Become Unrecognizable in 90 Days

[00:02] now you won't recognize your body, your habits, or your bank account. And I'm talking about what actually works. And I know this because I went from being stuck in a job that I didn't like to living [music] a life I love, making

[00:14] millions and being in a better place physically because I lost over 130 lbs in less than a year. And also, I'm traveling all around the world just motivation, but this is a blueprint because most people don't need more

[00:27] information, but they need new identity level habits. That's why people watch videos like this, feel inspired for about 10 minutes, and then it's right back to the same life. So, if you are watching this from the same place that

[00:39] you were 3 months ago, same routine, same stress, same money problems, then same stress, same money problems, then this is for you.

[00:53] as a nurse practitioner. In my nursing career, I have worked those long 12-hour overnight shifts, those 40hour weeks that felt like it was draining my soul. underpaid. I even went through a season

[01:08] that I was laid off from my job and the money that I was owed legally, I did not see a dime of it. But now I see that God had other plans because I went from making 90,000 a year to now making 7 figures every single year from my own

[01:22] to brag, but I'm telling you that because that number finally matches the vision that I had for myself as a kid. >> 21 22 23 22

[01:34] >> How old are you today? >> I'm seven. Eyewitness News. Wait, this a >> y'all ready now? I always saw a certain life. It was birthed in me, not just

[01:46] built in me. But purpose is just like a muscle. You have to work at it to build it. So I had to stop settling for just a job and start building my destiny. But understand. These next 90 days, it is not your forever. This is just a

[02:00] controlled sprint. You don't need balance. You don't need perfection. You just need a temporary obsession. The mistake most people make is that they try to focus on changing their life forever and that is overwhelming. We

[02:14] just need to focus on changing the next 90 days. All right, so listen, let's get into this because if you want to become unrecognizable, the first thing that has unrecognizable, the first thing that has to go is distractions. You cannot build

[02:26] to go is distractions. You cannot build a new life with a distracted mind. Now, to do this, this may be extreme for some, but necessary for others. Don't just grab your phone the first thing in the morning when you wake up and start

[02:39] see is something negative and we know social media is filled with that. And so now that one post has set the foundation for your entire day, changing your mood and affecting your performance and that is something that we do not want.

[02:53] Instead, the first thing I do, the first thing you should do is pour into yourself and set your intentions for the date. Just take a pure moment of silence and a moment to be present with God. Not talking but just listening. Sometimes we

[03:06] talk so much and then we wondering God where are you? I am not hearing from chance to chime in. And if you cannot stop grabbing that phone, then you need bedroom. Now, I know silence is uncomfortable, but that's where clarity

[03:20] comes from. [music] I know people hate hearing this part, but I'm going to tell you the truth anyway. How you look affects how you act. And it's not about vanity. It's the fact that your identity follows your

[03:33] Mon'nique? It's because every single shift in my life started with a physical upgrade. And mine was actually fitness. I lost over 130 lbs in less than a year. definitely a fight. It was a struggle. I was going through it. It was actually

[03:49] painful for me to get up most of those days and walk. But I was tired of being stuck in that place. And I was tired of being limited by my own body. I never right now because of the condition that I was in physically. It wouldn't even

[04:02] allow me. So, I went hard and I was losing at least 20 lbs a month. And maybe by the 90 days, I was at 60 lbs down. And that didn't only change how I I performed. And it took the limits off of me that I didn't even know was

[04:17] holding me back. I stopped feeling tired and sluggish. And I reconnected with my body. And that's when I really stepped into the season of making this world my office. Because I used to be shamed when I would get on the plane. Why? Because

[04:29] [music] I would go in a corner and secretly whisper to the flight attendant asking for [music] a seat belt extender because the regular seat belts wouldn't do it for me. And at that time before I really stepped into the place I am now,

[04:41] we would sit in economy and I would be so worried about the next person sitting by us and and if I'm invading in personal space, if I'm going to even be comfortable, but now I don't live in that place anymore. And it's not that I

[04:55] didn't love who I was because I loved myself [music] at every stage of my life. I just didn't put my health as a top priority until I learned to do better. But that's not the place that I live anymore. or I no longer have to do

[05:08] that. But once I proved to myself I could do something that was that hard, at least for me, then the confidence didn't just stay in the gym. It showed up in how I groomed, how I walked into rooms, and how I made these million-doll

[05:21] decisions. And you don't have to wait to feel confident to start acting like it. You act confident and then just let your brain catch up. That's why the physical signals matter, whether it's dressing with intention. And I'm not saying you

[05:33] have to go out and buy Gucci bags or step into this big old luxury lifestyle. Just envision the person that you want to be and actually act like that person, person. And you're doing it to show yourself who you are becoming. It's

[05:47] about alignment. When your outside start matching what you have going on in the inside, your life starts responding differently. Now, here's where a lot of people really mess up. They try to rebuild everything at one time. How do I

[06:00] know? because I was one of those people. I tried to be the perfect wife, build my faith more, lose weight, fix my credit, and build my bank account while [music] also finding my purpose. And I tried to do all of that in the same seven days. I

[06:13] ended up exhausted, burnt out, and right back where I first started. But listen to me closely. I am not in no way, shape, or form telling you to ignore or to neglect your life. But what [music] I am saying for the next 90

[06:26] days, you need one primary function that builds momentum. [music] And I know for most people right now their driver is income. Why? Because money don't just pay bills. It removes pressure. It buys time. It creates options. When your bank

[06:40] account starts moving, your nervous system slows down. You make better decisions. And you stop living in survival mode. And that momentum spills into everything. You [music] work out different when you're not stressed. You

[06:52] you're not anxious. [music] You think clearer when you are not constantly worried about money. So yes, we do need to focus on all of these different aspects of our life, but focus on building that one engine first, and

[07:05] I'm really just trying to tell you a lot of things that sometimes many people things that changed my life. And one of the things that I can tell you is your life will not be shaped by motivation, but it is shaped by the things that you

[07:19] goals. I don't need to hear your affirmations, nor do I need to see your vision board by itself. Because a vision without execution is just decoration. [music] Show me your actual calendar and I will show you where your life is

[07:33] headed. I know for me if it is not scheduled or written down it is not is not changing. And that's [music] when things shifted for me. I stopped asking myself how do I feel today? And I started asking the version of me I was

[07:47] becoming what do I need to do today? And let me tell you I do believe in vision boards. I make one every single year and I have hit everything on my vision boards every single year. And that happened because I didn't just visualize

[08:00] it. I scheduled it. I made it a point to do it. I turned that vision board into a non-negotiables. And it's not perfect. non-negotiable. And I have to do it now. What the outcome is might be different

[08:16] supposed to be in the very beginning, but at the end of the day, I always get the result that I need for my life. And it's no debate, no emotion, no excuses. I'm telling you, motivation will lie to you and it will disappear when you are

[08:30] tired. Motivation is out the door when life gets hard. But systems are going to carry you when that motivation is gone. So that's how I stopped having to start over. That's how I stopped quitting on myself. And that's [music] how things

[08:42] finally started to stack. Now, at this point, every single thing that we have need you to come in a little closer for this one. It might be a little to embrace you right after. You cannot announce your transformation to people

[08:57] that benefit from you staying the same. Some people aren't just rooting against you, but they are comfortable with you being that same version that does not require nothing else from them. But listen, when you start changing, you

[09:09] don't need permission from nobody and you definitely don't need approval. Real growth is quiet because the moment you start explaining yourself to people is the moment you start negotiating with people who are not even building your

[09:21] future. So for the next 90 days, I don't want you convincing nobody but yourself. I don't want you explaining and I don't want you to have to defend nothing that execution. Let the work speak. Let the discipline speak and let those results

[09:34] speak. Loud results always come after quiet seasons. So, I'm telling you, if you follow this for the next 90 days, you won't have to explain nothing. room. And if you are watching this thinking, "This is for me," it

[09:47] definitely is because the version of you that's coming is done asking for that's coming is done asking for permission. Not going to be great.