Stop Making Selfish Content
46sShows a concrete example of providing value instead of just selling, which resonates with creators struggling to grow.
▶ Play Clip"Delivers on answering live business questions, though heavy on promotion and motivational rants."
In this episode of Tea with GaryVee, Gary Vaynerchuk engages with a live audience on Whatnot, answering business and life questions while also promoting his Vriends trading cards. He emphasizes the importance of providing value over selling, taking action over overthinking, and understanding that the algorithm is a reflection of the user's own behavior.
Gary advises against content that solely promotes products; instead, create value-driven content like how-to guides, e.g., showing how to stretch a hip flexor, which attracts and engages audiences.
For a 48-year-old realtor worried about AI replacing her job, Gary explains that AI is not yet capable of tasks like showing houses, so the fear is overblown. He advises adopting an offensive mindset instead of reacting with fear.
For a food business owner from San Jose, Gary recommends searching local companies on LinkedIn and Instagram, messaging HR or CEOs directly, and creating content showcasing the product. He also directs to GaryV.com/attention for a free content strategy deck.
Gary advises a 30-year-old earning $200k with a cushy job to take the risk of starting a delivery business if he can easily return to his current role, noting that risk is often overblown by societal messages.
To a car salesman with 600k followers who never went live, Gary insists he start immediately for an hour to get comfortable, emphasizing that action trumps overthinking.
Gary demonstrates his own feed full of positive content and argues that the algorithm reflects user behavior, not external manipulation. He urges people to take accountability for their social media experience.
A perfume influencer with 77k followers launched a brand that didn't sell. Gary suggests going live daily for 3 hours to interact and understand why followers didn't buy, rather than relying on vanity metrics.
To someone interested in 20+ things, Gary says the problem is not focus but unwillingness to do the work. He criticizes excuses like 'I have too many interests' and emphasizes effort over luck.
Gary's core message is to stop overthinking, take consistent action, and focus on providing genuine value to build a loyal audience and business.
What type of content does Gary recommend for a fitness clothing brand?
Value-driven content like how to stretch a hip flexor, not just product promotion.
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According to Gary, why shouldn't a realtor fear AI replacing their job?
Because AI is not yet capable of showing houses in person, so the fear is premature.
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What two platforms does Gary suggest for a catering business to find local clients?
LinkedIn and Instagram, by searching for companies and messaging HR or CEOs.
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What is Gary's advice for someone with 600k followers who has never gone live?
Start going live immediately for an hour to get comfortable; action trumps overthinking.
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What does Gary say the algorithm is?
The algorithm is a reflection of the user's own behavior (you are the algorithm).
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What does Gary recommend to a perfume influencer whose brand didn't sell?
Go live daily for 3 hours to interact with followers and understand why they didn't buy.
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What does Gary say is the real issue for people who claim to have too many interests?
They are using it as an excuse to avoid doing the work; they need to pick one and work hard.
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Value Over Self-Promotion
Gary clearly articulates the core principle of content marketing: provide value first to build trust.
03:02You Are the Algorithm
A powerful reframe that shifts accountability to the user, debunking common conspiracy theories.
25:55Hard Work Over Luck
Gary bluntly calls out entitlement and excuses, emphasizing that success requires effort.
48:28[00:05] good morning good morning good morning everybody welcome to another episode of tea with Gary ve hope this works for the West Coast little later start good morning GED dog great to see you soy great to see you everybody share share
[00:18] share and boost boost boost welcome to T with Gary ve where I am live on whatnot answering questions in here if you got a question please ask it in the whatnot
[00:31] chat using the question mark but I'm also live on all my socials and I see you all uh Marine I see you in Germany on YouTube nft parent good morning on X
[00:45] uh American Gunners on YouTube and then all sorts of people all sorts of people all sorts of people all sorts of people Naman I see you on Instagram over 1,300 on Instagram the Luca trade was crazy all of you on Instagram please go to
[00:59] all of you on Instagram please go to Gary v.com whatnot dinomania hey hey hey Gary v.com whatnot dinomania hey hey hey on Tik Tok please go to gary.com whatnot team Gary ve let's spam the [ __ ] out of Gary ve.com whatnot good morning Nico
[01:14] whose first show is it here on whatnot let me see the shares there's only 12 shares look at this there's only 12 shares please can I get a little can I get a little love here can I get a little love here can I get a little bit
[01:27] okay 16's better 18's better there's literally 200 151 of you I would assume Mike that this should be at 251 t with Gary V is here do we have our first guest I am ready for him or her this is the show where you ask me questions and
[01:40] going to give away stuff we're going to give away Common Sense c a little bit what's your name my friend where you from hey Gary adrel from Miami we spoke maybe like two weeks ago I don't if you remember about cohorts and so forth I
[01:52] remember guys can we can we get some new [ __ ] people on this show this guy's three shows but I like it brother good Hustle I'm kid just want to give a little like testimony how you mentioned with cohorts and then I'll get into the
[02:04] then creating some other content for some other demographics I was able to connect with someone there on Tik Tok on a live um who then helped me with some Affiliates he created some content with his target audience and demographics and
[02:17] then generated some additional sales so just pre you know applying What You Preach with cohorts and content and so just thank you for that as well too so brother I don't know if you I don't know if you saw my stagram this morning but
[02:31] this guy's talking about like wanting to like you know live his dream and you know I I need everybody to go to my latest Instagram post that I posted an hour ago it's um everyone needs to hear it but none go ahead my friend sure so
[02:47] like a fitness clothing brand and so I wanted to get your feedback like from a more General standpoint let's say what's some biggest mistakes you see some of trying to grow on social media that you see that they make on that regards they
[03:02] make content that's selfish and they don't make content that brings value to people so for example putting out content to show people how to stretch their hip flexor is like a piece of content that brings people
[03:17] value and that's something they could be doing in the gym right and so out how cool my [ __ ] pants are and [ __ ] sell sell sell look what I'm doing right now I want people to buy vriends tra I want every single person
[03:34] collecting vriends because I think I'm building the next Pokemon but look what I'm doing in real life instead of just doing sell sell sell I'm here trying to provide value and then everyone's like what's v
[03:48] giveaway let's give away this shrewd shark I'm going to sign this now I'm going like I'm using the platform watch this I'm showing you in real time now I've signed this it brings it more value some can sell this for 100 bucks on eBay
[04:01] now I'm going to put up a giveaway that's going to go up right how many people here are on the show for the first time they're all going to click all the PE 100 people just clicked if they weren't following the account
[04:13] entering the giveaway made them follow the account now I'm going to point to the notes there's a little yellow tabby right that I'm pointing to that's the notes field if you click that and you click the little vf15 in there that goes
[04:26] there's a code in it goes in your shopping cart and then later when I sell these for instead of 25 for 15 bucks people are going to get free and they really doing is providing value it's almost like a global jab jab jab right
[04:40] hook yeah and it further reemphasizes what then what based same on you said that's exactly what I've been trying to F I don't want to focus so much on the like hey look guys you know like started motivational I even started a podcast
[04:53] too to just bring other guest to Pride other value and so forth so awesome brother love you apprciate before we go uh Mackenzie you got one from the text everybody 2129315731 I just sent a text out and
[05:07] people are asking questions through there and McKenzie's jumping in during break times but while we're before we go to Mackenzie and her question as you can see on screen everybody please and I see you OE I see you holding Atlanta I see
[05:21] you Veronica Z I see you I see all of you y bets JP in Japan Theo K I need I need all of you to go to gary.com whatnot download the app download the
[05:36] app mom of three girls and Edison New Jersey yes I see you Lucifer 9 I see all of you but I need you to see me by going to Gary b.com whatnot download the app it's a global app not just us only I need to teach you how to do this social
[05:50] shopping content thing but I need you on this platform to teach you McKenzie fire away we got Kelly I'm 48 how do I get over the fear the AI is going to replace my job as a realtor I'm going to college getting my masters in Psychology but it
[06:04] worries me AI is going to replace that as well and then I'll have debt to go along with it don't be scared of AI like especially if you're a realtor like robots are not showing up at houses next year like we're not there yet like if
[06:17] you're a designer who has no ideas if you were a graphic designer who has no ideas you should be worried about AI but if you're a real estate agent it's like
[06:29] like [ __ ] Megan Fox is not showing up at a listing and selling the house like that movie showed anytime soon we're a little ways away from that so let's calm it the [ __ ] down let's stop always using fear what this 48-year-old young woman
[06:43] needs to do is stop using fear as her reaction to new things right because you know this like when I see new [ __ ] I go on the
[06:55] offense I mean by the way AI could disrupt advertising way quicker than it's going to disrupt real estate home sales so I think for everyone here it's about fear or optimism and I think too many people default into fear on
[07:10] everything they hear so I think the answer to her is to quit it stop being scared who's next Alber Albert what's good brother jump in here what is the code Eddie the code is in the notes here I'm about to
[07:26] sell some of these I'll get to you in a second on that where you from where I'm from California amazing what part brother from the Bay Area from s
[07:40] California it's a pleasure to meet you what's your question my friend nice to what's your question my friend nice to meet you so my question is um we've been I've had a food business where we s uh at festivals and fairs I've had the
[07:54] at festivals and fairs I've had the business for about 9 years and now we're we're we're trying we never been on social media I haven't really created any content if you go on our uh profiles you're going to see shitty content on
[08:07] there but now we're we're we're wanting to get into this branding cuz I believe it's time now because we're very well known we actually we went out and we bought a really nice uh trailer and we're trying to get into catering now
[08:22] but we don't know how to really go about it um marketing wise what should we do what should we not do and just like that I love it brother couple things number one you need to look at the companies that are located
[08:38] in a 20 mile radius of your where you live and find okay find their HR people live and find okay find their HR people or their CEOs on LinkedIn and send them
[08:50] messages okay so if there's an office 3 minutes from you and you see it's called Logitech literally find them on LinkedIn in and send them a message and say you're a new catering company in the area and would they like to talk you're
[09:05] literally just like the ironically the post that I'm trying to get everyone to look at that I just posted on Instagram literally okay you're going to get 80 oh we had a giveaway winner Maple bear with the big win let's clap it up for Maple
[09:20] bear everyone Maple bear with a nice win Maple bear um so you want to do that you want to make content on Instagram you also want to
[09:33] content on Instagram you also want to search your town on Instagram so like I'm gonna show you I'm tired of people not doing stuff what town are you in in San Jose yep San Jose so literally I'm searching San Jose
[09:50] on Instagram I hit enter okay right and now it's showing me I that I hit re watch
[10:06] here from San Jose okay and now I'm looking at content from San Jose right and I'm seeing people I can click that content get a sense of who that person is and I see this guy and he does ironically he does food and literally he
[10:23] has 178,000 followers and I could message him and say I'm going to say keep going cuz I'm going to give him some positivity but you could have said do I'm a caterer in the area or a food I've got a food I got
[10:36] a vegetable stand do you want to do something together so okay not notice so content I've talked to you about messaging messaging strategy okay LinkedIn and Instagram
[10:51] searching your town after that you need to make content that is just about what you sell and what you make like okay I don't think you need my advice to what to make by the way Gary v.com attention everybody tag it up
[11:07] right now Gary v.com attention my brother okay I made a deck how many brother okay I made a deck how many pages is it 44 47 I made a 47 page deck for free for free if you go to Gary b.com
[11:24] attention it's free and it will show you how to do content in detail and then I have a quick question s so worries we went out and we got a a professional photographer did a video really nice shoot of our
[11:41] product and my question is on my social media platforms should I delete all of my shitty old content and put the new content or should I leave should I leave it what's the best thing to do doesn't [ __ ] matter both work it doesn't
[11:55] matter both work okay if you feel some sort of way and insec C about the shitty content cuz you think it's shitty delete it I I don't think it [ __ ] matters so good news it doesn't matter okay perfect all right brother
[12:10] good luck to you Gary v.com attention and don't forget the Instagram dming and the LinkedIn messaging and if you all go look at my latest Instagram post where I yell at the guy call him a dick I was pissed I called this fine gentleman who
[12:26] pissed I called this fine gentleman who was a lovely guy I called him a dick was a lovely guy I called him a dick let's just play
[12:43] investors and I'm like email people on LinkedIn and he goes they don't respond this guy's talking about wanting to live his dream his dream life 20 [ __ ] five
[12:59] want people to give you money and you've given up after messaging 25 people McKenzie what do you got we got Ron Ron I'm 30 and I currently like my job get paid good money 200k a year great
[13:16] work life balance but I have an opportunity to start my own delivery business it would be much riskier take upfront money won't get to travel near nearly as much but it would allow me to develop people which I love to do how
[13:30] should I make this decision I hate that it's on text cuz I have a follow-up question which is does he does he feel that he stepped into this lucky job or does he feel he's talented enough and has a skill or
[13:45] relationships or whatever it is that he could get the job again I always think most people should take risks I think that we've confused people that risk is bad a lot of us have parents that tell us old adages like measure cut once or
[14:00] you know bird in the hand is better right all these messages Mark Lori the about this last night that's why I'm bringing it up like everything is like scares you to take risk I think he should take risk if it's easy for him to
[14:14] go back to such a Kush sitch and it might not be but if you're watching Ron that's where I would go with it all right real quick there's 54 of you on here so I want to give something away am I allowed to give this
[14:27] away is this yeah are the here to sell do we still have some not really right no these are now eBay mainly can someone get me a good black what's that raed John clutch just raided let's clap it up for John and his
[14:40] crew John thank you for the raid you were on with t with Gary ve here live in studio in New York City with the vriends community where is the mouse there it is
[14:52] um what about that [ __ ] Luca trade Jesus Christ that was big um all right if it's your first time on here please put the code vf15 for $15 off if you've
[15:04] never bought anything put it in the cart right there put it in the cart you can click the notes right here oh we have a giveaway black marker can I get a black marker a brown silver could be here we go black
[15:19] is good all right everybody good news this is not for you on social you've got this is not for you on social you've got to get to whatnot free gritty hat signed to get to whatnot free gritty hat signed just to give you Conta text look at this
[15:45] about to answer more questions in a second everyone be right with you look at this look at the gritty ghost hat 130 Bucks sold sold on January
[15:57] 17th 130 bucks see if there's any others gritty ghost is such a character I lost the screen it's back gritty ghost hat is free right now just hit the giveaway button there's 547 of you only 243 of you have entered it this is being
[16:14] given away right now let's go to the next question everybody in Social you can't win until you go to Gary b.com whatnot get over here Tina Brown I see you Pier J I see you on LinkedIn Isabelle I see you on Instagram it's not
[16:27] Isabelle I see you on Instagram it's not in here comms fit Fitness nope uh Mr Credit USA from Tik Tok get over here what's up my man how are you yeah hell yeah you're on what's up fam what's your name where you from bro Javon Javon
[16:39] Banks I'm from St Louis I'm in Dallas right now Javon pleasure my man I'm car you're my uncle I always call you my uncle been watching you since I was 17 grew up like straight out of high school you were like heavy on Tik Tok so I just
[16:52] went head on into it now my mom watched you and everything like that so thank you I made a nice following on like selling cars now um and I just wanted to you used to sell wine what are some steps if you were a car salesman and to
[17:08] in 2025 how would you utilize like live shopping what and I do comedy skits but like I also like to convert those things into sales my audience into car sales things that you would do what are some tips you would do I would get on Tik Tok
[17:23] live are do you have a thousand followers on Tik Tok oh yeah you do you're on Tik Tok I I have have like I'm approaching 600k huge so how often have you been on Tik Tok live I literally have never been on I only post content
[17:37] only post because that's that's what works but I I want you to hang up right now okay and go on Tik Tok live and start chopping up do you know the they're just going to put you in the for you page and random people are going to
[17:52] discover you yeah okay I literally want you to hang the [ __ ] up on me okay open your ti Tik Tok app go to the bottom hit the plus sign and go [ __ ] live and put okay write a title first time put it up and just start [ __ ] talking and
[18:07] walking around just like you are now I want you to do it for an hour just to want you to do it for an hour just to get your [ __ ] feet wet okay okay get your [ __ ] feet wet okay okay thank you it's bro everything is about
[18:19] action yeah for sure everybody wants to think strategize right you know what I mean how do I there is no right Jay there's how do I there is no right Jay there's no right yeah you understand for sure
[18:33] everybody thinks there's some sort of right way there's no right for sure no thank you and and what you've got is so visual yeah like all those cars that you've got you got a good demeanor on
[18:47] question people are going to ask you how to become a car salesman where you from just talk yeah what you're over worried about is if you spend an hour on it and there's no a audience there that can afford those cars you think you're
[19:01] wasting your time yeah yeah right right you're not wasting your time okay it's the same [ __ ] that you did building your organic social people people told you that you were wasting your time on that nobody
[19:16] was going to buy cars but you listened to Gary ve and it [ __ ] worked it worked big time well guess what live is going to work even more for you get on it right now yes sir thank you thanks Gary you're wel appreciate you all right
[19:29] Gary you're wel appreciate you all right this exciting all right who's here and the first time you're on whatnot I want to try something with you all I want to give you something free oh fuckload holy [ __ ] that's a lot of people's first time
[19:44] all right everybody if your first time wow there's a lot all right a lot if it's your first time click the notes I think it's probably right here am I opposite is anybody watching me click the notes right here oh there's only 9
[19:59] seconds left on the giveaway how did 200 of you not hit this are you [ __ ] kidding me all right here we go free $150 hat for no reason is going
[20:11] to Bak Baker breaks let's cap it up cap it up with B Let's Go Zack Owens I see the cor Captain nice little win for Baker
[20:23] the rest of you here's some more free money click this little notes thing it money click this little notes thing it will open and then click the little vf15 that little white button if you did it just say just did it if you're only for
[20:37] to work for first-time buyers only for the new people if you just did that you click this little notes thing it opened and you clicked the white little thing now these are vriends trading cards they're graded these are graded by cgc
[20:53] these are a collectible let me show you see friends uh we normally sell them for 25 bucks we did this the other day and I loved it we're going to do it again we're going to lower the price to $15 you're going to start your vriends
[21:06] collection right now I am literally trying to build the next Pokemon next Marvel next Disney a lot of you have heard about it but you don't know much we'll educate you on it but I just want to show you these things sell for
[21:21] different prices obviously depending on what the card is but as you can see these things sell these cards sell and I want to get you your first one ever you might get a passionate parrot in the
[21:33] mail randomly going to give you one away we're going to sell them instead of 25 for 15 Android doesn't work Mixon I don't know about that Android Works maybe res if something doesn't work SL swipe out of here and come back into uh
[21:47] the app the guy Jose welcome for everybody on Tik Tok Instagram YouTube LinkedIn Facebook twitch get over here go to gary.com whatnot this is why you're missing out Andrew Monson Nicholas get over here Nicholas the the
[22:02] the link is pinned on Instagram live right now it's Gary v.com whatnot Texas right now it's Gary v.com whatnot Texas razin get over here Veronica Veronica it's you're not seeing it because you're on Tik Tock I need you to go to whatnot
[22:16] you will only see this notes button if you are on whatnot everybody else is not seeing it on social all right rips put up a 100 of these we're going to put up they don't see the note they can still go in their wallet maybe yeah if you
[22:29] don't see the note you could put it in your wallet there's a Code put in to the bottom right here and you can buy your first one ever as soon as you buy
[22:41] one and get it for free say got my first one click right down there and say got my first one let's go humble Humber got one let's go Humber everybody just click right there there we go they're flying out rabbit resell Common Sense wax
[22:54] Giannis my Melissa Ste I see all these look at this chubby got his first one you got McKenzie how would you get one more time who was asking Madison Madison how would
[23:06] you get your mindset to work 40 hours a week I'm struggling so bad to even get 40 hours in Madison you can turn it up Madison if lot of things that could be going on one you might just hate your
[23:20] job McKenzie do you know this that I struggled to even put one hour of struggled to even put one hour of concentration to school past fifth grade you saw the report card zero hours of concentration so I've lived that life by
[23:34] the way there's only 15 left of these newbies are killing it uh Anderson Keith just said got one busted my cherry congrats to that what's that sold out and they're sold out I know a lot of you missed your first V
[23:49] friends trading card uh Sandra why are people buy why are we buying these you should only buy them if you want to collect V friends if you you know if you're a collector like I am people people collect that's why um
[24:01] people collect that's why um anyway um there's a lot there either you hate your job either you're in a very very like tough place right now it might be about excuse me it might be about health it might be about your
[24:14] relationship but I believe that optimism is the drug that unleashes everything I think no matter how shitty your life is or you perceive your life to be a I think there's a lot of people who have a shittier life and I know that
[24:28] me like putting my life in perspective to the rest of the world always makes me feel better um but two you've got to start surrounding yourselves with positive people I think it's positive people and positive content right now
[24:43] like at home I'm putting on the TV and on phone and on laptop I'm just consuming a lot of information [ __ ] television is a disaster has anybody watched Fox News or CNN they're just scaring the [ __ ] out of
[24:56] CNN they're just scaring the [ __ ] out of you social isn't everybody blames social right everyone's like social so [ __ ] up here's my feed Luca LC Grammy news let me keep going here see um Sports comedy V Friends next post
[25:15] see um Sports comedy V Friends next post music next post basketball next Post Trading Cards next post influencer in my screen ad notice it was an ad next
[25:27] screen ad notice it was an ad next Sports next next business next sleeping big Shout Out b Robbins next business next Nicks let's go [ __ ] Josh Hart next trading cards next [ __ ] exercise
[25:41] soft tissue stretching next business next JLo I get Paris Hilton got it next next JLo I get Paris Hilton got it next pop culture next business next positive pop culture next business next positive influencer next New York [ __ ]
[25:55] influencer next New York [ __ ] Jets the algorithm is you Jets the algorithm is you the algorithm is you team clip that once and for all I'm putting this to bed the algorithm isn't making you depressed the
[26:08] algorithm isn't sending you to racism the algorithm isn't red or blue pilling you you [ __ ] you're not accountable you [ __ ] are not accountable you're not [ __ ] accountable I just showed you my algo
[26:24] accountable I just showed you my algo the algo is you the algo is you yes Emily I feel this one the algo is yes Emily I feel this one the algo is you you are the algorithm stop [ __ ]
[26:36] blaming social the algorithm is exposing you you are the algorithm you're the you you are the algorithm you're the [ __ ] algorithm you're the
[26:50] over here Gary v.com whatnot what's going on with Source signal HDMI 2 over here it's [ __ ] up out today man cargo shipper Miami I will keep it up I will expose everyone on this we will
[27:04] will expose everyone on this we will eliminate all excuses in the culture eliminate all excuses in the culture enough Vinnie Pats I am fired up you are the algorithm enough I just showed you it's you right
[27:18] enough I just showed you it's you right ma it's [ __ ] you it's you Mark Zuckerberg doesn't give a [ __ ] to turn you into this that or the other thing you into this that or the other thing China is not tricking you if do you know
[27:32] how audacious you [ __ ] are you think China gives a [ __ ] about you Pat in Kansas you think China you think the [ __ ] Chinese government's sitting around be like all right let's get Pat and his daughter Sally to [ __ ] hate
[27:46] America you [ __ ] idiots enough you're the [ __ ] algorithm I'm going to actually change 3,000 people's lives right now looking to do something now if you don't like your algorithm even if you do like your
[28:01] algorithm go to Tik Tok and Instagram right now go to search and search Gary V enter and just click a lot of likes to all the Gary ve content then type in New
[28:14] York Jets and like four to five Jets post then type in wine and type four to five wine posts you and then put in trading cards and click four five tell me what your
[28:28] going to be give you're going to be living that Gary ve life you want to turn into me that's how you do
[28:50] shares there's only 41 shares there's 646 of you in here hit share hit share 646 of you in here hit share hit share hit share give me a boost OG's
[29:04] slightly big boobed girls there you go the algo is you the algo is you you're the [ __ ] algo hi hey Gary I appreciate your passion so
[29:16] on of course what what's your name where you from wait name and from oh hi I'm you from wait name and from oh hi I'm Dina uh and I live in Dubai amazing hi Dina hey so my question for you is is I am very goal oriented very consistent
[29:30] I've done very well in my career I am really struggling with my Instagram uh platform and growing my audience even though I've been doing it 15 years consistently and I'm just wondering do you recommend maybe spending on boosting
[29:43] content I know that it that stunts your organic no it doesn't stunt your organic but you're boosting for insecurity a piece of content that nobody liked right think about it you posted it
[29:56] organically don't forget let me show you something that will blow your something that will blow your mind watch this this is my new Tik Tok start replying to people randomly I have 384 followers look how many views this
[30:11] 384 followers look how many views this post got 32,000 right now watch this now post got 32,000 right now watch this now I'm go to my regular account 15 million followers right look at my latest posts there less less views on my latest
[30:26] post 15 million less followers it's all about the content now so what I would recommend you do is not boost content algorithm that nobody's that interested in I would challenge you to start mixing
[30:40] up your content and going on a complete detox and completely going left field make a cooking video be more vulnerable than you've ever been change up your [ __ ] content try like like sit down and make 10 totally different pieces of
[30:55] content that you have not in the past that's like different style different topics [ __ ] you've never talked about maybe with other random people maybe I mean one of my most viral posts was me talking about me liking
[31:12] okay I think you need to mix up your content if you're stuck people when they're stuck need a creative reboost of trying different [ __ ] not boosting content that's not doing well I I I feel like my content is is
[31:28] audience my audience I'm always losing as many followers as I am gaining oh good news followers mean nothing okay followers mean nothing I followers is not even going to be shown publicly
[31:42] publicly soon it means nothing I I'm not growing everything's coming up in your feed I don't follow anyone when I see good content I just like it so I see their content again I stopped growing
[31:56] too okay I'll try not to focus on that then thank you so much Gary by the way I love I love you for what you just did people are stuck in high school don't worry about how many friends you have you're focusing on the wrong
[32:12] metric I'm so glad to hear that because I feel like I'm doing well I'm getting the recognition but I'm just so frustrated that I've been at the same number for years and I just don't get that i' been I've been at the same
[32:24] number for years too following culture is dying everybody's just getting their [ __ ] in the feed and like my whole young crew is like shaking their head right now like they all know they're like occasionally you'll follow but like it's
[32:37] not like it used to be where if you saw anything you liked you followed you know you don't have to anymore right stop looking at following stop looking at view start looking at views achieved start looking at views
[32:51] achieved okay appreciate you thank you so much for all that you do happy to do cuz I just just love people getting free money gritty hat the gritty ghost exclusive hat which is selling for plenty of cash on the bay I want to
[33:04] stick it to all the people that are on social what's going on with this TV all of you on social oh look what you did you tripled it up oh that's even you tripled it up oh that's even better uh Colleen Ro dog on YouTube love
[33:17] better uh Colleen Ro dog on YouTube love it to Affinity on Instagram daa Lulu on Tik Tok you cannot get this hat everyone cuz you have to be on whatnot to get this hat this hat signed Auto gritty ghost put it up rips put it up put it up
[33:32] put it up put it up whose first show is this who's on whatnot for the first time and enjoying themselves say first and enjoying all right Mackenzie what do you enjoying all right Mackenzie what do you got we got Connie Connie best social
[33:45] media platforms for a 53-year-old registered nurse with a new family photography side hustle all of them McKenzie it's [ __ ] all of them Gary McKenzie it's [ __ ] all of them Gary b.com attention text her back Sid wake
[33:58] up and text her back Gary v.com attention every [ __ ] 2,000 person all different channels all of you should be on whatnot first of all only 670 of you are but for all 2 three th000 of you watching right now Gary v.com
[34:14] watching right now Gary v.com attention Gary v.com attention I made a attention Gary v.com attention I made a 44 page deck for [ __ ]
[34:27] are realizing what not is global get on here live social shopping platform whatnot all of you should be learning it anyway I need all of you best place for the best wine deals winx.com throw it up everybody winx.com in the
[34:43] US bringing that 17 energy I agree Courtney why I'm feeling real positive here uh Sin City Nails on Instagram it's pinned to the bottom I need all of you to go to Gary b.com whatnot and if this is your first show I need you to click
[34:57] this little notes button cuz I'm going to set you up to get something for free rips knows the best desk toys in the world if you don't like your job you need vriends sitting on your desk all 10 characters we normally sell these for 18
[35:11] I'm going to do it for 15 for everybody who wants it for free but I need you to click the little notes thing and then hit the vf15 white button that will put the code into your shopping card only on whatnot that was not for all of you in
[35:24] social media let's go to the next question who is it Mona Mona I like that name I like that name that made me feel warm and fuzzy inside Mona are you
[35:36] here hey hey my dear friend Mona that's it made me double feel po cozy that's awesome Mona how are you I'm doing really well Gary it's lovely to see you yeah my question is you know I work
[35:53] at Yale at a lab where we're using VR technology to personalize um behavioral interventions for kids yep so aside from Yale I've started my own startup I've
[36:07] Yale I've started my own startup I've been investing into u a demo like uiux wireframes okay and with Jessica Greenwall who was my boss at Vayner yes I know that's awesome so I've invested into that she's amazing she's amazing so
[36:22] she's helping me with these wireframes so I have the demo uh ready by March inch I'm going to be meeting many Angel Investors it's an AI powered EHR for
[36:34] therapists so they will be able to have more precise diagnosis um they'll have a lot of intake information because of an AI chat bot will complete the intake so I'm hoping that the diagnosis is more precise and that we can use some of
[36:49] these VR interventions and video game interventions to personaliz treat excuse me for a second excuse me for a second did we get beers on Tik Tok said I wish my daddy gave me a liquor store I want to take a moment to address this did we
[37:04] get beers it sounds like you don't actually know my story my friend in fact my daddy did not give me in liquor store in fact as we sit here today Sasha bayner chuk still owns Wine Library in fact I worked for my daddy from 14 to 34
[37:20] and took his business single-handedly from 3.8 million to 65 million and he never paid me any kind of salary whatsoever paid me between 40 and 880,000 a year over those years and I left with so little that I
[37:35] had to start Vayner media in a conference room in another company in fact I put my daddy on my back not he put me on his back and I built it for put me on his back and I built it for him so I think it's fun that people like
[37:50] excuses oh the yeti I don't think he's a hater I want him to win and I want to explain uh oh I wasn't 14 making 40K Daniel I was making two bucks an hour when I was 14 I was making 40K when I was 26 and
[38:05] had already taken the business from 3.8 million to 25 million imagine going on make yourself feel better because you're not [ __ ]
[38:20] winning I love all you guys all right go ahead advice on how to go against Tech Giants cuz you know oracle and these companies are now getting a ton of funding because of the change in administration and yeah
[38:34] of the change in administration and yeah I mean I think is I feel like um I I on one second Mona I apologize again another Interruption the winner is four later big win for four later big win for four later um and so
[38:48] yes I'm actually dripping I'm actually sipping tea Mona I wouldn't be scared of tech companies yes there's gonna be a lot but you'll be able to adopt all those and there's you know think of them as layer one you'll just be Layer Two
[39:00] outtech them yeah you're just going to build on top of their Tech and they're build on top of their Tech and they're going to be able to take a tax make sense makes sense and uh do you have any advice on precede funding go like uh
[39:14] literally talking angel investors I've never done it before just tell them your truth you're such a dynamic girl I know you well you're going to get one yes out of 25 and then it will start the end literally the video I posted this
[39:26] you got to just get meetings and ask I saw that that's it if you want money you're asking for money you got to grind you gotta grind love you talk to grind you gotta grind love you talk to you soon than talk to you soon
[39:41] um H Anderson Keith great to see you brother Deshon all look at all these everybody who's got yellow letters right now in whatnot all 700 there's so many new people go to vri.com quiz go to vri.com
[39:57] quiz go to vri.com slash quiz answer let's pin that Shepherd or somebody else answer those questions and to figure out which questions and to figure out which vfriend you are and then screenshoot the
[40:10] answer and make it your avatar here Morgan KC Sally a Sally AN627 Morgan KC Sally a Sally AN627 uh the yellow letters are questions Ryan I'm talking about your avatar it says r y all these yellow letter avatars need
[40:25] an update uh this is live live retro visit great to see you um George 7098 great to see you sturgia great to see you sports card frenzy good to see you McKenzie Maddie asks why do you think companies aren't hiring people in their
[40:41] companies aren't hiring people in their 40s uh because I think you're deciding to look at negatives people are hiring we hired nine people in the last three weeks and they're 40s unlimited companies are hiring people in their 40s
[40:55] I believe that Maddie again is a what I'm seeing in the universe is people are choosing negativity to feel better McKenzie do you believe that companies are not hiring people in their 40s no okay so what kind of question are
[41:09] we have you know we you know we do have a pirate Alex and V friends it's called the poker pirate there was access tokens in series one it's a very rare character people are hiring in their 40s but if you decide people are not hiring in
[41:22] their 40s you're going to sit in your house and be like I'm getting [ __ ] by aism gen Z and AI are taking all the jobs unlimited companies are hiring hiring you and maybe you need to look at
[41:35] you and maybe you need to look at that who's up are you hey Gary how's it going things are
[41:49] going incredibly well where you from Sweden Sweden Sweden amazing it's a pleasure to see you [ __ ] I can't believe I'm speaking to you my god I've been following you for so many years and I'm speaking to you now it's crazy it's a
[42:04] speaking to you now it's crazy it's a pleasure my my heart is pounding very oh [ __ ] it's a pleasure brother what's your question so my question is this only because of you I started making content on Tik Tok 4 years ago about perfumes in
[42:18] general it and I was growing really fast became the biggest perfume influencer in Sweden in just one two years amazing and last year I started my own brand and expecting kind of people to buy just because of me but what happened no one
[42:33] because of me but what happened no one really bought I underestimated the hard work of building a brand and now I can't got hit by that reality check and now got hit by that reality check and now I'm starting to kind of figure out what
[42:45] I should do from here and I've read your book of course fully in line with building you know a brand for making organic content but I'm a little bit stuck now feeling like what should I do what content should we make I'm fully
[43:00] like we should do everything but I'm just like lost what should we do how many how many how many Tik Tok followers do you have uh 77,000 on my private account not on a company or on the brand account um and how often are
[43:16] you going live almost never I think you need what live almost never I think you need what happened in your transition was you I love that you said you underestimated I think a lot of people
[43:29] take the audience for granted you you know and do you have a do you have any insight to why people didn't buy it is the question I would tell you that I would go live if I were you for three hours a day for the next month and just
[43:45] talk to people I'm looking at it right now like GG Allen I'm on on Tik Tok as well obviously everybody get over to uh to uh whatnot over here Gary v.com and you could talk to Kaden you'd be like kayen why did you not buy the
[44:00] like kayen why did you not buy the fragrance Karissa um uh Karissa I'm on gary.com whatnot I also don't see him live on whatnot if they go to gary.com whatnot it's because they're going they're probably searching your nameus
[44:14] ah yeah don't search my name on whatnot when you go there search V friends but my friend you could just talk to them on live and ask them why they didn't buy the fragrance some will tell you they didn't know about it some will tell you
[44:28] that they didn't like the the description of the scent but I think you need to spend a lot more time interacting deeper with your audience because what what happened was it wasn't as deep as you thought
[44:44] because they didn't feel like buying it just to support you and you need to build a deeper connection and I and I believe the biggest way that you can build a connection is live not content
[44:58] live okay on my private account that is on your private account I would literally hang up right now and go live for an hour and see what happens and focus group like you're just hanging out with your potential
[45:11] customers okay I think one reason why I didn't do it is two years ago when Tik Tok was on the boom I feel like whenever I went live I had maybe 100 people in there but nowadays when I tried going live it's like 10 15 people in there so
[45:25] I maybe it's an ego thing too where like of course it's an ego here of course and the longer you stay on more people show up and by the way 10 to 15's a
[45:39] and when I went when I went on you stream for hours back in 2007 and 8 and stream for hours back in 2007 and 8 and N there was 13 people there 40 people
[45:53] envious of what you don't have got it why content other side too correct talk to them an hour to three hours a day for the next 30 days will life okay all right good luck thank you so much I appreciate you thank you so
[46:07] right actually I'm goingon to read the chat a little bit here on whatnot everybody on uh twitch YouTube Joshua Ford I see you on YouTube uh Avis concept I see you on Instagram John Luca I see you on Tik Tok all of you please
[46:21] I see you on Tik Tok all of you please get over to Gary b.com whatnot all right these are going fast uh excited for the series one where when is risk too much
[46:33] risk when if you fail it disproportionately destroys the people around you other than that it's not too much risk you know notice the theme the
[46:45] lady in Dubai cared about followers this gentleman in Sweden cared about how many people showed up to the live right people are worried about vanity
[47:00] metrics much more than the depth of the whole thing right and so you know to me I I just think that people need a perspective Shi you know risk I think is
[47:12] perspective Shi you know risk I think is practical but if you like if you're if you're if you lose your home and your children have to you know live in a different part of town like when you're affecting others but if it's just you
[47:26] it's never too risky cuz you're going after your dream you know you're going after your dream all right let's go to next one yes garage sales are still in play in fact I think whatnot for all of you right now actually I have a fun game
[47:39] for the 715 of you are on here as soon as this is over create your whatnot account and go live on whatnot and try to sell something this Saturday out of your house something random like a pillow like literally garage sailing on
[47:56] whatnot I think is going to be a monster just try it see what happens see what happens all right let's keep it
[48:15] know I want I think so dark go ahead uh Boss someday but I feel like interested in 20 plus things food creative strategy Sports How can I learn how to start my own thing by picking one I have all
[48:31] those same interests too pick one guess pick one when everyone's like oh I have 20 things Gary I can't do anything no no you're using the excuse of I have 20 things not to
[48:47] the work like we're going to have to get to the core of this issue everyone there's a there's an issue out there it's called people want the results but they don't want to put in the work that's why plastic surgery and OIC are
[49:00] that's why plastic surgery and OIC are so big unfortunately there's no plastic surgery and OIC in
[49:14] work I get that you want a Lambo in a private jet and an island and a hot guy or girl as your partner but are you working for it or are you just sitting on social scrolling farting on your [ __ ] couch
[49:29] scrolling farting on your [ __ ] couch and being like I win they got lucky lucky is the weapon of choice for non-action oriented entitled human
[49:47] beings yeah lazy farters all over the yeah lazy farters all over the world lazy farters all over the world world lazy farters all over the world y'all lazy La farters don't be a lazy
[49:59] y'all lazy La farters don't be a lazy farter want to get in here get in here ripsy I know you want to put up more of
[50:11] these I'm ready yeah let me yeah let me just sneak one more in all right let's go bro I love your you're a [ __ ] mess in your room I like it bro I like it bro I like it bro I'm the same [ __ ] way I like it all right my man what's your
[50:25] name where you from my name is Anthony I'm from Denver Colorado I quit my job in 2020 because of you and I opened a toy and collectible shop and it's been doing real good but lately just been having trouble getting people in the
[50:39] having trouble getting people in the door what not I need you on what not today in the store selling stuff I already am tell me how's it going how's Wednesday I'm live every Wednesday come check us out the box 303 what about
[50:54] Monday Tuesday Thursday and Friday Saturday and Sunday so 2020 the first two years we went live days Faceook every I get it I'm talking about right so here's what's happening to your point things are changing people don't want to
[51:08] go to stores they want to [ __ ] I love the promo my guy listen to me I love the promo but what's going to get you so much more business is you going live on followers do you have on Tik Tok uh about
[51:24] 15,500 beautiful that means you can go live bro I need you to go live on these your store is going to become your studio and that's how it's going to go man don't be romantic about it being a store be romantic about building a
[51:37] business like don't create friction for people to come to the store there's people right now watching that want to buy some of the stores that you have the toys that you have in the store but they can't get their ass to Denver but but
[51:50] they would buy it on [ __ ] whatnot yep I'm live every Wednesday no [ __ ] bro [ __ ] every wed that's it every bro I need you live as much as humanly [ __ ] possible let's go let's go brother love you good luck thank you Gary thank you
[52:04] for everything Frankie Frank's Freedom fren is right be consistent as [ __ ] the consistent cougar right yeah got blanked there for a second consistent cougar transition the consistent cougar I will say this someone who's
[52:19] consistent and is a c player Braden I want you to hear this cuz I find you very consistent I'm about to give you some flab hour I find that a you're a c player I find that a consistent C player destroys a random a
[52:36] player every day of the week people don't want to be consistent because they don't like to persevere through the
[52:48] like you know how sometimes you wake up off cycle I got plenty of sleep but it just felt weird I didn't want to go to the gym it was a little gloomy I didn't want to persevere I really
[53:02] didn't but when you [ __ ] have that [ __ ] fortitude in your stomach It consistent y'all all right speaking of consistency I am building the next Marvel next Pokemon the next intellectual property I
[53:18] need all of you I need all of you if you're new on what right now what not right now to learn uh we could kill all the socials kill them socials I'm leaving you go to Gary v.com whatnot go to gary.com
[53:33] whatnot or go to vri.com whatnot I'm leaving y'all I'm leaving leaving y'all I'm leaving y'all I need to
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