Your Friend Humiliates You or Raises His Hand? Do This and He'll Respect You

[00:02] whether it's school, university, or work, because someone there treats you badly, bullies you, or makes fun of you, don't let this video slip away. What I'm going to tell you today is the bully's weakness, something they wish you didn't know. Today, I'll show you the world through the

[00:18] bully's eyes and why they choose you specifically to harass, even though they're more concerned with and respectful of other people their own age. Why you? And that's not all! I'll also teach you how to confront them and defend yourself, even if you're trembling and terrified inside. I'll show you how to make them respect you, even if they're a

[00:33] million times stronger than you. Someone might ask, "Shehab, where did you learn all this?" The surprise is that I was a bully myself, so I think I'm the right person to tell you how to deal with them. In short, I've learned their ways and lived among them. So, if you're struggling with this, watch the whole

[00:48] episode because, believe me, you You'll hear something at the end that will shock you. In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful. Good evening, friends. O God, judge between us and our people with truth, for You are the best of judges. Welcome to your favorite program, the program where I vent with everything on my

[01:04] mind. Of course, you might be shocked by what you heard at the beginning of the video. People might be shocked. Is it possible, young man, that you were the bully, the bad person who hurt people's feelings and bullied them? Unfortunately, and to be honest, yes. This is something that

[01:19] me on social media or about me in general, especially since I haven't talked about it before and I don't like to talk about it much because, in short, it's a very bad thing. I mean, we all know that bullying is a very ugly thing, and it took me a lot of time and effort until I was able to eliminate it and

[01:35] get rid of it. And thank God, I overcame that old version of myself, and it's been a very long time since I did that or that I I bullied someone for a long time, like four or five years. Anyway, let's get straight to the point. The past couple of days, in a moment of reflection,

[01:49] I was sitting with myself and thought, why not make a video to help people and tell them how to deal with bullying? Especially since so many people suffer from it, and so many people write me comments and messages daily saying they're being bullied,

[02:02] whether by a friend at school, a classmate at university, in class, or at work—whatever it is. Since I was one of the bullies myself, and I know them and what they do best, I decided to make a video to explain how to deal with a bully,

[02:17] how to stop them, and not just make them stop, but also make them respect you. I'll also tell you what strategies they use that you might not know about, and why they choose you specifically to harass you. He bullies you, even though you've probably noticed that

[02:30] other people your age aren't bullied or harassed. Why is it you? Is it because you're weak and he's stronger, or is there something else you're not aware of? You'll find out all about this in detail now. The most important thing before we start the episode is, if you're experiencing this, write in the

[02:43] comments below exactly what's happening to you and how you feel at that moment. And I want you to focus on every word that will be said in this video because, honestly, without exaggeration, this video could literally change your life. In July 1993-1996, in the middle of summer, there was a

[02:58] person walking in a dark area in a place called Fort Lauderdale. If you don't know what Fort Lauderdale is, it's a very well-known area in America. Anyway, this person, while walking in the dark area and not paying attention, his foot hit something strange. I mean, not a brick or a stone, but something else...

[03:13] The man was shaking his leg, checking if it was a bag or something. He felt something strange, something stuck to the ground. Back then, there were n't phone flashlights to use for light, so the man had a lighter in his pocket. He looked around the ground until

[03:25] he found something like a piece of paper. He lit it to see what it was. As soon as the paper lit up and the world brightened, the man almost fainted from shock. Get ready, because your adrenaline is about to You know what the man was kicking? It wasn't a bag, a purse, or

[03:40] friends. What he was kicking was a murdered young man, lying in a pool of blood on the ground. The man, of course, was terrified when he saw the sight. And since there were no phones back then, he immediately grabbed his things and ran... The nearest place with a phone was nearby. The man entered, looking

[03:54] nervous. "What's wrong? Call the police!" The owner of the place calmed him down and called the police. The police arrived within minutes. " walking in such-and-such area and I saw this and that." " Come on, take us to the place." The police went and

[04:10] found a young man, about 18 to 20 years old, murdered. It wasn't a normal death; the boy had seven stab wounds in his chest, and there were marks on his neck like signs of strangulation. It was as if someone had strangled him with something, something had been wrapped around his neck. It was very disturbing. The police were shocked by the appearance of the body, but at that moment

[04:26] they realized that this crime wasn't normal. Why would someone strangle someone so violently, then stab him seven times? And why seven stab wounds? Why that number? There was something very strange about this. The first thing, the second thing, they suspected that this was a gang that had robbed this boy. The boy

[04:40] was walking alone in a dark place when the gang appeared and demanded, " Get out with what you have!" The boy resisted and refused, so they choked him and were about to kill him. But they were surprised to find that the boy's wallet was still in his pocket, and all the things he had in his bag were still there. He told them, "This isn't robbery, there's something

[04:53] strange about it." Anyway, a few hours later, the authorities conducted their investigation and were able to identify the young man. This young man turned out to be named Bobkin, a 20-year-old from Fort Dreddale. They delved a bit deeper into the details, finding his address, who his family was, and so on. They contacted the boy's family, and when

[05:08] they saw the scene, they broke down. His mother had a severe breakdown, so the police calmed her down and started questioning his family about who was the last person with him. After they calmed the mother down... She told them that he was out with a group of his school friends, and she didn't

[05:22] know them very well, but she knew their closest friend among them. What was the name of this boy? This boy's name is Marty Boyden. Now pay close attention to this boy. The police asked who Marty Boy was, and they told them he was his best friend. "Okay, bring Marty here so we can see what's going on," they said. And indeed, within

[05:37] minutes, the police had brought Marty from his house. As soon as they arrived, they noticed that the boy was very nervous and shaken. Something was bothering him, even though they had n't told him what was wrong. The police knew that if the boy was in this state and didn't know anything, they knew he was

[05:50] hiding something. "Come here, Marty, what happened, son?" The boy kept saying, "I don't know, son, talk!" The boy denied everything. All he kept saying was, "I don't know, guys, and I didn't see him." " you were the last person he was with!" So the police started pressing the boy to talk, pressing, pressing, pressing, until he finally broke down.

[06:06] He completely broke down in Al-Ayad, so the police were surprised at him. “My son, speak up!” The boy confessed and said, “I killed him.” “Oh my God! What nonsense! Why did you do that to your friend, my son?” Imagine the reason: Bobby, who died, was a very bullying, stubborn, threatening, hitting, and

[06:20] Bobby, who died, was a very bullying, stubborn, threatening, hitting, and insulting anyone among his friends. The afraid of him that they couldn’t say no to him about anything. So, who were these young men ? One of them was Marty, Marty, he was his friend and his best friend, but Bobby

[06:33] used to bully him and belittle him in front of people. Among the others who used to talk to him in front of people was a girl named Hezer. This girl will turn the story around now, Hazer. She was in love with Marty, who was Bobby's friend, and she saw that Bobby was insulting him and bullying him in front of his friends.

[06:48] In short, she saw that this matter would not be solved unless Bobby... And Marty and I separated from each other, and of course Bobby the bully did not like these things, so the boy who is Marty and the girl who is Hazar, who he loves, made a diabolical plan. They made Bobby understand that they were going to stay up late, and there would be girls

[07:03] in the place, and Bobby, of course, loved these things, so the boy got up and took his best friend, who was Marty, and of course Marty said to him, “I know a shortcut,” and the teacher walked away. From this dark place, and Hope Marty saved him, this is the story Marty told the police, but between you and me,

[07:17] when the police heard this, they thought, "Yes, maybe the kid killed him, but something's wrong, something's missing. The kid didn't mention it." So the police asked him about the seven stab wounds, and the kid broke down and collapsed to the ground. And that's where the movie started. You know why the kid broke down and collapsed?

[07:31] I'll tell you at the end of the episode, because that's a whole other story. But what I want to tell you is that this crime was classified as one of the most heinous crimes in American history at the time, to the point that all the media was talking about it. And then, eight

[07:45] years later, in 2001, this crime was turned into a movie called "Bally the Bully," and when it was released, it made a million and a half dollars. Can you imagine? That's a huge number in 2001! But you know, guys, when I heard the story, I was shocked. Oh my God! Is it possible that bullying could reach young people in the Sun?

[08:01] Adolescence is like this; a young man's future is ruined. In this particular story, you don't know who you feel more sorry for: the young man who will spend his life in prison because of a classmate who bullied him, or the boy who died in such a brutal way? After all, seven stab wounds are a lot. But

[08:14] honestly, the only thing I'm sure of is how awful bullying is, especially for the victims, because they are the most frequent. I know you'll be shocked to I know you'll be shocked to learn that 130 million students are

[08:27] bullied daily, and more than two-thirds of them experience it almost regularly every day, whether at school, in class, or at university. And the real shocker is that 70% of students here in Egypt are bullied. This is sadly something to say, especially since the

[08:40] majority of us are Muslims and know that God says, " O you who have believed, let not a people ridicule [another] people." Hopefully, he'll be better than them. Can you imagine that seven out of every ten students you see here in Egypt are regularly bullied? That's a huge number, and unfortunately, you

[08:55] could very well be one of them. Someone might be your friend, or maybe they're not just being annoying, but they insult you, make fun of your clothes, your appearance, your walk, and even the way you walk. They might be disrespectful, and your friend, or maybe they're not just being annoying, but they insult you, make fun of your clothes, your appearance, your walk, and even the way you walk. They might be disrespectful, and

[09:08] person might even dare to hit you and humiliate you in front of your friends and everyone else. Of course, you're about to explode with anger. You go home and keep talking to yourself: "Why didn't I do this to him? Why didn't I stop him and hit him? I shouldn't have reacted that way, especially since he embarrassed me in

[09:23] front of my friends, and they might have laughed at him." You reach a point where you hate yourself. When the situation passes and the next time it happens, you go to class, school, or university feeling very tense and anxious, praying, "Oh God..." Imagine if the person who bullies you

[09:37] never saw you again. And if you did see them, oh my god, your heart would pound, your pulse would race, and you'd feel like your heart had dropped. You'd be gripped by anxiety, unable to control yourself, and your only thought would be, "Please

[09:50] don't let them talk to me." Because if they do what they always do, I don't know how to respond or get my rights back. Plus, they embarrass me in front of my friends. First of all, I understand how psychologically damaging this is. I know it's suffocating you, consuming your thoughts, and often even driving you to sleep in tears.

[10:04] If you're a girl, it can leave you crying because someone is talking to you in a mean way, gossiping about you, or making you feel like you're the outcast in your group. I understand all of this perfectly. Why do I understand? Because I was bullied too, and I'll tell you. Before, I was bullied.

[10:18] What was the point? I wasn't a bully, I wasn't a bully myself. What I'm trying to say is that I understand how you feel. I just want you to forget all that and focus on what I'm about to say because it's the key to the story. To

[10:30] look at this from a completely different angle, we need to do two things. First, please put aside your feelings of guilt and self-flagellation, and the questions like, " Why didn't you do this?" and "Why didn't you do that?" Please, put that aside for now. Second, we need to ask ourselves a simple question: Why does a bully bully in the first place? Because they were

[10:46] n't born that way. Bullying is something learned. Something psychological happened to them that made them the way they are. When I started thinking about this to understand its causes, I discovered that bullies bully people for three reasons. If you understand them and deal with them correctly,

[11:00] you'll solve your problems with the bully. In 95% of cases, the first of these things is humor. Someone bullies another person to be funny and make the people around him laugh. Of course, you surely know one of these people who wants to collect attention in front of those with him or those present. You will find that he has no

[11:14] problem belittling a person, even if it is one of his friends, in order to make the group laugh. Why does he bully one of his friends in front of a group of his friends? So they can laugh, God bless them, the boss is busy laughing or making fun of someone, whether a friend or not. Why? Because there are girls involved, of course. I'm not making this up, and

[11:27] you surely know an example of these people. Pay attention: the person who bullies to get laughs, that's the feeling they feed on—to laugh. Let me explain what I mean. It's not about the bully at all; it's about the laughter that people will make after they bully that person.

[11:41] Always notice this: when they're bullying, you'll always find their eyes on those around them, not on the person they're bullying. Why? Because they want to see the look of acceptance in their eyes, the look that they're accepted among them, the look that says, "Look, I'm laughing, I'm cool," when they're not cool at all. And I'll tell you why. Now, there's the

[11:54] second type of bully, the one who sees you as better than them—better than them in studies, better than them at work, better than them in dealing with people. They might even be better than them in looks and features, since God created them perfectly fine, but this person has a certain... This person has a flaw in their perspective.

[12:08] If they get the chance to befriend you, or if you have mutual friends, they'll initially try to befriend you. But once you become friends, they'll find fault with everything to put you down, even the smallest things. They'll try to make you feel like a

[12:26] very angry and love to do this in front of others. It could all be over a PlayStation game, you know? It's a silly thing, but they deliberately bully you about everything, in front of everyone. And this type of bullying isn't just for fun. The kind of bullying

[12:43] laugh, but this type of bullying, even if they say they're just joking, you'll notice the underlying malice. Their bullying is a kind of... The first type is the bully, not the bully. It's like they're taking out their frustration on you in some trivial way. The

[12:59] This is someone whose family, friends in kindergarten, and school bullied them when they were little. They had a somewhat unhealthy childhood, and as they grew up, they saw bullying as the only way to defend themselves. Over time, they become a bully.

[13:12] Why do they do this? To feel strong. If you say one thing to them, they'll respond with ten. In their own eyes, they're say one thing to them, they'll respond with ten. In their own eyes, they're In my opinion, these are the three reasons why a bully might bully. Of course, there are

[13:25] other reasons, so we shouldn't limit it to just these three, but in my view, these are the most common reasons for bullies. When you look at these three types of bullies... Whether he bullies to make you laugh, because you're better than him, or

[13:38] because he was bullied himself, you'll find that they all share one feeling that drives them: their sense of inadequacy. The bully has a constant and terrible feeling that he's not enough in his own eyes and in the eyes of others. So, the one who bullies

[13:52] someone to make them laugh isn't really trying to be clever with the person he's bullying as much as he wants to find someone who ca n't respond to him so people will laugh at him. People's laughter and attention feed him and make him feel accepted. He doesn't feel his own worth in his own eyes or in their midst; he's just an ordinary person. So,

[14:06] his bullying is proof of his existence among them. Honestly, the bully is weaker than you can imagine. He's someone with an unnatural psychological fragility, to the point where you feel sorry for him. Don't be afraid of him. Can you imagine how he resorts to something so awful just to stand out among his friends and the group he's

[14:20] in? He can't imagine that people can accept him as he is. He's just a normal person, so from his perspective, he feels compelled to bully to stand out among them. Similarly, the other two types feel an unnatural inferiority complex, whether it's the one who bullies you because he sees you as better than him, or the one who bullies because he was bullied himself. Both

[14:34] have a terrible sense of inadequacy. The first one compares himself to you, focusing on his own shortcomings, which leads him to bully you. The second one lacks self-confidence and believes that strength and respect come from bullying. Look, young man, your point is

[14:49] very logical. The bully is indeed weak and all, but putting all that aside, despite his weakness, I can't do anything. When he comes to bully me, or insult me, or make fun of me, or raise his hand against me, I become speechless. Even if I retaliate, I feel like I haven't gotten my

[15:04] due. When I see him, I get nervous, my heart sinks, and I wish the earth would open up and swallow me because I know that if he saw me... He will make me look bad in front of my friends. Well, I understand your feelings and I will now give you a very practical solution to this issue, but first I want you to have a

[15:18] kind of sense of entitlement inside you. Forget about the bully for now, we will not respond to him and we will not engage in discussions with him. I just want you to see from within that you deserve to be treated with respect by people. You deserve this. You are no less than anyone else; everyone respects you. I want you to feel

[15:31] this feeling inside you and believe it, even if you are afraid of it. We will come to this problem now and solve it. The second thing is that you must know that the bully's weakness is not in him. Everyone, I swear to God, is focused on one point, and his weakness is not there at all. The bully's weakness lies

[15:45] in the person in front of him. The stronger and more assertive a person's personality is, the more the bully will fear making fun of or bullying them, and will avoid them. Conversely, the weaker the person's boundaries are, and the more the bully feels they are stronger, the more the bully will escalate their behavior. Believe me,

[16:00] bullies are terrified of people with strong personalities. Okay, so, my personality isn't strong, to be honest. Let's talk this through logically. First, like I said, train yourself to feel deserving. Make yourself feel, deep down, that you deserve to be

[16:14] treated with respect by everyone. Now, if you have a bully in your life, you're likely going through one of these three scenarios. The first scenario is that this person hasn't bullied you before. You might ask, "How is that possible? We're talking about them bullying me!" Let me explain. They're a

[16:27] bully in general, but they haven't had the chance to bully you yet. They haven't befriended you, they haven't made a name for themselves. You're just walking around... You're with him, but deep down you're afraid he might bully you someday. If you're still new to him, then listen, don't, don't, don't befriend him!

[16:41] Don't befriend him in any way, shape, or form. Forget about the person you were friends with. He has to test you, so avoid him completely. You're know him yet, and he hasn't bullied you, but you're worried about him. The second scenario is that you're

[16:56] sitting with him now, you've just met him, you're befriending him for the first time, or he's friends with some of your friends. You're talking, and then he bullies you or insults you, insults about your mother, insults about your family.

[17:08] This is a clear red line for you; no one should joke with you about it for a joking around. If someone is joking around and does n't make fun of us, we can joke around with people normally. This person is deliberately trying to belittle us and bully us in front of people, and you felt annoyed or

[17:24] embarrassed in front of those sitting there. Look, I'll tell you 20 times, don't, don't, don't, don't let it slide, Shehab. Because I don't know, Shehab, because I'm afraid, Shehab, because I don't know how to embarrass anyone. I know you're a respectable person, but there's a saying we said before in the fights episode: don't be embarrassed, embarrass the one who embarrassed

[17:39] you, because when he embarrassed you, he wasn't embarrassed to embarrass you. Sorry, I know you're worried and trembling and you don't know how to win anyone over and all that. I want you, with all these feelings, to stand up and confront him. Tell him, "Please don't joke with me like that again," or "Hey, don't swear." Stand up and say

[17:52] this firmly, even if your legs are shaking. Stand up and say it, don't be afraid. You know why? Because you'll gain two things from something like this. First, when you confront him in front of others and tell him not to do that, he'll be hesitant to do it again because you've shown him your limits. And you didn't just show him that in front of him

[18:06] alone; you showed it in front of the group he bullied you in front of. As I told you, a bully derives his value and image from the people around him, so he won't want you to respond or put him down because that will diminish his image in the eyes of those

[18:20] around him. I hope you understand this point. The second gain is that you'll go home feeling good about yourself. You'll have incredible confidence inside, knowing, " I spoke up, I knew how to stand up for myself." And in front of people and all that, I was still able to tell him, "Don't do that. You'll feel

[18:33] incredibly confident. You're no longer someone who, when faced with a problem, doesn't confront it and just keeps it bottled up inside and cries. Now you're someone who faces things, even if you're scared inside. Believe me, that fear will go away with time. But the most important thing is that you face it." And the most important point is when you're telling him, "Don't

[18:48] joke with him like that again, or don't swear again. Don't even make it sound like a joke. He's saying, 'Hey, don't swear again.' He doesn't like swearing. There's no joking around because if you make it sound like a joke, I swear to God, he'll swear at you again because he'll think you were joking. Bullies like people who

[19:01] give them space, who set clear boundaries. When you treat them like I told you, they'll think twice before saying anything to you. And avoid befriending bullies because we all know that A friend can influence you. If you befriend a bully, one of two things will automatically happen: either they'll

[19:16] bully you, or you'll learn to bully from them. You're not like them, and they're not like you. So avoid befriending a bully so you don't find yourself in situations where you wish you hadn't befriended them. The third scenario, unfortunately, is common among most viewers of this episode, and I'm

[19:30] laughing because I know it's the majority. It's when I'm stuck with a bully. They didn't just bully me once and I stayed silent; they bullied me once, twice, three times, four times, and the situation escalated. It might even reach the point of physical violence. They might insult me, make fun of me, or belittle me in front of my friends and

[19:45] everyone else. When you tell them this isn't right, they just keep doing it and say, " I'm just joking." One of the things that infuriates me the most is when someone tells me, "My friend is joking around with me by hitting me." That's not... This joke is making you look bad. I was just sitting with

[19:58] our classmates is joking around with us, hitting us on the hips. I swear to God, it's incomprehensible. So, if you're hanging out with this person and this bully is your friend, or you have a relationship with him, or this bullying has happened to you more than once, what would you do ? Look, I know you're afraid to confront him right away.

[20:13] Since you let him bully you repeatedly, you've ended up being afraid to confront him, or when you do, you feel weaker. I want you to start putting yourself in situations that involve some form of confrontation, even something small. For example, if someone is rude and infringes on your

[20:27] rights, politely say, " Excuse me, I'm here." Or if someone cuts in front of you go to get something for the house and when you get back they tell you, "We need to return this item," and you ask them to return it. These situations aren't infringing on your rights, but you're putting yourself in a confrontational position. But

[20:42] believe me, these small situations will build you up in the future. Keep doing this. Try to confront situations, face the small ones, face all the problems you encounter in your life. Don't be afraid, feel capable, and one day, my friend, you'll be able to do it. Cut off contact with that guy. Don't

[20:56] talk to him. You might say, " the courage to stand up to him. Tell him, "Hey, don't joke around with me." He'll say, "What's wrong,

[21:08] I'm your friend, I was just joking around," tell him, "No, we're not friends, so you can't joke around with me." Stand him up straight. He'll be upset and embarrassed. He'll wonder why he put himself in that situation. And then see where things go. I think if you're firm, even if he tries to do it again, and you're even more firm the

[21:21] firm, even if he tries to do it again, and you're even more firm the threat to him. Of course, I'm talking about someone who's a bully, someone who's respectable, not a thug. Because if he's a thug, and he's known for doing that... He's doing wrong things and I don't know

[21:34] what else, and he's always fighting, really bad fights. You'll definitely end up filing a complaint against him. I'm not encouraging any kind of physical fights, but you absolutely must cut ties with the person who's bullying you. Understand that if he keeps bullying you,

[21:48] you're still friends with him in some way. Make it direct and clear: cut him off. That's why I always say you shouldn't be friends with this person in the first place. Forget about ever being friends

[22:00] awkward situations, maybe he'll act up or something, but as long as you're firm, he'll be scared. And I'll say it again: cut him off, even if he's forgotten about you, even if he starts seeing someone else and bullies someone else. Don't laugh at that other person, because one day you'll be in his shoes. If someone

[22:14] bullies you, don't befriend them, don't flatter them in anything, cut them off completely. You'll find them again and again as long as you give them the time of day in front of others. They'll be afraid of their image; they actually thrive on people's opinions. You understand? But the most important thing for me, and the one thing

[22:27] I'm completely satisfied with after all this video, is that you face your problems and don't be afraid. Believe me, a moment of facing them, even when you're scared inside, your body tense, and your legs trembling, is better than a million moments of staying silent and letting bullying or insults slide. You don't deserve this. You're a

[22:43] person who deserves respect from everyone, whether they're older or younger than you. A bully doesn't bully you to weaken you; they bully you because your boundaries aren't clear to them. I mean, let someone treat you badly, humiliate you, or insult you? What makes you so important? Reinforce

[23:00] your worth. In your own eyes, you absolutely don't deserve this. Don't accept this for yourself. You're no less than anyone else in the world, so why would you allow someone to treat you this way? Believe me, when you truly feel your worth, it automatically reaches people. If I were to give you one takeaway

[23:14] from this episode, it's to face it head-on and don't be afraid. Face any problem in the world. Throw yourself into it. There's no problem without a solution. We'll get tired, yes, we'll get tired. We'll get annoyed, yes, we'll get annoyed. We'll get upset, yes, we'll get upset. But the honor of facing it is enough, even if you fail. At least you tried. Sorry I got a little carried away and got carried away, but honestly, I can't

[23:29] Sorry I got a little carried away and got carried away, but honestly, I can't insulted. I can't accept anyone feeling humiliated or having their worth diminished. Don't let yourself feel that way at all. This doesn't mean you should be aggressive or mean to others, and it also does

[23:43] n't mean that if someone wrongs you or treats you badly... In a way that is not appropriate for you, and he came to apologize to you, but you do not accept his apology. No, you are a friendly, tolerant, and kind person, and you deal with everyone, but you do not allow anyone to cross their boundaries with you. If someone crosses their boundaries with you, you

[23:59] must make them know your boundaries. By God, if he is a truly mature person, he will know that he has upset you, and therefore he will come to apologize to you, and the relationship will continue perfectly. But if he is upset or his personality is bullying, then it is not appropriate for him to be right. But I feel that I have said everything I needed to say on this subject. Now, regarding

[24:12] the story we told at the beginning of the episode, the boy who was friends with the bully collapsed when he heard his friend had died from seven stab wounds. This is because the shocking truth is that this boy didn't commit the crime alone; seven of his friends participated. The logical question is why? Because these seven were bullies, and

[24:26] Bobby, the bully who was killed, was bullying them all. His best friend put a rope around his neck and strangled him, while the other seven each stabbed him in the chest. And don't forget that facing the bully while you're trembling, terrified, and unable to stand is better than a million moments of

[24:42] accepting humiliation. And as always, don't forget to share.