be written for. I'm sure you could, like, offer to some you a script or something." Just send your resume. I'm sure you'll all. Nowadays people don't understand that [14:34] old professions like plumbers, fitters, and so on are in demand. As a result, I took a course in painting for fun and earned 200k in a summer month simply by painting the baseboards and curbs of a management company. Moreover, the city is small, 40 thousand, [14:47] Well, with a salary like that, he’s the king of the world, to be honest. [snorts] Well, you see, a honest. [snorts] Well, you see, a painter, but that’s a different matter. Economist. painter doesn't sound right, you know? Yes, it doesn't sound right. [15:00] I need money. Okay, then I’ll definitely find a profession that at least I won’t be disgusted by, but will at least bring in income. And that's all. This is where the choice happens, the starting point, which slowly draws you into all the chaos. And perhaps even in the [15:12] think that you might regret the exams you chose. But yes, 100%. Preparations have already begun. And the change is about to feeling of hopelessness of existence, which, well, [music] is slightly oppressive. Well, yes [15:26] . And at the same time I say, well, that is, the most adequate option is to allow directions. That is, to what is seemingly closer to him, and to what is, well, a kind of plan B. That’s all. Because, well, [ __ ], what can you do? It's like a child [15:41] and then at age 20 say that it's complete crap, he's not interested, he'll just wait 2 years . By the way, seriously, there was a girl in our class. In fact, if I have a daughter, I will most likely act according to the same plan [15:54] understands perfectly well, you will understand when you hear what they did. And they gave her, in my opinion , either a year or two just to find herself. So, she finished school, and they said: “If you want to go to university, like, see what exactly you [16:09] want, go there, there’s a course, she also drew, then choose.” And, in my opinion, she was about two years old and then she went to study, where she really likes. This is awesome because other hand, of course, you can waste this time on all sorts of crap, but, in [16:21] principle, it’s a good option, especially if you go somewhere with her, try to study, look for options, analyze. Well, that is to say, it's really cool. Here you go . But in our country, it seems to me, this only works with girls, [16:34] because if it’s a guy, it won’t work. Well, you can use this option, of course, but I think he will spend a year definitely not searching for himself. For mental therapy. After passing your exams, you feel a little satisfaction that [16:48] over and you have to go to university. And university, as people say, is the best time of your life. Yes, yes, only grown-up uncles and aunts who simply miss their youth and forget all the negative [17:02] memories say this. So, you're already at university, you're 18 years old, and you're says: "Since you're already smoking cigarettes, go to work, I won't give you money for them." And in general, it would be advisable for you to move out as soon as possible. And [17:15] earned my first money from YouTube. I think I told you, but it's made my first money from YouTube. And I, I started, well, naturally, well, I introduced this pre-parent, because, damn, I made money. Look how [17:29] [ __ ] who sits and yells at square-minded people, but I brought money, see how cool I am. And Basya said to me: "Well, in short, that's it, you've already ripped off the money, so come on, make an impact and you'll pay for [17:42] okay." He says: "That's it, everyone, that's 10,000 rubles a month, put it on the shelf." I put 10,000 rubles like this for a long time. on the shelf constantly. And then I found out that utilities don't cost that much . Do you have a dad? Why, why? [17:58] I'm like, well, I'm just sitting with my mom, discussing something and saying: "Hey, Mom, I'm so good for giving the money." Yes? She looks at me like, what the [ __ ], what the [ __ ] money are you giving away, dumbass? I mean, you know how [18:10] when it's [ __ ], like, are you crazy? We'll give you food and that's it. Oh, what are you saying, what are you saying? I you food and that's it. Oh, what are you saying, what are you saying? I say, I give it to the granny. She's like, "[ __ ]," She says something like: "What the [ __ ] 10,000 rubles? This is how much utilities cost." I [18:22] look at this and I just understand that I’m somewhere, well, how many months, maybe three or four, it turns out, right? And I just put in Got it? The one who was under the wing of his parents six months ago [18:34] finds himself in a situation where he needs to get money for his desires himself. But for some reason the desires turn out to be very great. Some of my peers drive their own cars, others are already moving into a new [18:46] apartment. So you get a job at the Design Bureau, try to finish your exams, and your significant dating in school, decides to break up with you . Or maybe you have n't had a relationship at all and you're really upset about it. [18:59] upset about it. University, work, chabutsa. And on lives in Abu Dhaba and buys himself another car. Oh, by the way, yes, it puts a lot of pressure on people's minds. I have seen more than once that if a guy there is 18 or [19:14] 19 years old and does not have an apartment, then he is a [ __ ] piece of [ __ ] or he does not earn money there. I'm sitting here thinking, are you guys dumbfounded? What the hell are you talking about, my God? Or the lookmaxers who say that [19:27] standard training route, you'll be able to earn a stable income with a normal salary by the time you're thirty, at the latest. And then, if you have root access, everything will work, everything will work right according to the database, according to the database, without any [19:40] university, get a job somewhere, you know, climb the career ladder, then someday, somewhere around 30 years old, you will salary. Well, if it's like straight from the standard route, but here these guys at 20 [19:54] standard route, but here these guys at 20 years old, [ __ ], if they don't have an apartment, then you're [ __ ] worked a twelve-hour shift. Yeah, they were looking, [ __ ], at the valley, at the medic, there, at the streamers and stuff like that. And now, damn, [ __ ], if I’m not like this, then it [20:08] means I’m one thing. No [ __ ] way. And God willing, you get 30,000 a month. The teacher is failing you. First retake. What, he didn't like Plus, we shouldn’t forget that, well, often it’s the children of rich parents who sit around with that kind of money, [20:21] well, [snorts] and throw it around . By the way, I want answer. This subject has nothing to do with the profession I am studying for . You buy a term paper from a friend from your fourth year and, without realizing it, you learn about what [20:33] years. He says that half of the groups have dropped out and are already working at other jobs. Your salary is delayed, you can’t find a partner, your friends are living their own lives. And you're sitting in Studio 2va in the evening with alcohol and you realize that everything that's [20:49] happening around you is not what you imagined as a teenager. That is, amidst all this horror, a person comes to the conclusion that something needs to be changed. And the first thing that comes into question is the university. I'm sure most [21:01] students are thinking about this, as they've been fed up with studying for 11 years and looked at an example where life treated you in a godly way, yes, decided for you how much you started earning well? Well wait, what do you mean [21:15] first good salary, then it was when I was laying asphalt. If you mean the stability of YouTube, well, 17-16 years, probably. Well 17, I think. 17 Right there, tasty money started to come in. your destiny or, on the contrary, your parents are [21:28] so separated that you are from your teens Well, guys, if anything, keep in mind that I'm just a YouTuber. I started making [ __ ] because YouTube took off for me, and I was like, "Oh, [ __ ], money. I'm making 30,000 rubles a month [21:43] you know, there's this little ad: "Hello, like the video." Something like this . For Ivanov, it was very tasty at that time. 30,000 then, that’s how it’s calculated, probably 100,000 or 60,000 now, probably something like that, [21:55] . Darksy roulettes appeared when I was already 20, I think, or 21. This was much later. Much later in life, I had to earn entering university is too [22:09] to the fact that we have a student who had a choice and one who did not coin work in Ruscha or is that all? Yes, and it works. It's just that there's little money coming in there because YouTube has created an algorithm that actually stifles [22:22] viewers with VPNs, so they simply are n't shown ads even with VPNs. means I probably get about 30 thousand rubles from my channel. 20. K, whose wishes for admission were not accepted by his parents, simply [22:36] 'm back in time, dear Minecraft friends, when I was just starting out He might even have an idea of ​​what he would like to do and he definitely has a fear of his parents. He feels obligated. [22:49] He can't sign up because he's worried about losing trust. He is also parents will say: “I warned you.” Regardless of how have one similar feeling when they want to drop out. And this is the most [23:03] important thing that unites both types of students. Until recently, I And at what age did you start using YouTube? 16 or 15. Most likely 16. I eleventh. I may have had 15, but not the full ones [23:16] Well, like 16, but not full ones. It's envy, but as it turns out, it's just a consequence of something bigger. And this is fear. Fear of the unknown before making a decision on which your whole life depends. And the loss of this cloud [23:29] stability. When we are little, we do not feel this feeling as strongly as we do as Yeah, [ __ ], when you're little, you have completely different problems. I remember we even discussed this once with Ashley. We stand there and say: "Damn, [23:44] how times have changed." Well, you know, typical shopping. Before, our main problem was that we needed to vacuum the floor and weed out the flowers, right? The Okay, that's it, I'm on the site, guys, I'll be right back. At [23:57] 15 years old, we feel a certain support from our parents, and then we gradually begin Some people don't want to get off their parents' backs, never having learned Believe me, they will have to do it anyway. But if anything, if it makes you feel better, you're [24:12] not that unusual. This is a story that all people go through, even people who are, well, considered successful. That is, everyone should don't know if this will reassure you or not. Experience. By responsibility I mean [24:26] commitment to oneself. You are already separating yourself from your parents. You understand your life. Sn, tell me how you started streaming and what a beginner streamer needs to do? I was just sitting on YouTube, posting [24:38] videos, then I was like, "I'll stream it," and I streamed it. Bro, I'm streamed it. Bro, I'm not a good example. I'm a YouTuber originally. Like, I wrote scripts, filmed videos, edited them, you know, and then, at the [24:50] Do you understand what the joke is? Ril, wait, are you kidding me? You really did But, as I said earlier, life is complete chaos, which we called Strimchansky. But in general, I always perceived streaming as something [25:03] to systematize. What am I getting at? Man, This, I say, is the most free thing in the world. This is objectively, [ __ ], not [25:15] proportional to the costs you make. Well, in terms of receiving, earnings, fame and so on. This is just awful. I had so many editing a video that never made it onto the stream. I sat down, streamed for 4 hours [25:29] , and somewhere there's a banner and no one gives a damn about it . I turned off the integration halfway and earned, [ __ ] hell, money that I couldn't make in a month, uh, while ruining my health, earning money on YouTube. You see, streaming is a [ __ ] bubble. And [25:44] why it works this way, I don’t understand. Because how many times have people come to me, well, everyone literally told me that YouTube pays for itself like this . Twitch doesn't make money the same way YouTube does. At the same time, the prices on YouTube are [25:56] much lower. How the [ __ ] does this work? I sincerely don't understand. Well, well, although money, but I just sincerely sing how it works. Honestly, I don’t understand life studying and discovering for myself certain truths that [26:11] resonate with me and create my own system. If a person imposed on him by society or his parents, then he will definitely find himself unhappy someday. And where does [26:23] fear come from? But it appears when you have lived for a very long time according to one system and understand that there are many different options that are unknown to you. And changing one system for another, more unknown, is very difficult. [26:35] you don’t know how this will turn out for you. And here the question arises: if you questioned your activities and realized that you have a certain desire, then that's already half the battle. So many people live in [26:49] oblivion, just to stay in a comfort zone where there is no growth. At first I thought that it was all the parents' fault, because they didn't invest in their child properly, but in my opinion, this is an infantile position. A parent does not [27:01] have to be a super-brain and learn the truth of reality in their 30-40 working years. who has become a parent knows what to do . That is, I also talked to people who, well, either they just had a child, uh, or they [27:15] want, they say, they hope. Here, literally in every statement we parents. Well, it's hard to understand what they should do . And that is why a so-called test child is needed. By the way, here is an example of a child's test child. If [27:29] of course, he cannot teach a child to connect his mind and soul. Or as a test. No, just in case, I'm joking, you don't have to do that . But just about the fact that this, this, well, in short, you can’t be prepared from the start for the birth of a child. That's all. At [27:42] the very least, listen and hear your soul. Well, I'm just saying this in reality, no joke. I already told you some jokes about how I compare myself there with what my brother does. And, frankly speaking, it's just [ __ ] gut- [27:55] wrenching. The most vivid thing I remember is that I came recently and he was sitting there, swearing and playing a game. I look at my mom and say: "Why is he swearing? You're going to get beat up now, dude." He's like, "No, it's not normal, I fall asleep listening to his [28:09] swearing." I'm sitting here, I remember how I screamed once, and this guy comes into my room, [ __ ] kicks me, the [ __ ], and says: "What are you yelling about, you idiot? People want to sleep." She says: "I fall asleep listening to his swearing." What the [ __ ] is this? This is [28:23] not fair at all. This is unfair. He can only understand from his own experience that some model of life is better, and begin to offer it to his child. And here is the most important idea - try to listen to your parent, but not [28:36] listen. This may seem like a simple thing, but understand what I mean. You learn to analyze it in values. Parents are an authority in your eyes, but it will always [28:49] change. And what? You will listen to every authority and do what he tells you, have mercy. There can be only one authority, and it is within you, but for some reason you absolutely do not want to listen to it, or you have not even [29:01] learned to listen to it yet. Yes, parents certainly have a wealth of experience, and sometimes they say the right things. But learn to listen and analyze, look critically at the information you consume . You are responsible for your [29:15] life and it is not up to your parents to live it. I also imagine a nine-year-old brat watching the video, playing jumping games on Roblk, and being like, "Yeah, yeah, genius." This guy sits there, jumps around, and [29:29] presses batters in Roblox, having a blast. And even now I urge you to look critically at all the information that I give you, because all may not be, I can’t say, uh, the challenge for a [29:42] can’t say, uh, the challenge for a parent is to get the message across to a child, because children are stupid, just that if I have a child, most likely, I remember in general [29:56] that even I was watching my brother, I think until he’s 11 years old I will have normal contact with him . Most likely, then , [ __ ] hell, this me, who is [30:08] the smartest, will wake up, and I will just tell him: “Dude, 2 + 2 = 4.” He's like, "[ __ ] five." This was written on TikTok. I say: "Look, in short, ta-ta-ta-da-ta. popular. I'm sitting there like, "No, he's a dumbass." That is, I clearly understand that [30:23] I will have these constant squabbles as a child and an explanation to him that, well, the world looks a little different. Align with your values? The phrase you want" sounds banal and populist. Well, if I say that we are always accustomed to [30:38] living someone else's life, but pay attention and listen only to what sounds from the lips of people around us, parents, teachers, not only that, we do not hear our sincere desires, adding to this, just take a sip. By the way, have you ever [30:50] considered that it's really possible that sometimes parents take away PCP because they're tired of talking to you dumb idiots. Well, haven't you thought about it from this position? That is, you are so stupid that the only way to, well, [31:03] solve the problem is to radically lock you in a cage, for example. propaganda. The Internet has become a big machine. means that the parent still can’t completely turn [31:16] the situation around and resolve it humanely, you know, without restrictions. But sometimes, it seems to me, there is no option for humane solutions. You know, there will be no peaceful solution computer. A machine that distracts a person from [31:29] life and imposes on him complexes, opinions and hatred while he does not notice it. A person begins to record all this information in his subcortex at the very moment when the turning point between childhood and adulthood occurs. And what I’m about to [31:43] tell you now is of crucial importance. In your entire life, you must at least once come that limits you. So, on the contrary, they give the child a computer and don’t screw up his brains; let him play on the computer and not stuff his ears with stuff. Well, this is just a case of [31:57] . Plus, if he just plays computer games, he might just grow up to be a understand it perfectly well yourself. Well, let's be honest. If you can't find a [32:09] balance between fun and learning for your child, well, you've obviously screwed up as a parent. It's just a fact. Moreover, I say, I probably won’t demand, well, super grades from my child at school. I need him to [32:23] simply get a basic education, because school is, among other things, about example, well, I will want, probably, that he was a good student there, or for him to have at most two or three there, for example, because, well, it’s obvious, it [32:36] trying, but even if it doesn’t work out, he will study better, awesome, no matter how worse. Well, maybe it is revealed. My opinion, again, is like, it seems to me that you're really trying, [ __ ] hard, studying, developing, and so on [32:48] . So, how did you study, bro? Before I went to private school, my grades were just [ __ ] awesome , by the way. I had zero Cs. understand, in my certificate I seriously thought that I had only one C. It turned out I didn't have it. It [33:03] turns out I don't have any Cs at all. Well, for understanding, like feel sincerely what you really want. It could be a stage. Well, again, I’m just judging by myself. [33:17] even if you get a couple of Cs in some subjects, it’s not that hard. You just have to [ __ ] do your homework sometimes and open a textbook sometimes. If you say something like that, well, either you are just a very special person, then this is [33:31] your exceptional situation, and we need to study with you especially hard. It's hard, really. This is a really tough story. Or you're just a [ __ ] lazy idiot. I had a situation where I literally did my homework, [ __ ], before class, learned [33:44] a poem before class, uh, literally came up with a [ __ ] answer to the teachers during class. I still remember how I wrote such a verbal essay on Heroes of Our Time in an argument with a teacher, without having read A Hero of [33:59] Our Time, by the way. I mean, [ __ ], no joke, I'm sitting in literature class, they stand me up and ask me: " Is Pichorin a good character?" I'm like, "Oh, I don't give a [ __ ] who that is. I just have no idea ." I'm like, "He's good." They [34:11] say, "Is Suli good?" And I'm like, "Because there's something good in every person , even despite their bad, [ __ ] actions. She gets mad at this and like arguments that will let me know what the plot is. I start turning these takes [34:25] into moral meaning, giving weak responses. She says, I sit like that with him for about 10 minutes, arguing at the end, and she says, "Okay, sit down at five, but your position is weak." I sit there like, "Oh, [ __ ], well, I think I'm right. And I didn’t even know what this was, [34:38] even though I had no idea at all. Well, that’s why, yes, that’s why you study, well, means that, well, at least you’re trying, at least you’re trying to study. Remember when you were little, what brought you pleasure? Maybe, [34:52] is, it is literally an indicator. A talent for reading poetry in public or putting on scenes with dolls. And once you connect to your soul, you can add your mind to it. It will help you assess the risks that may [35:06] precede the fulfillment of your dream. I would like to say that I also stream on Twitch, where we discuss various topics. You can ask your question about don't listen to us like this. And he simply gives a two for not being prepared for the [35:18] lesson. Depends on how you speak. You see, very often, uh, you win methods were copied. That is, I’m saying, we had a history when in English we needed, in my opinion, to pronounce the tenses of words [35:32] in one, well, in short, we were not ready for all the classes at all. And I come up to them and say: “Guys, I came up with a [ __ ] awesome plan.” We take a piece of paper and write all the words on it. And what was it like there? Now, wait, I'll draw it for you. There it was like, let's [35:44] imagine, this class, right? There's a desk over there, there's a desk over there, there's a desk, right? Here is the teacher's desk. And the funny thing is that next to the teacher’s desk there was this that next to the teacher’s desk there was this huge cabinet standing behind him. I tell [35:57] the guys: "And you stand here, like." And I say, "Guys, let's take a piece of paper, write some words on it, and just tape it here. And we'll just, damn it, go out. And we'll have a legal cheat sheet. If anything happens, we'll just [36:10] looks at this somewhere in his notebook. We just watch in parallel. Still a [ __ ] awesome idea. And the last one simply takes this piece of paper so that he doesn’t I am open to discussion and criticism if you disagree with my opinion. Let's get back [36:24] envy from the teacher. I had a literature teacher who like the person’s opinion, or she immediately differs from him. Well, this is a sweetheart, this is a sweetheart. This is just a total sweetheart. No luck here and there. Once you have [36:38] an idea of ​​what you would like to do, you begin to evaluate the risks. Why shouldn't it have worked? There is a certain stability that doesn’t suit you, but it [the music] is there. It could be university, a job [36:50] that won't let you go, or overprotective parents. I don't know, in my paradigm, a twenty-year-old person hardly has any risks, unless, of course, he has become a parent by that time . That is, he does not have a person [37:02] whose life he is putting in danger. He doesn't have some huge reputation that he's questioning. Anyway, if you have any risks, then any understand it, that school taught me to cheat [37:15] people. Your decision must pass you by. You are responsible for your life and your personal opinion of yourself. And the saddest thing is that when you make a saddest thing is that when you make a decision, sooner or later you will make a mistake, [37:28] you will understand that you did everything wrong . And that's what's needed. At this point, a Well, yes, I can’t think of anything more interesting . No, he is in control of his destiny, but not everything goes as he expected. And this is an [37:43] important point of growth for your personality. At this point, it is important not to give up and try something new, or to continue along the intended path, despite failure. Well, it sounds like, you know, something like : "[ __ ], guys, move on! Life is [37:57] tough, but keep moving forward and you'll make it. The main thing is not to lose heart. n't have the vibe, it's too anime-esque." Well, I mean, [ __ ] hell, objectively, yes, you have to follow your dream, but life is just a little, let's [38:12] say, meaner. You can do anything, and you really can win everything . Or maybe not? Maybe you'll face problems that will tell you: "No, brother, you'll spend your whole life sitting at the bottom and sucking at [ __ ], no matter how hard [38:25] your belief in yourself, [ __ ] Simon, and so on ." All. And at this very second, childhood ends and real adult life begins. Not only does the crisis come to an end, but that childish view of [38:39] life, when you think that everyone around you is to blame, is erased . It's easier to call your transition period a watching TikToks. You can look at your entire existence as an endless crisis, but I choose not to look at it that way. Don't be afraid to make mistakes and [38:53] admit your mistake. You should be afraid of screwing up your whole life. Don't be afraid. This is true. This is true. This is true. Only in the moment you wo n’t be so afraid of making mistakes that you’ll make so many mistakes and get tired of it. There's [39:06] sounds really, well, really anime-esque . [ __ ], you can do it, keep going until the end. But, unfortunately, people get tired. People get tired of waiting for the weather to change. And in the end, they simply suffocate [39:21] in this very everyday life and simply live like robots, living out, well, the rest of their lives. Admit that you don't like what time. Because you're afraid of everything in the world, but you're trying to keep [39:34] your life under some kind of imaginary control, you're slowly wasting it. Understand that it is impossible to control everything in the world. Life will never give you a guarantee of success in any given endeavor. All that's left to do is do what you like. And [39:47] maybe you'll get somewhere. Take it, don't be afraid to hang around. Errors this part of the way. Well, yes, that's how it is. It's just that sooner or later this path with its mistakes will get on your nerves. That's the meme. And for some reason no one talks about this [39:59] going, damn, life doesn't end. And as for the fact that this is a bummer, everyone is completely really do, what should you do in a situation where you’re fed up with it? Are you fed up with everything being constantly dull, depressing, and there not being a single ray of light, it turns [40:15] and there not being a single ray of light, it turns path. Well, what should we do? Will anyone tell me? Go all the way. Sooner or later tell me? Go all the way. Sooner or later it will happen, [ __ ], that's life, [ __ ]. The [40:27] main thing is that you take a hit, [ __ ] hell, if anything happens, get up, [ __ ] hell, beer, [ __ ] hell. Have you already figured out what you like? Or is it easier not to figure it out and continue to impose expectations on your life, blame everyone around you for your failures, [40:41] procrastinate and not take responsibility for your life. The choice is No, it's true. Everyone is responsible for their own life. This is a fact. This is a fact. This is a fact. It would be fair to add that for some people this life is much easier in terms of [40:53] difficulty, while for others it is literally a difficult knight from the recently hand, this class is cheating. Well, okay, this is going a little in the other direction. OK. So I wanted to go big, sit with fashionable [41:07] So I wanted to go big, sit with fashionable clubs, nightlife, and think [music] I found my paradise, why are you so lonely then? You wanted to run, sit, and hang out. lonely then? You wanted to run, sit, and hang out. He.