Why You Tilt in League (and How to Stop)
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▶ Play ClipTilt in competitive gaming stems from mismatched expectations and understanding. This video explains the psychological causes of tilt and provides actionable strategies to manage it, including goal-setting, self-care, and pre-game rituals, to improve performance and enjoyment.
Almost every client has struggled with tilt, which hinders improvement.
Tilt occurs when actual understanding doesn't match perceived level, leading to frustration.
Players often overestimate their skill after initial success, then get frustrated when results don't match expectations.
A player with 3,400 games and barely 50% win rate shows how tilt leads to stagnation.
Growth mindset believes skills can be developed; fixed mindset sees them as static. Growth mindset is key to improvement.
Vague goals like 'get better' lead to no direction. Specific goals (e.g., 'draw a red rose in MS Paint') reduce variation and frustration.
Expecting immediate mastery after learning a concept causes tilt. Break improvement into manageable steps.
Expecting Michelin-star food but getting McDonald's causes disappointment, even if McDonald's is good. Adjust expectations to reality.
Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant, Time-bound goals help focus improvement.
Rank is an outcome; focus on controllable actions like CS practice, warding, or games played per week.
Three broad types: anxious, tilted, and spammer. Each has strengths and weaknesses; understand yours.
Physical needs (food, water, sleep, exercise) directly affect performance. Be aware of your state.
A consistent pre-game routine (exercise, planning, hydration) sets a positive mindset and reduces stress.
Set manageable goals (e.g., 4 games/week) and gradually increase to build lasting habits.
Higher-ranked players automate skills, freeing mental RAM for complex decisions. Frontload decisions to reduce stress.
Tilt is manageable by aligning expectations with reality, focusing on process goals, and taking care of your physical and mental state. Your rank does not define your worth; enjoy the game.
"Title accurately reflects content: explains why tilt happens and offers practical solutions."
What are the two main causes of tilt according to the video?
Mismatched levels of understanding and the Dunning-Kruger effect.
00:28
What is the Dunning-Kruger effect in gaming?
Players overestimate their skill after initial success, then get frustrated when results don't match expectations.
01:53
What is the difference between growth mindset and fixed mindset?
Growth mindset believes abilities can be developed; fixed mindset believes they are static.
06:10
What does SMART stand for in goal setting?
Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant, Time-bound.
12:22
Why are process goals better than outcome goals for improvement?
Process goals are within your control (e.g., number of games), while outcome goals (rank) depend on external factors.
14:14
What are the three player types mentioned?
Anxious, tilted, and spammer.
17:46
What is the recommended first step in creating a pre-ranked ritual?
Light exercise to wake up and get blood flowing.
21:42
How should you start building a new habit according to the video?
Start small: cut initial goal by 20% and gradually increase.
24:39
What is mental bandwidth in gaming?
The cognitive capacity available for decision-making; higher-ranked players automate skills to free up bandwidth.
25:41
What should you do to reduce stress before a game?
Frontload decisions: assess team comps, predict enemy habits, plan build path.
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Mismatched understanding causes tilt
Identifies a core psychological mechanism behind tilt that many players overlook.
00:28Dunning-Kruger effect in gaming
Explains why players often overestimate their skill after initial success, leading to frustration.
01:53Growth vs fixed mindset
Fundamental mindset shift that unlocks improvement potential.
06:10Process over outcome goals
Actionable advice to focus on controllable actions rather than rank, reducing tilt.
14:14Pre-ranked ritual
Provides a concrete, repeatable routine to set a positive mindset and reduce stress.
21:42[00:00] tilt is a weird thing after all it's
[00:01] just a game why do you have to be mad
[00:03] but sometimes it feels like everyone is
[00:05] mad all the time almost every client out
[00:08] of the hundreds I've worked with have
[00:09] struggled with tilt in their games and
[00:11] it has stopped them improving as fast as
[00:12] they should be so today I'm going to be
[00:13] breaking down why people tilt how to
[00:15] start improving regardless of what game
[00:17] you play or your goals and if you stick
[00:19] around to the end I'll share with you my
[00:20] own specific routine that I use to stay
[00:22] locked in and focused when I grind we're
[00:24] going to keep this a little more
[00:24] conversational today lecture style-ish
[00:27] so let's talk about tilt before we get
[00:29] started we kind of have to talk about
[00:30] what causes tilt cuz if we don't
[00:32] understand our enemy you know how are we
[00:33] going to defeat it so I like to start by
[00:35] thinking of what causing tilt what
[00:38] causes tilt um in in two different ways
[00:40] way number one is when our actual level
[00:43] of understanding doesn't line up to
[00:45] where it needs to be so when we learn a
[00:47] topic or we hear about a topic like
[00:48] let's say you've been on YouTube or
[00:49] Twitter before unfortunately and you've
[00:51] heard about like freezing waves or
[00:53] you've heard about uh rotating you've
[00:55] heard about you know stutter stepping or
[00:57] shoulder peaking and valerant something
[00:59] like that you might have heard these
[01:00] words or these terms hundreds or
[01:02] thousands of times but what level of
[01:04] understanding are you really at here are
[01:05] you obviously remembering what the words
[01:07] are and maybe even understanding what
[01:09] they are but can you reliably apply
[01:11] these in your games can you analyze each
[01:13] part of this concept so you can improve
[01:15] at it and can you like evaluate was this
[01:18] even a good idea to do in the first
[01:19] place or you just blanketly applying it
[01:21] to every situation and maybe getting
[01:22] middling results this is a big problem
[01:24] I've seen now that the player base and
[01:26] information regarding Improvement has
[01:27] become so readily available every player
[01:30] I know has heard about slow pushing away
[01:31] or freezing where maybe 10 years ago
[01:33] when I started playing the game um no
[01:35] one knew what the heck they were doing
[01:37] so in my opinion this is one of the
[01:38] things that causes tilt is mismatched
[01:41] levels of understanding a lot of people
[01:42] are actually at these first two maybe
[01:45] three levels of understanding like they
[01:46] know it they understand it they can
[01:47] apply it sometimes but they mistakenly
[01:49] think they're somewhere up here at the
[01:50] evaluation or even creating level
[01:52] another part of this is something some
[01:53] of you might have heard before called
[01:54] The Dun and Krueger effect this happens
[01:57] where you learn a new concept or maybe
[01:59] you play something and you see uh an
[02:02] initial peak of success this is like
[02:04] okay I know how to freeze a lane and
[02:05] maybe you'll play a couple games of solo
[02:07] you'll freeze a lane and you'll get some
[02:08] really good immediate results and these
[02:10] results may or may not be correct but
[02:13] maybe these results have other factors
[02:14] like you could have just gotten lucky
[02:16] these are games or scenarios where
[02:17] freezing was the best option but because
[02:19] you're lacking those levels of
[02:20] understanding and evaluating you apply
[02:22] this to a wider sample of games and you
[02:24] realize oh wait there's so much more
[02:26] that I know or that I need to know
[02:28] before I really am actually good at this
[02:30] and the problem is a lot of people get
[02:31] to hear they're like oh I fully mastered
[02:33] this concept I know everything about
[02:34] freezing I know everything about slow
[02:36] pushing I know everything about trading
[02:37] everything about Landing everything
[02:38] about jungling and then they realize or
[02:40] they should realize that oh hey even the
[02:42] best players in the world are somewhere
[02:44] somewhere in here where okay they've
[02:46] acknowledged that they have some level
[02:48] of understanding of the game but their
[02:49] confidence is always like hey I have
[02:51] something more to learn here and I'm
[02:54] sure you'll see this on Reddit if you've
[02:55] ever been on here apparently everyone on
[02:56] Reddit is Challenger and everyone on
[02:58] Reddit is better than even like the
[03:00] world's finalists every single year
[03:01] without fail it's kind of crazy but the
[03:03] confidence Gap so these are two
[03:05] backgrounds or back bones of tilt or the
[03:07] mechanisms behind why tilt happens now
[03:09] let's talk about what that looks like in
[03:11] your games these are screenshots
[03:13] unfortunately I know avert your eyes
[03:14] from two different real people's op.
[03:18] GS um I did the math this is around
[03:21] 1,700 wins and 1,700 losses so this
[03:25] person played 3,000 plus solo Q games
[03:27] with barely over a 50% win right the
[03:30] amount of time it would take to do that
[03:31] is just staggering and because of this
[03:34] they are not climbing an ELO two seasons
[03:37] thousands of games it's borderline on
[03:39] wasted time you can play hundreds or
[03:40] thousands of games per season and not
[03:42] see any meaningful Improvement due to
[03:43] tilt or those mismanaged expectations or
[03:45] the mismatched understanding and it's
[03:47] not because players like this are
[03:48] playing to lose or to waste their time I
[03:51] think a lot of people are just stuck in
[03:52] a cycle and it's hard to get out of that
[03:54] cycle without some uh outward influence
[03:57] and I do want to say I I have this note
[03:59] here but if your goal is to just play
[04:00] the game in your spare time and have fun
[04:02] you know maybe you casually play a
[04:03] couple rank games a week or maybe you're
[04:05] an Aram only or a norm only or a
[04:06] quickplay only player that's totally
[04:08] fine this video is maybe actually for
[04:11] you but not in the sense that it's going
[04:13] to help you climb but it's going to help
[04:14] you have a more enjoyable experience
[04:16] with the game because like I said at the
[04:18] beginning it's a game you're supposed to
[04:19] have fun and even if you're losing or
[04:21] winning or playing to blcs or L sorry
[04:24] LTA Champions now um it's all about
[04:27] having fun that was a little bit long
[04:28] for an intro but I want want everyone
[04:30] here to be able to understand the
[04:31] importance of mindset the methodology
[04:33] behind Improvement help you develop some
[04:36] confidence and be less anxious in your
[04:37] gaml and then minimize tilt to help you
[04:39] avoid lost streaks and find more
[04:41] efficient Improvement because we don't
[04:42] all have a lot of time in our days so
[04:44] about me just real real quick who am I
[04:46] I'm Bach I'm 30 years old I'm 8,000
[04:49] years old I am an anthropologist I was
[04:50] previously with Cloud9 where I helped
[04:52] run their training grounds program I Was
[04:53] A League of Legends coach there as well
[04:55] I coached for Flame Hard a team in EU
[04:57] where I won an erl and then promote them
[05:00] to the next division up and recently
[05:01] with Supernova where that was a North
[05:03] American team that I helped develop some
[05:04] Talent who hopefully is going to go on
[05:06] to big and better things someday but I
[05:09] also have experienced with many games as
[05:10] you can see old valerant stop 100 pubg
[05:13] you know all these fun little things
[05:14] that I do uh coached worldwide traveled
[05:17] worldwide I love helping people from
[05:18] around the world you know part of my
[05:20] background of of anthropology just a
[05:21] little bit about me and my perspective
[05:23] to maybe set the stage a little bit so
[05:25] why should you care or why you should
[05:27] care honestly and this is kind of why I
[05:29] care because I'm 30 I'm ancient now um
[05:32] maybe I'm having my quarter life or
[05:33] third of life crisis here and I'm
[05:35] thinking man this graph on the right is
[05:38] how many weeks you have to live each dot
[05:42] is a week and here I am 30 almost 30 and
[05:44] a half years old and that that chart's
[05:47] looking a little too full for my liking
[05:48] I don't know how many seasons of League
[05:50] of Legends I have to play 3,400 games
[05:52] left in me you know that's a lot of dots
[05:54] filled up I want to make the most of my
[05:56] time and whether you're you know 15 20
[05:58] or 25 or older than me I think it's
[06:00] valuable to get the most out of your
[06:02] time or at least enjoy doing it so
[06:04] that's why I care and I think that's why
[06:05] you should care as well enough preaching
[06:06] let's go on let's talk a little bit more
[06:07] about it section one mentality and goals
[06:10] maybe you've heard this before but or
[06:12] there's like a dichotomy that you have
[06:13] to worry about here one is the growth
[06:14] mindset the other is the fixed mindset
[06:17] and if we talk about what that might be
[06:18] maybe you've heard these words before
[06:20] but let's break them down a little bit
[06:21] so growth mindset is the idea that
[06:23] abilities and skills can be developed
[06:25] through dedication effort and learning
[06:27] and a fixed mindset is just the belief
[06:29] that ability are fixed traits that can't
[06:30] be improved and you might be saying
[06:32] boach like obviously I like I have a
[06:34] growth mindset I know like I I've gotten
[06:36] better I've climbed but sometimes I feel
[06:39] like people get lost in the plot of what
[06:41] that actually means like it's so obvious
[06:43] that if we can get to the point where
[06:45] we're like little fetus babies crawling
[06:47] around on the ground unable to speak to
[06:49] these fully functioning adults we've had
[06:50] to learn all of these things
[06:51] conversational skills handwriting you
[06:53] know um math that's it actually that's
[06:56] all we learn how to breathe you know or
[06:58] how to run how to how to work out how to
[07:01] live our lives if we can learn all these
[07:02] super complicated and intricate tasks of
[07:05] course we can get better at a video game
[07:07] especially with all these resources that
[07:08] are out there all these free cool
[07:09] resources but sometimes people fall into
[07:11] this fixed mindset where they feel like
[07:13] man I've been silver for a couple of
[07:14] years now and I'm just not getting
[07:16] better maybe I'm only meant to be silver
[07:18] the step one the first step you have to
[07:21] understand is growth mindset is going to
[07:23] be your key it's not going to solve all
[07:25] your problems but it needs to be step
[07:27] one where it unlocks the idea in your
[07:28] mind that you can improve CU it's so
[07:30] easy to throw yourself a pity party and
[07:32] whine and cry on Twitter and Reddit and
[07:33] all these websites like well I'm stuck
[07:35] my teammates suck yeah if you want to be
[07:38] a professional victim then great if you
[07:40] need people to validate that yes people
[07:42] in your ELO suck that's fine but don't
[07:43] let it come in the way of you and your
[07:45] improvement so I always do this exercise
[07:47] with uh new students or new teams when
[07:49] we talk about Improvement because
[07:51] Improvement this all ties into tilts and
[07:54] um expectations so just bear with me but
[07:56] I'll sit down with the player and I'll
[07:57] ask them draw me something
[08:00] and that's all I'll tell them and when I
[08:02] tell them draw me something sometimes
[08:04] they'll draw me a little smiley face in
[08:05] the air if we're in person sometimes
[08:07] they'll draw me like a stick figure
[08:10] sometimes they'll not even know what to
[08:11] do and I think that's the point I'm
[08:12] trying to illustrate here when we start
[08:14] with an idea in our mind that is so
[08:16] vague and so nebulous that it has no
[08:18] direction this is the same thing as
[08:19] saying I want to get better at League of
[08:21] Legends you have no direction it's like
[08:23] a feeling it's a there's no substance to
[08:26] it so how do we like how do we do this
[08:27] how do we make it better What if I told
[08:29] you draw me something in Microsoft Paint
[08:32] we've added a medium to it okay so at
[08:33] least maybe everyone will give me
[08:35] something in a mess paint now if I say
[08:36] draw me a flower okay that's even more
[08:38] specific maybe we get some different
[08:39] types of flowers maybe I say draw me a
[08:42] red rose or a red rose with a green stem
[08:44] in Ms paint now all of a sudden if I ask
[08:46] 100 people to do this sure there's going
[08:47] to be a little bit of variation but
[08:50] comparing the results of 100 people from
[08:51] this level to even this level or even
[08:54] this level you're going to see so much
[08:57] less variation and this is also where
[08:59] that tilt and managing expectations
[09:01] comes from so keep this in your mind as
[09:03] we go into the next
[09:04] section the important thing when we're
[09:06] looking at Improvement is be as specific
[09:09] as possible this is a concept called
[09:10] managing expectations if we look at back
[09:13] at this last example I told you holding
[09:14] your mind you didn't have to hold in
[09:15] your mind for very long did you but if I
[09:17] ask a newbie someone who's never drawn
[09:19] before maybe they don't have a tablet
[09:20] maybe they've never even touched a pen
[09:21] or don't even know what Microsoft Paint
[09:24] is to draw a flower I highly doubt
[09:26] they're going to be able to replicate
[09:27] like something on the right here their
[09:28] first try very very very very high
[09:30] chance that that is not the case it
[09:31] would be something like this but maybe
[09:33] you've watched a video on YouTube and
[09:35] you said wow the guy on YouTube coach
[09:37] Rog coach Curtis coach cup KCK Coach B
[09:39] or whatever these thousands of other
[09:41] good coaches out here have made this
[09:43] concept see incredibly easy and then now
[09:45] I try and played in my game for the
[09:46] first time ever and I'm expecting it to
[09:48] turn out like this but it looks kind of
[09:50] like this and now I'm angry now I'm
[09:52] frustrated well why why would you expect
[09:55] someone with the skill of the artist in
[09:56] the first picture to immediately be
[09:58] capable of producing art in the second
[10:00] picture well that's because we need to
[10:02] manage our expectations so it is good
[10:04] that we're getting specific and it is
[10:06] good that we've set like clear goals or
[10:07] we know what we're practicing but with
[10:09] all things there's time there's
[10:10] repetition you got to get the Reps in
[10:12] and there's also maybe underlying things
[10:14] that are kind of clogging up the way
[10:15] that we're going to talk about more here
[10:16] too another experiment I like to do
[10:18] imagine you're at like a hot date it's
[10:20] like a black tii event there's a $200
[10:22] entry fee this is going to be really
[10:24] good food maybe World Star World not
[10:26] World Star Hip-Hop but like world class
[10:28] Michelin star food here you show up at
[10:30] this restaurant you're looking snazzy
[10:32] you're ready to eat some
[10:33] amazing God like damn this is good food
[10:37] and they come out and they bring you
[10:39] McDonald's are you really going to be
[10:40] upset though like McDonald's is pretty
[10:42] good right McDonald's is great but wait
[10:45] hold
[10:46] up both things can be true if you come
[10:49] in to an event expecting one thing and
[10:52] they serve you another thing even if
[10:53] that thing is good you're still going to
[10:55] be upset because you your expectations
[10:57] are not matching reality this can be the
[10:59] same thing um you go into solo queue and
[11:02] you think wow I'm gonna have the best
[11:04] teammates in the world I'm gonna be this
[11:05] session is going to be great because I'm
[11:06] GNA win all my games I'm going to get so
[11:08] much better I'm going to find so much
[11:09] value here and then you get a couple
[11:11] games where you get fed which is still
[11:13] good but then some people on your team
[11:14] are inting is your whole night ruined or
[11:17] do you need to adjust your expectations
[11:19] and say hey I'm here not for the black
[11:22] tii event I'm not here for the hot date
[11:25] I'm here to eat some food and as long as
[11:26] that food is good that's all that I care
[11:28] because that's the only only thing that
[11:29] I came here for I'm not letting my
[11:31] expectations get in the way of me
[11:33] enjoying my evening or my experience
[11:35] with the game once we do that now going
[11:38] from step one to three or step from this
[11:40] first image to the final product looks a
[11:41] lot more manageable we can break up our
[11:44] Improvement into chunks here and say
[11:46] okay maybe step one to three is not
[11:48] realistic but step one to step two this
[11:50] is looking much more manageable or maybe
[11:52] you break it down even more there's
[11:53] something in between one and two in this
[11:54] in this instance and then looking at
[11:56] number two okay man it's still a ways to
[11:58] go to number three but it's looking a
[12:00] lot more manageable now and we're not
[12:03] thinking that we can immediately
[12:04] replicate things that we've seen online
[12:06] or concepts that we kind of understand
[12:09] one to one with professional players
[12:10] immediately so how do we not do this how
[12:12] do we like avoid um like scenarios where
[12:14] this happens or for anybody who's
[12:16] watched some of my other videos you
[12:18] might might have heard me talk about
[12:19] goal setting so we're going to get into
[12:20] that but how do we not do this so step
[12:22] one and I think this is the most common
[12:24] way is by setting a smart goal and a
[12:27] smart goal here is something that is
[12:29] specific measurable achievable relevant
[12:33] and time bound if you need a second to
[12:35] read these like little bullet points
[12:37] here please pause and take your time to
[12:39] do so I don't want to go through it
[12:41] because it's a PowerPoint you can just
[12:42] pause the video true but specific
[12:44] measurable achievable relevant and time
[12:47] bound so how do we set a goal oh that
[12:49] T's out of the box let's pretend that
[12:50] isn't like that okay that'll be our
[12:51] little secret like Bob Ross putting
[12:53] little Happy Trees everywhere right so
[12:55] if I were to set a goal a smart goal in
[12:58] relating to League of Legends the
[12:59] specificity here would be to achieve
[13:01] Emerald 4 before the end of the rank
[13:03] split that's very specific right Emerald
[13:04] 4 very like that's a rank in the game
[13:06] I'm not just saying getting better it's
[13:07] measurable it's quantitative because I
[13:09] can measure the increase in LP
[13:11] day-to-day or week to week and it's
[13:13] achievable um I think plat to Emerald
[13:15] pretty chill not super unreasonable it's
[13:17] an achievable goal relevant the player
[13:20] enjoys playing League of Legends and
[13:21] already plays several ranked games per
[13:23] week and has few other commitments so
[13:25] it's not like they're going to school
[13:26] full-time for their master's program and
[13:29] they're working through a messy divorce
[13:30] or something they have time to play
[13:33] League of Legends and there's no other
[13:34] things that that are in their life that
[13:35] are demanding attention and lastly it's
[13:37] time bound so we talked about before the
[13:39] end of the rank split that's one aspect
[13:41] of being time bound but every week the
[13:43] player will assess their gains or losses
[13:44] to track their progress and that hard
[13:47] cut off means that hey if the end of the
[13:49] season happens I think it's not November
[13:51] this year because they uh made it uh the
[13:52] three splits again I I forgot I need to
[13:54] adjust that pretend that says December
[13:56] well that's like once that happens you
[13:58] either did it or don't right so what's
[14:00] the problem with this what could be
[14:01] improved on for anybody who said ranked
[14:04] based goals are not optimal for growth
[14:06] why I think everybody almost everybody
[14:07] I've talked to or coached has always
[14:09] said man I really want to get to this
[14:11] rank why is that maybe not optimal for
[14:14] growth well it's because your rank is
[14:16] not really something you have direct
[14:17] control over obviously there's a
[14:19] correlation between skill and rank but
[14:21] the rank is not the cause of your skill
[14:23] it is the effect so in my opinion as a
[14:25] coach your goal should then be directly
[14:27] related to things you do control so
[14:29] examples of good goals might be a number
[14:32] of games played per day or per week or
[14:34] per month on a certain Champion or role
[14:36] that you're trying to improve on or rep
[14:38] spent in practice tool for 1 V ones to
[14:40] refine matchups practicing csing uh for
[14:43] certain minutes in practice tool
[14:45] crashing like C like uh certain set
[14:47] plays like crashing at wave three or
[14:48] four and resetting for a cheater every
[14:50] game regardless of it's good or not
[14:51] you're refining that specific skill
[14:53] placing x amount of wards per game
[14:55] obviously this one's a little bit more
[14:56] contentious here but if your goal is to
[14:58] work on improving your vision then
[15:00] actively focusing on placing more vision
[15:02] is going to help a little bit and um
[15:05] this one's probably like the most
[15:06] contentious but I think it can help
[15:07] depending on what your goal is right the
[15:09] or like what's your like what you
[15:11] struggle with if you're a player who
[15:12] always coin flips your early Lane
[15:14] intentionally playing to not die in Lane
[15:16] might mean that you're playing a little
[15:17] bit too passively but that might be
[15:19] exactly what you need as a specific
[15:21] player to find Improvement in your games
[15:24] all of these are things directly within
[15:25] your control like if the jungler solo
[15:28] like Tower Dives you with the mid laner
[15:29] and the top laner at 7 Minutes well
[15:32] that's not really your fault so you're
[15:33] not really or it's not really like as
[15:35] much of your fault here right and
[15:37] crashing and practicing CS or taking 1 V
[15:40] ones with your friends or rep rep spent
[15:42] and practice tool or playing a certain
[15:44] number of games per day or per week or
[15:45] per month all of these things are things
[15:46] that you can directly control and the
[15:48] best part is when you do practice on a
[15:52] certain task what happens is all these
[15:54] like little
[15:56] tasks all come together
[16:01] to reflect your actual skill at the game
[16:04] and okay if you get a little bit better
[16:05] at csing you're not instantly going to
[16:07] go from bronze to Diamond but if you get
[16:09] a little bit of better csing and you
[16:10] stop dying so much and your warding gets
[16:12] a little bit better and now you
[16:14] understand your matchups because you
[16:15] practicing certain matchups in you know
[16:17] customs with your friends well now all
[16:18] of a sudden you are going to get better
[16:20] and when you get better you are
[16:21] naturally going to win more games over a
[16:23] larger sample size but because we're not
[16:25] focusing on winning or losing the game
[16:27] we're not getting discouraged a loss in
[16:28] the game doesn't mean that we failed in
[16:30] any of these goals it's just the outcome
[16:33] and we don't care about the outcome as
[16:34] much because we're focusing on our own
[16:36] goals that we have control over if I
[16:38] were to ask you that same question to
[16:39] draw me a red rose in Ms paint what it
[16:41] would look like broken down is okay well
[16:43] you would draw like the stem and then
[16:45] look what are the aspects of drying a
[16:46] stem you have things like line thickness
[16:48] okay now the petals and you have to work
[16:49] on like a skill like color blending and
[16:51] the leaves maybe you have to work at
[16:52] like the angle of lighting and shading
[16:54] and this would compare to League of
[16:56] Legends where all right I want to reach
[16:57] emerald in League of Legends that can be
[16:58] like the ideal that you're working
[17:00] towards but there's different aspects of
[17:01] the game I mentioned okay well I want to
[17:03] improve on my early game okay I want to
[17:04] work on csing in lane or trading or you
[17:07] know making sure I'm taking the right
[17:08] runes or masteries all right cool I've
[17:10] kind of felt like I've gotten a little
[17:11] bit better on that let's tidy up my mid
[17:13] game through these very specific things
[17:15] fighting when I have a power Spike okay
[17:17] I'm Ezreal I have my Triforce I'm now
[17:19] looking to take active fights where
[17:20] before maybe I wasn't as much csing
[17:23] still like it's a big part of the entire
[17:25] game um but broken up into different s
[17:29] just getting better at one or two of
[17:31] them per stage of the game is going to
[17:33] like return massive dividends in your
[17:34] overall skill and show in your rank
[17:36] climb reducing your tilt that's the key
[17:39] here is these are all ways or aspects of
[17:41] your mental or how you approach
[17:43] Improvement that are going to reduce
[17:44] your tilt so how do we avoid it like
[17:46] what are some more ways to avoid tilt I
[17:48] think it's helpful to kind of think of
[17:50] what type of player you are and
[17:52] obviously these are three very broad
[17:54] buckets I'm not going to sit here and
[17:56] say like oh you are definitely 100% this
[17:58] one one player and you are definitely
[18:00] 150% this one player everybody has a mix
[18:03] of all three in my opinion but which one
[18:06] do you most identify with and if you
[18:08] allow me to be vulnerable for a second
[18:10] um I very much identify with somebody
[18:12] who has ranked anxiety I'm a very
[18:14] anxious person uh my girlfriend likes to
[18:16] refer to me as the most extroverted
[18:18] introvert she's ever met and I struggle
[18:20] a lot with stress so it's really hard
[18:22] for me sometimes to hit the play button
[18:24] and um when I am stressed sometimes I
[18:27] feel like I'm not able able to perform
[18:28] at my best but for every downside there
[18:32] is an upside I also tend to just really
[18:34] hyper analyze all my own mistakes and I
[18:37] go back over my footage I'm like okay I
[18:39] need to play that better I need to do
[18:40] this better because I'm so hypercritical
[18:42] I'm able to get a lot more value out of
[18:43] the games I do play but maybe you're
[18:45] somebody who's tilted you get frustrated
[18:47] at the first mistake Rage Quit FF votes
[18:50] but I mean you have passion for the game
[18:51] you you obviously maybe if you say on
[18:54] Twitter or you complain to your friends
[18:55] League of Legends is a [ __ ] Gabe I hate
[18:57] this gamee but you keep coming back
[19:00] maybe just maybe you are a whiny little
[19:02] baby who really does love the game and
[19:05] that's okay because the game does suck
[19:07] sometimes I love this game I do it for a
[19:09] living but some patches or some M
[19:11] matchups or some Champions or some
[19:13] players are just man they they tilt the
[19:15] [ __ ] out of me so I understand but at
[19:18] the at the core you got that that love
[19:20] in there so don't don't run from the
[19:21] Love One Love or maybe you're a spammer
[19:24] somebody who doesn't really tilt or
[19:25] doesn't really have anxiety but who just
[19:27] mindlessly spams the game maybe you're
[19:29] that 1,700 wins you know SE
[19:32] 1699 losses um Top Lane player from the
[19:36] beginning of the the lecture here where
[19:37] you play 30 plus rank games I would
[19:39] change this to a day you know and you
[19:41] have a high variance in performance some
[19:42] g games you're 010 some games you're 10
[19:44] and zero but you're because you're
[19:46] spamming the game so much you're
[19:47] probably able to pick up Champions and
[19:48] Concepts more fluidly because you know
[19:51] you spend 100 games playing a champion
[19:52] you will inevitably pick up skill at
[19:54] that
[19:55] champion so there's a downside and an
[19:57] upside to either one so understand what
[19:59] makes you up or what yeah what makes you
[20:01] up as a person and make peace with that
[20:04] and say hey these are the cons and these
[20:05] are the pros and what can I do with that
[20:07] and from there we got to take control
[20:09] this is something that I think a lot of
[20:10] people know in their heart of hearts but
[20:12] maybe just don't do but you're a person
[20:14] and you have needs too when I'm like
[20:16] what's that Snickers commercial it's
[20:17] like uh is it Snickers man where they're
[20:18] like are you hungry because you haven't
[20:20] had a Snickers or something they feed
[20:21] them a Snickers and they go from a
[20:22] monster to like a little cutesy little
[20:24] angel or whatever that's unironically
[20:26] you when you're playing a competitive or
[20:28] stressful thing and you are not taking
[20:30] good care of your body I can tell you
[20:31] for a fact that if I haven't eaten or if
[20:34] I'm dehydrated maybe I'm feeling gross
[20:35] cuz I haven't showered yet today I'm too
[20:37] hot or too cold you know I can't feel my
[20:38] hands maybe I'm just super exhausted or
[20:41] I have you know maybe an assignment do
[20:42] at work or back when I was in school I
[20:44] had a you know a quiz du by midnight and
[20:47] here I am queuing up well I'm not really
[20:49] going to be able to play at my best and
[20:50] that stress the the things completely
[20:52] unrelated to the game are going to make
[20:54] it so I'm not able to perform at like my
[20:57] best level of play in the game you don't
[20:59] need to be in perfect condition in order
[21:00] to play ranked you just have to be aware
[21:02] of your current physical and mental
[21:04] status so you can predict how it might
[21:06] affect your performance remember that
[21:07] example of the hot date well if I go in
[21:09] there expecting Michelin star food and I
[21:11] get McDonald's I'm going to be pissed
[21:13] but if I'm like okay I understand I
[21:16] haven't really eaten too much today or
[21:17] maybe I had a bunch of [ __ ] food to eat
[21:19] and I'm a little tired and I've got
[21:21] homework to do as soon as I get done
[21:22] playing so I only have time for two
[21:23] games I go in with McDonald's and I end
[21:26] up with you know Burger King hey that's
[21:30] an upgrade so I'm actually happy even
[21:32] though this is like we can objectively
[21:34] say that Burger King is worse than a
[21:35] Michelin star food but because I'm being
[21:37] realistic about my expectations I'm not
[21:40] disappointed in the slightest so as
[21:42] promised here's my own pre-ranked ritual
[21:44] and I'm not a superstitious person at
[21:46] all but I do believe in the power of
[21:48] habits habits are great because what you
[21:51] really want to do for any sort of
[21:54] improvement or social experiment or even
[21:56] like yeah here I'll relate it to to
[21:57] school cuz everyone love school whenever
[21:59] you do a project in science you don't
[22:02] just all right here's our hypothesis
[22:04] let's just do random [ __ ] and see
[22:05] what happens you have a controlled
[22:07] experiment you have here's a
[22:09] hypothesis all right let's rigorously
[22:11] test it using these like strict
[22:13] guidelines and let's evaluate and then
[22:15] like let's even retest it right so what
[22:17] a ritual does or a pre-ranked ritual
[22:19] here does is if I'm really going to try
[22:21] and improve or play at my top quality
[22:24] performance as often as possible I'm
[22:26] going to recreate the uh circumstances
[22:29] or scenarios as closely as possible
[22:31] every single day this is the same as if
[22:33] you play competitive as well if you
[22:35] practice in scrims well you want that
[22:36] practice in scrims to closely mirror
[22:38] your stage matches right this means like
[22:39] your equipment your mindset you know how
[22:42] seriously you guys are putting intensity
[22:43] into it all of this wants to mirror
[22:45] practice and the actual officials as
[22:47] much as possible to make it more worth
[22:48] your time so what I do for mine is I get
[22:51] a little light exercise in the morning
[22:52] this wakes me up this gets my blood
[22:53] flowing I don't have a super fancy gym
[22:55] membership I go to Planet Fitness and
[22:57] I'm lucky enough that it's a couple
[22:58] minutes drive away but when it's not I
[23:00] don't feel like doing that I'll
[23:01] literally just go walk around my
[23:02] apartment complex a 3 to 5 minute walk
[23:04] so chill and then when I get back from
[23:07] that I'll write a notepad of tasks I
[23:09] need to do for the day and I write
[23:11] everything down even non work school or
[23:13] game related stuff like make my bed or
[23:16] shower or vacuum or eat lunch or you
[23:19] know take the trash out super easy
[23:21] things so I can just start checking
[23:23] things off the list immediately and then
[23:24] feel good about making progress that
[23:26] puts me in a positive and productive
[23:27] mindset for the day
[23:29] then I'll obviously shower I'll clean up
[23:30] and grab a bottle of water that's a for
[23:33] my EU BLS I had to throw that one in
[23:35] there I'll eat A light meal overnight
[23:37] oats or a sandwich usually for for my
[23:39] breakfast SL lunch and then I'll
[23:40] determine how many games I'll play and
[23:42] what my goal is for the day cuz right my
[23:44] My overall ideal is I want to improve
[23:46] and beneath that I'll have okay I'm
[23:49] going to play x amount of like whatever
[23:52] certain tasks per like per week and then
[23:54] how am I going to do that that's the
[23:56] daily goal and each day has its own like
[23:58] little any daily goal that I break it
[23:59] into so I can every day make a little
[24:01] Chip Away progress towards my goal all
[24:03] of this takes maybe an hour tops and
[24:05] I've now made sure that I've taken care
[24:07] of myself for the whole day remember
[24:08] those needs I talked to in the slide
[24:10] previously okay I got a little exercise
[24:12] so I'm feeling positive mentally and
[24:13] physically I've taken care of my needs
[24:16] like water food cleanliness exercise
[24:21] things that are non-related to the game
[24:22] so now when I do play I'm a lot less
[24:24] worried even if I do have assignments or
[24:26] work deadlines that I need to get to I
[24:28] have a structure of okay I have so much
[24:30] time or I have the ability to budget my
[24:33] time so effectively that I'm so much
[24:34] less stressed and I'm allowed to focus
[24:36] more on the game and that naturally
[24:37] leads me to better results so I
[24:39] challenge you right now as the viewer to
[24:41] take two minutes and come up with your
[24:42] own pre-ranked ritual it doesn't need to
[24:44] be as strict as mine but the consistency
[24:46] is what matters because we want
[24:48] consistency things that you can repeat
[24:51] and keep you focused to get your level
[24:53] of gameplay as high as it possibly can
[24:56] reliably and this is the same thing as
[24:58] setting a new year's resolution
[25:00] sometimes people will say all right it's
[25:01] the New Year's I want to go to the gym
[25:03] every single day for the whole year and
[25:05] they get two weeks in and they realize
[25:06] wait this sucks why did I do this why
[25:08] did I say every day why didn't I say two
[25:09] days a week or something more manageable
[25:11] what I highly encourage everyone to do
[25:13] is keep it manageable it's worthless to
[25:17] have a goal that you give up on after a
[25:18] week or two so start small in fact the
[25:20] first thing you thought of cut it back
[25:22] by another 20% so if you said you wanted
[25:24] to play five games a week drop it down
[25:25] to four games a week and then when you
[25:27] stick to that four games a week for
[25:29] several weeks and you feel really good
[25:30] and you're making progress and you say
[25:32] hey this is really manageable then up it
[25:34] but not by a lot up it by one or two
[25:36] right and from there you can keep
[25:38] building and building and building that
[25:39] habit and you will see Improvement we
[25:41] need to talk about stress a little bit
[25:42] because stress also leads into goals or
[25:44] into into tilt and can affect your
[25:46] improvement so we get stressed when
[25:47] we're under pressure obviously right so
[25:49] making split-second decisions and
[25:51] multitasking is very difficult for like
[25:53] almost everybody there's something
[25:54] called mental bandwidth or Ram that you
[25:56] have to think of and this is usually why
[25:59] higher level players or higher ranked
[26:00] players are better than players that are
[26:03] even slightly lower ranked than them I
[26:04] use this comparison a diamond player and
[26:07] an emerald player on paper there's a
[26:09] difference but when you look at their
[26:11] actual in-game skill you might not see
[26:13] that much of a realistic difference in
[26:16] like very specific scenarios maybe
[26:18] you'll see an emerald player has pretty
[26:19] good mechanics compared to a diamond
[26:21] player decent decision making decent
[26:23] csing def decent Champion Mastery but
[26:26] the difference here is the Diamond
[26:28] Player has more knowledge more skills
[26:30] more habits ingrained into their
[26:32] unconscious gameplay than than the
[26:34] emerald player does an emerald player
[26:35] can perform better than a diamond player
[26:38] at sometimes but over a long period of
[26:40] time consistently the diamond player
[26:42] will play better because they are able
[26:43] to use their extra mental bandwidth to
[26:45] focus on other aspects of the game while
[26:47] the emerald player is using all their
[26:49] mental bandwidth just to keep up with
[26:50] the level of the Diamond Player so what
[26:52] I like to do is proactively frontload
[26:54] each game so I know what to expect going
[26:57] in and I can minimize the variables that
[26:58] come into play so I like to run through
[27:01] that pre-ranked checklist or make sure
[27:02] that I did everything I could before I
[27:04] even queue up so I'm I'm in a healthy
[27:05] mindset I like to do stuff like assess
[27:08] team comps like what's my role in the
[27:09] game I like to predict the pathing or
[27:11] predict the enemy's habits you can do
[27:13] this in whatever game you want like in
[27:14] League of Legends it's really I mean if
[27:16] you have a in-depth understanding of the
[27:17] game you'll be able to understand like
[27:19] jungle pathing at least a little bit
[27:20] that's more than fine just to even start
[27:21] thinking about it but in valerant or CS
[27:24] like you'll know if you're playing dust
[27:25] Ste like okay they lost pistol what are
[27:27] they going to do they're going to rush
[27:28] um deciding your preliminary build path
[27:30] or you know like what you're going to
[27:32] what Champions you're going to play uh
[27:33] checking potential win conditions and
[27:35] communic communicating with pings or
[27:36] feeding info to your team even in like
[27:38] Champion Select or before the minions
[27:40] have spawned right all of these things
[27:42] you can do to set yourself up and take a
[27:45] load off of stress and of your mental
[27:47] bandwidth so you can actively think
[27:48] about things that are going to help you
[27:49] improve or win the game do it before the
[27:51] Super difficult team fights happening
[27:53] that are requiring all of your resources
[27:55] Above All Else your rank does not
[27:58] determine your value as a human being I
[28:00] think in the pursuit of growth some
[28:02] people forget this even myself sometimes
[28:04] and I get too hard on myself it is a
[28:06] video game you're supposed to have fun
[28:08] even if you're trying to go pro it's not
[28:10] worth making yourself absolutely
[28:12] miserable so find a way to have fun with
[28:14] it find a way to make peace with it and
[28:16] I hope you enjoy this presentation like
[28:17] comment subscribe bye
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