[00:02] >> [music] Let's say you're a dude and you have a crush on a girl. Your strategy here is, and then she's going to see what a swell guy I am and then I'm going to kind of
[00:16] crush on you. Do you want to go out with me?" or something like that. That to me feels a little duplicitos because you've gone for the friendship with the relationship further down the line. As a dude in that situation, you should just
[00:28] your feelings. Whether or not she says yes or no, you've shot your shot. There start off being friends with someone and then over time both parties start to think that's amazing, but that's fine because there wasn't a duplicitos
[00:41] intention behind the thing. So, I really think it's about the intention and it's intentions versus are you being dishonest with your intentions? This is also somewhat cultural specific where it would be frowned upon by both men and
[00:53] intentions that like, "Hey, I like you. Do you want [music] to date?" like very well known. It's much more of a done thing to start off becoming friends even likes each other. There's this whole like unspoken thing around like, "Hey,
[01:06] if we start off as friends, then there's this all this possible deniability and kind of depend what is the sort of culture that you're in.