VTuber Deme "Apologized" to Me

[00:00] The VTuber Demi has officially

[00:01] apologized to me earlier this morning.

[00:03] And this was the response that I

[00:04] received that was basically addressed to

[00:06] me for the entire world to be able to

[00:08] see. And um I will cover this and read

[00:11] this all in just a second if I accept or

[00:13] do not accept this apology, but I would

[00:15] like to remind everybody on how we got

[00:17] here to begin with. It all starts with

[00:20] this initial post from Demi where she

[00:23] basically says that she does not want

[00:25] NSFW content of her Vtubing model

[00:28] created. At first glance, that's fine.

[00:29] That's a fine ask. However, within two

[00:31] to three hours after she made this, she

[00:34] retweets NSFW of her character model.

[00:38] Obviously, me and so many others started

[00:40] calling her out about how this is just

[00:42] basically performative. It's

[00:43] hypocritical. And I basically said

[00:46] virtue signaling. And instead of Demi

[00:48] responding this to clarify, you know,

[00:50] basically the stance that, you know,

[00:52] why, you know, she did this or, you

[00:54] know, like why, you know, it's not

[00:55] hypocritical, she instantly responds

[00:58] with a personal attack against me,

[00:59] saying, "Wait, oh my god, aren't you the

[01:01] guy whose fiance literally cheated on

[01:03] you and your whole friend group sided

[01:05] with her, LMFAO?" And instead of

[01:07] basically answering or anything or

[01:09] trying to explain herself about being a

[01:11] hypocrite and me basically saying a

[01:12] virtue signaler, she responds with a

[01:14] personal attack that comes at me. Now,

[01:16] I'm not going to get into the

[01:17] nitty-gritty story of it. I feel like

[01:19] everybody is already aware of it at this

[01:21] point of what happened to me. The point

[01:23] of the matter is is that instead of

[01:24] basically just trying to, you know,

[01:26] explain what's going on, she used a

[01:29] massive personal attack against me,

[01:31] which um she obviously miscalculated. I

[01:33] didn't expect as well, but she started

[01:36] getting called out massively to the

[01:38] point to where pretty much all 1,600

[01:41] comments are negative against her. And

[01:43] um it's honestly insane just how many

[01:45] people legitimately are just straight up

[01:47] upset with her coming at me like this. I

[01:50] I personally did not expect a lot of

[01:52] support. About 95 to 98% of the time uh

[01:56] individuals like this they get away with

[01:58] it. So I was I'm not going to lie. It it

[02:00] it's actually pretty shocking just to

[02:02] see the overwhelming amount of people

[02:03] that were on my side. But regardless,

[02:06] ever since this there was spiral after

[02:09] spiral after spiral. For instance, you

[02:11] had her block me after this and all

[02:13] that. And then after this entire

[02:15] section, she basically clarified that um

[02:18] you know, she doesn't care about me or

[02:20] my mental health, but she cares about

[02:21] men's mental health. Basically, people,

[02:23] you know, digging into different things

[02:24] about her. Pretty much saying that

[02:26] you're kind of a hypocrite. So,

[02:28] basically, you don't care about men's

[02:29] mental health if it's someone you

[02:30] dislike. There's a lot of things.

[02:32] Basically, people just started digging

[02:34] up a lot of stuff, kind of pointing out

[02:35] just how hypocritical she is on top of

[02:38] her personally attacking me. And

[02:40] eventually it spiraled to the point to

[02:42] where people started finding live

[02:43] streams of her for Outer Wilds, I

[02:45] believe, to where she was getting,

[02:48] you know, stuff like that, like

[02:50] allegations that that was potentially

[02:52] happening within a live stream over an

[02:54] hour. And a diabolical individual, by

[02:57] the way, decided to do timestamps for

[03:00] the entire thing of different comments

[03:02] on when stuff happens. And it's it's

[03:05] crazy. And so basically for the last few

[03:07] days to almost a week, a lot of people

[03:10] have pretty much been um more or less

[03:12] uncovering the hypocrisy that Demi has

[03:15] been doing. For instance, it all started

[03:17] with me calling her a virtue signaler

[03:19] and her basically trying to retweet NSFW

[03:22] of her model despite saying she doesn't

[03:24] want it. But even prior to this, she

[03:26] literally has these uh these streams to

[03:28] where she's making very suggestive and

[03:30] adultlike sounds. And you know, let

[03:32] let's just go on a limb here and humor

[03:34] the fact of what some people are saying

[03:36] that um Demi, you know, wasn't getting,

[03:40] you know, stuff like that in the uh the

[03:42] live stream. Okay, the sounds, the way

[03:46] it is presented is very suggestive. Now,

[03:49] I'm going to say I don't care if a

[03:51] VTuber, anyone wants to do that. What I

[03:53] am saying is is that she had the

[03:55] audacity to do stuff like that within a

[03:57] stream even if nothing was happening and

[03:59] then goes on to do stuff like this. It's

[04:02] just like you know what you're doing.

[04:03] Yeah. It feels very performative. It

[04:06] feels very hypocritical and virtue

[04:08] signaling which is what I said. So

[04:10] anyways, none of this stuff would have

[04:12] happened if she would have responded to

[04:13] me in a civilized manner and either

[04:16] honestly just calling me stupid. If she

[04:17] would have just called me stupid, it

[04:19] would have probably ended there. I might

[04:20] have said, "Oh, you're stupid, too." or

[04:21] blocked or whatever and that would have

[04:22] been the end of it. But obviously

[04:24] because of the double down, the triple

[04:25] down, the quadruple down, we got

[04:27] eventually to the point to where she had

[04:30] to make an apology to me because overall

[04:33] all over social media, everybody on

[04:35] YouTube, on Twitch, on Tik Tok, on

[04:38] Instagram, on Twitter, Reddit as well,

[04:40] everybody was pretty much against her.

[04:43] And like I said, shocking.

[04:46] Very shocking. I I I did not expect that

[04:49] much support on my side, but okay.

[04:53] Anyways, at long last, we get to today

[04:56] and she issues this statement. And let's

[04:59] let's read it. I was ready to genuinely

[05:03] take this to the ground because of the

[05:05] idea that why should I ever feel bad

[05:07] being rude to someone who's a piece of

[05:10] [ __ ] After some reflection, the thought

[05:13] occurred to me, do I really want to go

[05:15] as low as him, though? And the answer

[05:16] was no. I said what I said because I

[05:20] personally think there is no scenario

[05:22] that a friend group chooses the side of

[05:24] a fiance that cheats. I can't even

[05:28] fathom friends siding with a cheater.

[05:31] However, would I have brought it up if I

[05:33] knew he was suicidal because of it? No.

[05:36] I admitted it in the previous tweet. So

[05:38] why didn't I apologize? Because he's

[05:41] this and that and blah. But I thought

[05:43] about it and that kind of ideology is

[05:45] quite harmful. I knew it was wrong and I

[05:47] admitted that twice, but I didn't

[05:49] apologize. So after reflection, I am

[05:52] sorry. I'm sorry for bringing up a

[05:53] memory that made someone suicidal. It

[05:56] was a lowblow. Even if it didn't if I

[05:58] didn't know, regardless of whether he

[06:00] was intentionally being a piece of [ __ ]

[06:02] I don't want to stoop to his level. I

[06:04] rather be better and learn from my

[06:07] mistakes. So before I give my answer,

[06:10] there's a few things I'm just going to

[06:12] put and explain on screen here. First

[06:15] off, we got to talk about her previous

[06:18] post and uh what she's even talking

[06:20] about her previous tweet when she

[06:21] basically said she didn't want to

[06:23] apologize to me. So this is the tweet

[06:25] she was talking about basically where

[06:27] she was um basically labeling me a

[06:29] pedom. She was labeling me a rapist and

[06:32] all sorts of other accusations, false

[06:34] accusations. That is Kiwi Farms speech.

[06:36] basically the same type of

[06:38] cyberstalking, stalking, harassing group

[06:40] that likes to ruin people's lives and

[06:42] even swatch them. She was using their

[06:44] exact same wording and rhetoric in this

[06:47] post and basically saying that she would

[06:49] not apologize to me because I'm quote

[06:51] unquote weird. And um I would like to

[06:54] remind everybody up to this very point

[06:56] right now, the only thing I said to her

[06:57] was that she was a virtue signal. Her

[07:00] response was to laugh at my misfortune

[07:04] being cheated on. my friend group

[07:06] abandoning me. Then on top of that,

[07:08] basically calling me a pedo. Well, she

[07:10] did. I mean, she posted a fake tweet

[07:12] here. She called me a pedto. She called

[07:14] me a rapist. And then she basically did

[07:17] not take any back any statements of

[07:19] these back. She didn't even apologize

[07:21] for this. Even in her apology tweet, she

[07:24] didn't even mention this and say how

[07:25] wrong this was, these false allegations

[07:27] against me that have literally no proof

[07:29] whatsoever, which is outright insane.

[07:32] But, um, it doesn't just stop there.

[07:34] this tweet that she made, she edited it,

[07:36] which you probably have seen Rev already

[07:38] cover this and I covered it in a

[07:39] previous video, but she edited it to

[07:40] remove the fake tweet, but kept

[07:42] everything the same. And her apology, so

[07:44] to speak, people like to say, is that I

[07:46] had to update the tweet since I didn't

[07:47] want to spread misinformation. My bad on

[07:49] that, but she's still spreading

[07:51] misinformation. She's still technically

[07:54] calling me a a pedto. She's still

[07:56] calling me a rapist in this entire

[07:59] section, which is outright insane. like

[08:02] it it it it it's actually ridiculous.

[08:05] But anyways, after this post, she went

[08:07] to her Discord and this is what she said

[08:10] in her public Discord after that post I

[08:13] just showed you. I think people

[08:14] misunderstand my post or want to change

[08:16] it to something they want to believe in.

[08:17] I want to know y'all's thoughts. People

[08:19] are telling me I'm a hypocrite for

[08:20] advocating men's health but not caring

[08:22] for this content creator's chibies. I

[08:24] feel like both can coexist. LF LMFAO.

[08:28] Just because you advocate something

[08:29] doesn't mean it's on a case- oncase

[08:31] basis. I do not care of Chibi. Doesn't

[08:34] mean I don't care of people's mental

[08:36] health. Okay. After the combo with the

[08:38] Discord, what I did was unnecessary. And

[08:40] honestly, I didn't even do it for Clout.

[08:42] I literally just got baited from seeing

[08:44] his name.

[08:47] Really? Yeah. You You didn't do this for

[08:49] clout.

[08:52] Here's the image. She posted this as

[08:55] well on her official Twitter linking

[08:58] that she was going to address the drama.

[09:00] And you've seen probably Rev and other

[09:02] content creators already comment comment

[09:04] on this, but uh that link she posted to

[09:06] a Twitch stream that supposedly was to

[09:07] address the drama was um basically her

[09:10] 24/7 VOD stream that is just reruns of

[09:14] her content. And the interesting part,

[09:16] prior to this, she literally condemned

[09:18] farming and basically trying to content

[09:21] farm an engagement farm, but she turns

[09:23] around and does that hours later, which

[09:25] basically implies that she um she's once

[09:29] again another hypocrite. So, we we have

[09:30] multiple different showcasings of being

[09:34] a hypocrite, not not just with like the

[09:36] whole NSFW thing, but just different

[09:38] things. men's mental health to basically

[09:40] engagement farming and then also

[09:42] basically the stuff with NSFW. We have

[09:45] now multiple examples and that's not

[09:47] even getting into the with the the the

[09:50] Twitch stream. So, this is what she

[09:53] said. She basically said she doesn't

[09:54] care about my mental health. She doesn't

[09:56] care about me or anything like that. And

[09:58] she heard about the situation, but she

[10:00] doesn't care. That that's what she said

[10:02] in these Discord messages. And then we

[10:04] had this which was the followup to the

[10:08] apology.

[10:09] So after the apology came out obviously

[10:13] many not myself but many said that her

[10:16] apology was uh not an apology. It was a

[10:19] non-apology apology. I even saw people

[10:21] saying that it is how how do you make an

[10:23] apology worse than Logan Paul? That is

[10:26] insane. And so she took to Discord to

[10:28] start commenting on the situation after

[10:30] the non-apology apology that she made.

[10:33] And this is what she more or less had to

[10:34] say. I'm seeing a lot of messages here

[10:36] in the Discord, please. It was never for

[10:38] them. They would have never been any of

[10:40] my viewers. Look at any of their

[10:42] profiles and realize I angered the group

[10:43] of people that would have banned in my

[10:45] chat anyway. Literally,

[10:48] I did this apology not only for me, but

[10:50] for my community to be able to move on.

[10:53] I personally think I could genuinely

[10:54] think someone else is a piece of [ __ ]

[10:56] while realizing I'm in the wrong for

[10:57] doing something, too.

[11:02] Then this is her private DM to me. Now I

[11:05] want you to know the time frame here on

[11:07] when this DM private DM she sent to me.

[11:10] By the way, at this point in time, I was

[11:13] blocked. I've been blocked for days. I

[11:15] covered that already, showcased that.

[11:16] And she unblocked me. I I believe I'm

[11:19] still unblocked at the time. She

[11:20] probably blocked me after I upload this

[11:21] video. But basically, she unblocked me

[11:24] and she sent me this private DM. Now, I

[11:27] wasn't going to show this or anything

[11:28] like that because it's a private DM and

[11:31] you know, this is not really a let's be

[11:34] honest, this is not really an apology

[11:36] here, but it's better than the big

[11:38] public statement she made. And I was

[11:39] just going to be like, you know what,

[11:40] screw it, I don't care anymore. But when

[11:43] I saw these Discord messages and her

[11:45] basically saying that uh she did not

[11:47] make the apology for them quote unquote

[11:49] me and everybody else on the internet

[11:51] and basically said everybody on the

[11:52] internet that's calling her a hypocrite

[11:54] was never her fans to begin with even

[11:55] though her own fans are calling her out

[11:57] as well. I think really just goes to

[11:59] show that everything she said in the

[12:01] private DM to me was not actually an

[12:03] apology and she's trying to play both

[12:05] sides. She's trying to apologize but

[12:08] also keep her fan base happy to where

[12:10] she it doesn't look like she's quote

[12:12] unquote bending the knee. And um look,

[12:15] let's finally get into the whole do I

[12:18] accept this as an apology. So

[12:25] I'm a very forgiving person. I am like I

[12:28] I do believe in second chances. I

[12:30] believe that um if someone apologized to

[12:33] me, I would accept it. I've done it

[12:36] before. There's quite a few people that

[12:38] have outright hated me and have

[12:39] slandered me. They apologized to me and

[12:42] I let bygones be bygones. It's happened.

[12:44] And that was it. We never brought it up

[12:46] again. Simple.

[12:49] However, this situation is very

[12:50] troublesome for me. And the reason for

[12:52] that is because I was going to just be

[12:54] like, "I know you're not sincere, but

[12:57] let it go because of the private DM

[12:59] afterwards." But when I found out in the

[13:01] middle of this when this private DM was

[13:03] made prior to this or after this, she

[13:06] made those Discord messages basically

[13:09] saying that it wasn't for me, the

[13:10] apology or anything. It more or less is

[13:13] a statement that this is just all fake.

[13:15] Now, obviously it is, but yeah, come on.

[13:18] She only apologized because of just the

[13:20] overwhelming backlash that she has

[13:22] gotten in the last week. And so

[13:25] obviously the reason why it was made was

[13:27] because of the pressure. But she

[13:29] couldn't even say I'm sorry. She said my

[13:31] bad. She didn't apologize for the ped

[13:34] accusations, me being basically a rapist

[13:36] or anything like that, any of the

[13:38] slander. She just said my bad and all

[13:40] that. That's basically it. And in her

[13:42] public post that was multiple paragraphs

[13:44] by the way, she decided to throw shots

[13:46] at me, say I'm a piece of [ __ ] and

[13:48] everything else in between. So, uh, it's

[13:51] very clear there was no intent of

[13:53] apology. It's better than nothing. I I I

[13:57] like, okay, it's better than zero. She

[14:00] tried. Failed badly obviously, but she

[14:03] tried. And I I give

[14:07] some gratitude to some effort that was

[14:10] made on that. The problem though is that

[14:15] when you make this type of statement,

[14:17] you make that public statement and then

[14:18] you make the Discord statement, there is

[14:20] just multiple different masks on. It's

[14:24] not the same type of message you're

[14:26] conveying. And it leans more towards

[14:28] very disingenuous and insincere than

[14:31] anything else. And so I would have kept

[14:34] it as this, but thanks to her statements

[14:37] and quote unquote her own words as well,

[14:39] public discord,

[14:42] that's Yeah. So everybody should have

[14:44] seen that it wasn't a private

[14:45] conversation between a few people. It

[14:47] was a public discord that she was

[14:49] posting those thoughts. I don't know why

[14:51] she would do something like that so

[14:53] publicly when she's trying to

[14:55] potentially make peace with someone.

[14:56] That is not a very smart move. I'm going

[14:59] to be honest with you. So anyways, do I

[15:03] accept it?

[15:06] Look at the thumbnail.

[15:08] Um, no. I don't I don't accept the

[15:11] apology. If she would have said

[15:13] something like this,

[15:15] even I know that this isn't sincere,

[15:17] maybe I would have left it that.

[15:20] But everything else, no. Nah.

[15:26] Just say I'm sorry. It's it's it's that

[15:29] simple. It it's it's just it's two

[15:31] words. I'm sorry. I know it's so

[15:35] so hard to say because pride and ego is

[15:39] such a big thing especially for content

[15:41] creators. I know that. I know how the

[15:43] internet works. When you apologize,

[15:46] you get eaten alive. It's the truth. It

[15:48] It is. It is. It is the truth. Okay. I

[15:51] understand that. There's a reason why

[15:52] you just don't bend the knee. But there

[15:54] is also times where you have to be

[15:56] humble. And I have apologized for things

[15:59] I have done. I have. There is

[16:02] circumstances. Obviously, if she

[16:04] apologized to me, would that stop

[16:07] everything? No, it would. I'm not I'm

[16:09] not naive. I don't live in a fantasy

[16:11] land to say that she would still be

[16:14] getting attacked by people online. This

[16:16] this drama truthfully will follow her

[16:19] for the rest of her career. It's the

[16:20] truth. Just as how that everything with

[16:22] me with my personal stuff will follow me

[16:24] for the rest of my time online. what

[16:26] happened here, we'll follow her. That's

[16:28] just that's content creation. The

[16:30] internet will not let you forget. So

[16:32] even if she was to apologize to me,

[16:35] people that wouldn't be enough for them.

[16:37] Even if it was enough for me, it

[16:38] wouldn't be enough for them. But I will

[16:41] say if she genuinely does want to

[16:42] apologize, I will accept an actual

[16:45] apology instead of these backhanded back

[16:47] and forth things going on trying to

[16:49] label me a piece of a piece of [ __ ] just

[16:51] for being weird. It's just

[16:54] all this started from me calling you a

[16:55] virtue signaler. I would like to remind

[16:58] that. So anyways, I will leave it at

[17:01] that. I I don't feel like there's any

[17:03] more I could really comment on for the

[17:05] time being. I just uh

[17:10] dude,

[17:12] how do I have like this power to just

[17:15] get people to just selfdestruct, man?

[17:18] Like like I I I it feels like I have

[17:21] like an aura of aggro. Like I aggro

[17:23] people like like you are in a game like

[17:26] an MMO or something. Like I just I aggro

[17:28] people so effectively. Like I I'm I'm

[17:30] just a dude that post and I aggro people

[17:33] to such an a violent and extreme manner

[17:36] to where they just they slip like their

[17:38] their mask and everything just flies on

[17:40] off. And uh yeah, I just it's it's

[17:43] shocking, man. I I don't know how I do

[17:45] it. But uh I will leave it at that. This

[17:48] has been funny for the last few days.

[17:50] I'm not gonna lie. It's been pretty

[17:53] entertaining.

[17:54] But be safe. Stay stay healthy. I love

[17:57] you guys. She's