Don't Trust Anyone in the Market
45sDirectly challenges common advice and promotes self-reliance, sparking curiosity and debate.
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The video outlines five critical mistakes that lead to financial losses in the stock market, emphasizing the importance of self-reliance, disciplined trading, and emotional control. The speaker shares personal experiences and practical advice to help viewers avoid common pitfalls and build a sustainable trading approach.
The speaker advises viewers not to depend on any course, paid tips, or channel, including their own, and to grow individually. Trading is described as a journey, not a race, and success comes from recognizing mistakes and following important rules.
After analyzing hundreds of emails and subscriber feedback, the speaker identifies 30 common mistakes that fall into 5 broad categories. Avoiding these five key mistakes can significantly reduce the chances of exiting the market as a loser.
High expectations, fueled by social media success stories and promises of quick profits, lead to frustration and poor decisions. This often results in falling for scams like paid tips or account management schemes, which are described as big scams.
Trading without logic, based on fear and greed, is equivalent to gambling. The speaker guarantees that those who gamble will eventually exit the market. Trading should be treated as a business, with a clear plan and realistic return expectations.
Carrying losses as a burden impacts emotional state and future trading decisions. The speaker shares a personal story of losing money and emphasizes the importance of not letting losses affect the next day's trading. Losses should be accepted as part of the process.
The reality shown on social media is not the true reality; most traders show only profits. The speaker warns against trusting paid courses and tips, comparing it to thinking you can bat like Virat Kohli just because you have the same bat. Success takes time and practice.
The final mistake is not having a proper trading plan, including strategy, position sizing, and risk management. The speaker advises against averaging loss trades and emphasizes the importance of practicing and testing strategies before risking real capital.
The video concludes by reiterating the importance of self-reliance, avoiding high expectations, treating trading as a business, not carrying losses, and having a solid plan. The speaker encourages viewers to practice and learn from mistakes rather than blindly following others.
What are the five broad categories of mistakes that lead to losses in the stock market?
High expectations, gambling vs. trading, carrying losses, unrealistic market reality, and not having a plan.
02:19
What is the speaker's advice regarding courses and paid tips?
Don't depend on any course, paid tips, or channel; practice on your own and grow individually.
What is the difference between trading and gambling according to the speaker?
Trading is based on logic and a plan, while gambling is trading without logic, based on fear and greed.
07:09
Why is carrying losses as a burden harmful?
It impacts emotional state and future trading decisions, leading to attempts to recover losses that often result in further losses.
13:30
What does the speaker compare to thinking you can bat like Virat Kohli?
Believing that you will succeed in the stock market by taking paid courses and tips.
23:14
What is the speaker's advice on averaging loss trades?
Don't average loss trades; it won't work out.
28:28
Self-Reliance
Emphasizes the importance of independent learning and not depending on external sources.
Five Mistake Categories
Provides a clear framework for understanding common trading errors.
02:19Gambling vs. Trading
Highlights the critical distinction between logical trading and emotional gambling.
07:09Carrying Losses
Explains the psychological burden of losses and its impact on future decisions.
13:30Unrealistic Market Reality
Warns against trusting social media portrayals of trading success.
22:03[00:00] Don't believe anyone in the market. Practice on your own and try to survive on your own.
[00:12] Don't depend on any course, pay tips, channel, including our channel. Try to grow as your own, individually. Don't think of anyone as your master.
[00:26] And trading is not a race. Many people enter the stock market, trading is a journey.
[00:40] Some people lose money in the big picture. Those who are successful, don't think of them as smart, intelligent, and while entering they bring big money and survived.
[00:54] Don't think that they earn money in the stock market with a great strategy. Everyone's journey starts from zero in the stock market. Because the stock market didn't teach us by our elders.
[01:06] or if someone tells us, we thought that should grow it as an individual. Whereas, the big difference between those who are successful and those who are failures is,
[01:19] those who are successful should recognize their mistakes They followed the important rules and tried to survive in the stock market. and repeat the mistakes again and again.
[01:35] They should try to quit the stock market and taken it negatively. in our trading journey, we are not the only one started to say that they lost money because of this,
[01:49] and others started to say that they attended a course and another course and didn't succeed. So, the mistakes we made in our trading journey and the process of growth,
[02:04] along with these, the hundreds of mails we received and the subscribers who said that they are losing money because of these reasons, I came close to 30 mistakes.
[02:19] they are mostly coming down to 5 categories. But mostly, if you are able to avoid those 5 important mistakes,
[02:31] So, let's consider these 5 mistakes as a broad classification. then most of the chances of you exiting the stock market as a loser will be reduced.
[02:44] So, we don't need to make mistakes and lose money to grow in the stock market. If we can learn from other people's mistakes and experiences, So, we don't need to pass all our difficulties.
[02:57] if we can avoid and manage them carefully, then we will be able to step towards our success without losing the capital. Okay, before we start the video,
[03:13] then like the video and encourage the efforts we are making. if you find our efforts valuable at any point while watching the video,
[03:25] So that, this video can be a recommendation for other people and they can also help them without making mistakes and losing money in the stock market. We have a lot of stories about our studies, right?
[03:41] So, there are many stories like, if we don't have any regrets, then nothing will remain. there are many stories like these we get what is reality!
[03:56] by seeing on social media and thinking that you would be crorepati you will be profitable in 1 or 2 trades and other trades in loss
[04:10] if this happens and you p&l would be zero to slight negative, you will be frustrated thinking why can't I earn in stock market like them? then you will attend paid courses and take paid tips
[04:23] you can trade individually We will take commission from you and give you the return. you will trust them thinking that the capital is in your account
[04:41] You can't even see the people filing income tax by doing this. It is a big scam. A person calls you and says that you don't need to trade as long as you have capital.
[04:57] You will think that even if they withdraw money it will be credited to your account. You will give them your trading account, thinking that there is a low chance of cheating.
[05:10] There will be no buyers and sellers. They will calculate the amount of money in your account and sell multiple lots from their account.
[05:22] You will not see much trading activity in it. You will wait for the stock to grow or the Nifty to grow.
[05:34] Sometimes there will be profits and loss sometimes. They are not trading. We will see these things only when we have greed.
[05:47] Earn 1000 per day. These things will increase your hope and make you a loser. You will not spend more time to learn because of high expectations.
[06:02] the trades you take with the less patience, believing others by taking accounts from you. or by telling there will be everything if you take this course.
[06:15] Only high expectations, are used as business for other, but you won't gain a single from it. Keep the plan in mind.
[06:29] The person who comes to the stock market cannot earn money immediately. It will not happen immediately. Then you have to bring the capital to the market slowly.
[06:42] It will change into business to someone or else it will go to the stock market. If you think that you put money in market only after knowing the market.
[06:57] The rest of the people will have to sort out the emotional control and the imbalance in the strategy. So, always keep the expectations in control.
[07:09] Second thing is, are you gambling or trading? If you think that you are trading stocks and trading bank nifty or nifty If the market is open, you are buying or selling something,
[07:24] not knowing what to do, like trading without any logic. If you trade in fear and greed, particularly if you need a jackpot calls, hero or zero,
[07:40] If you wait for the message in the groups, The tips are also gambling. Because, in gambling, we understand what we are playing in.
[07:54] But, we don't know what we are doing and where to stop it. If you are gambling, I can guarantee 100%. there will be an exit from the market today or tomorrow.
[08:08] How do they feel or what will be their mindset? if you see it for excitement or rush, it's okay if you are free and don't know what to do.
[08:21] it's okay. Do you know how the theme is when you treat it like a business? How much return do you expect for that capital?
[08:34] Many people think that money is the only risk. They think that is the only risk. Our time is also a risk.
[08:47] I was in the zone from the end of my +2. I kept money in small portions in the stock market. and do trading again
[09:01] I have an account on my mother's name. But, I am about to finish my Form D.
[09:13] I didn't think that the stock market was a full-time profession. UPSC was a high level for me. Somewhere around, I got confidence in the stock market.
[09:29] If we can invest some time in it, We have very less capital. But, we can generate that capital.
[09:41] We gave a particular time for that. How much time we are spending. Not only that,
[09:55] This time, We should start trading with a good discipline. and if we are successful in it,
[10:09] Because, if we are not successful in it, If we understand that we don't have the capability to earn, There are days when we are profitable for 1 month or 2 months.
[10:21] Can we generate return on capital for the whole year? If we don't get the capital, How much time should we be there?
[10:36] When we start thinking about our time risk, So, when we enter into trading as a business, working professionals,
[10:51] by staying at home, How much return you are expect? How much return do you expect?
[11:04] You are okay with it. or any impact on their future goals. That's it. Keep a limit there.
[11:16] but we damage lives of our family members also. Because, ultimately, we can't sit for 6-7 years If you sit dedicatedly,
[11:31] to bring all the strategies in the market into a line, I will give you links on what you should learn
[11:43] I will definitely do option buying. Even if I think I will be with logic, Because, friends,
[11:56] When we had less capital, we did option buying. from the beginning of 1 lakh or 2 lakhs of capital. if you ask me,
[12:09] Those who have less capital, But, those who have crores of capital, Because, it is good to do 10 lots.
[12:22] you can't do 20-30 thousand lots of option buying. Or, there will be a breakout. We can't do that many lots there also.
[12:38] if the market goes no where, So, for buying, those who have small capital, But, those who have big capital,
[12:50] When you have big capital, you can see less profits If you expect less return than 5%,
[13:03] Compounding is more. yearly it will be more. it is still conservative.
[13:17] remember that. If you want to survive in trading, Be like a business person.
[13:30] Because, ultimately, Not to get excited. How much money we are bringing,
[13:42] How much time we want to spend. the person who goes, thinks the same. he will think the same.
[13:55] is to carry loss in the heart. I have learned this topic from my brother I have learned this topic many times.
[14:08] I don't feel shy to reduce myself. this one part has been if we take it as a burden in the mind
[14:22] than the way it should go. I want to ask you a question. at the end of that day,
[14:35] Or do you leave that loss there will be days when profit comes. do you leave it to focus on the process?
[14:48] Yes, I am a person who feels sad. it impacts me emotionally, or I am an emotional loss.
[15:01] if you think loss will not impact you, will impact people emotionally. earned money,
[15:14] every rupee went into the stock market. 1 month money earned by giving tuitions, before that it is my mother's money
[15:28] I get scared even if I take another trade. I do the same process again. and do 1 or 2 trades.
[15:41] I don't mean that I traded aggressively. I don't think about taking all the capital, There are many people who do that.
[15:55] it shouldn't impact on the stock market. it should work for analysis, shouldn't take the loss that comes on that day
[16:10] Because the isn't 3:30 yet. because he'll recover the loss. Thinking that he lost the lost money,
[16:24] He'll think about how to recover it. and the return he has to earn. Even if someone agrees or not,
[16:37] You don't need to think about the money you have. I lost 20,000 in 1 lakh. I should bring back 20,000 from 80,000.
[16:50] I lost 20,000 on that day. I should recover the lost 20,000, 20,000 i.e; 40,000 on 60,000. The loss is like a burden to us.
[17:05] If you see it in the reality, the money we lost is not ours. Keep that in mind.
[17:17] You have 1 lakh. You shouldn't think of risking that 1 lakh. you'll feel more comfortable taking risks.
[17:29] Let's say I earn 10 lakhs. I'll have 1-2 lakhs to plan a big trade. I'll follow my back theme and earn the rest.
[17:44] we shouldn't think to recover the loss we have. Ultimately, you won't recover. Even the strategy that works,
[17:59] You'll think that you lost if that much You'll think that 2000 you earned will go to 4000-5000-6000. So, carrying the loss is not correct.
[18:13] it'll impact the next day's trading. If you started with 1 lakh, If you stopped after you earned 10,000,
[18:29] you'll lose 10,000 in the first trade. Don't you think you should recover the 10,000 in the next trade? Or do you think you should recover the 10,000?
[18:41] then remove it from your mind. I learned it from my brother. He didn't take any classes on how to behave.
[18:53] He is like that, why can't I be like him. I should connect to the process, But we shouldn't keep it in our mind.
[19:06] We should accept the process and loss. We should be balanced. We should risk our capital for trade or strategy.
[19:20] We shouldn't think about loss or profit. I'm telling you what I thought. we shouldn't give credit to our strategy.
[19:36] But you came to this stage. No matter what religion you're in. That's why I'm in this stage.
[19:49] I'm not like that. I've been doing it for the past 10 days. Why did I earn the money? Because market is convenient to me today.
[20:02] I used to think that So, what does the market do? Will you keep that in mind and lose your capital?
[20:16] money management, position size, I'll keep writing that exam. But ultimately,
[20:29] When money goes, I'll blame them for that. I've been doing the system that worked for me.
[20:43] or when there's a loss due to an event, if we take the fault of the entire system, if we try to recover capital,
[20:55] we don't apply logic there, since we went with the emotion. It's not ours. Yes,
[21:08] Whether you pass or fail, when profits come, When there's a loss,
[21:22] This is the reality of the stock market. you might face a big loss. The market will give an exam from time to time.
[21:35] how much you earned is the matter. If you do paper trade, There will be days when you'll face a profit.
[21:47] You won't be scared even when you're trading. there won't be any depression or pressure. position sizing and money management properly.
[22:03] Don't carry the loss like a burden. Fourth, the reality you're seeing in the stock market is not the reality.
[22:18] all are profits. No matter which trader, There are words that motivate you.
[22:32] you can do that. Most of the time, The luxury things you see on social media are traps.
[22:45] There are hundreds of people there. Among all the people who talked, If you take their feedback and trust them,
[23:01] they're growing. in the paid course and paid tips you'll succeed.
[23:14] I'm playing with this bat, I'll touch the ball and it'll go. But how can we think that we will bring that bat and play?
[23:27] Virat Kohli as a bat. a software, They're marketing it.
[23:40] in the stock market, sophisticated and complex things. at any point,
[23:52] we followed the option selling. you should give a lot of screen time. We can keep some capital.
[24:05] rather than buying the call, a big put, if we sell the opposite,
[24:18] we can manage a little bit of the opposite. we can sell in one direction. Why did we buy?
[24:30] We should know in that day itself mostly. it's difficult. price action,
[24:43] and even if we think of it as a possible option selling, there is no logic in buying number of lots(option buying). we think what we see is the truth,
[24:57] It takes time for everything. Like we have many degrees like engineering, medicine, How much time does it take to get a job after studying those degrees?
[25:10] At least it takes that much time. not to earn money in the stock market, by seeing someone and bring your money,
[25:24] It won't work in the sense, So I told you in the beginning, develop a strategy,
[25:36] how much quantity you have to do for the capital you have, How much you are ready to lose in the trade you are doing. that particular trade,
[25:50] the next journey you take. I am telling you agin, following blindly that someone told me in a course, they will pump you when they bring you.
[26:03] you have to refer it to others, through which you will get a, you have confidence that you will rock.
[26:15] position sizing, No strategy, money management,
[26:27] These will take you forward. Listen to them. it's not a big deal to go for 20-30 thousand courses,
[26:40] If you want to spend money, I'm not saying you can't go. even those who earn money,
[26:54] they openly say that they earn through logic. you can practice it and test it, The money you spend on courses,
[27:08] practice it, and when you realise that it is working and use it as testing capital. I can confidently say that,
[27:20] We have a playlist of all those. If you want to see the equity series, The strategy you like,
[27:34] I'm giving it in the comment section. when you see it is working then put the money you thought you would pay to courses and tips in the market, and practice it with this money
[27:46] put that money to train yourself. Don't spend it on someone else business. don't blindly believe in them, take risk management, Follow these and at least you will survive in the market.
[28:01] I'll tell you in detail. it's a big topic. Try to understand.
[28:14] our strategy is not always wrong. The market means it will be volatile somedays. write them and be cool and don't take it in your mind.
[28:28] Don't average the loss trades. Average the loss trades by proving that you are doing wrong. Believe me, it won't work out.
[28:43] Don't believe me either. Stop believing someone and listen to what they say. Practice on your own and see how you survive on your own.
[28:55] Don't depend on any course, paid tips, channel, including our channel. Try to grow on your own. Don't think of anyone as your master.
[29:09] everyone has taken content from a website or a platform. I know there is no such content in paid courses and tips.
[29:23] Try to survive on your own. Don't be excited and say, I won. Avoid the loss that comes in a day or two.
[29:40] Avoid those who excite you by showing screenshots. Again, trading is not a race or gambling. To get excited after a few days of profit,
[29:53] you should maintain proper clarity on risk, reward, and capital. If you find this video helpful, don't forget to like and share it.
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